Come on, let s popularize why so many netizens are dying when they meet

I have the following feelings about the phenomenon of netizens "dying when they see the light" after meeting the liquid stool:

First of all, the illusion caused by information asymmetry when netizens communicate is one of the reasons. When communicating online, we only construct the impression of the other person through limited information, which inevitably leads to a certain amount of imagination and idealization. When meeting again, the difference between the two can cause people to feel delusional and uncomfortable, which may lead to the interruption of the relationship, which can be called "seeing the light and dying" to a certain extent.

Secondly, the lack of face-to-face interaction in online communication is also one of the reasons. Although online communication can get a certain degree of ideological fit, in fact, we don't know much about each other's living habits and interactions. The appearance of these differences after meeting will make the two people feel alienated in the actual relationship, which can easily lead to the termination of the relationship, because we are social people after all, and we need to get along face-to-face.

Thirdly, the appearance of the other person will also have a certain effect. When we interact online, we often make a certain imagination about each other's appearance, but if the appearance is quite different from the imagination when we meet, it will also make people unexpectedly uncomfortable, and this feeling is enough to make a stable and developing online relationship face interruption. Because appearance is also a more important aspect of emotional communication, this needs to be prepared online.

Finally, differences in the state of life can also lead to this outcome. Online we can hide our real life, but this difference will still be visible when we meet. If there is a big gap in terms of living conditions and conditions, this will also make the two estranged in the process of dating, and it will be difficult to achieve a real fit, which is also one of the reasons why netizens face difficulties in their relationship after meeting.

Therefore, the asymmetry of information, the limitations of online communication, the difference in appearance, and the gap in the state of life are the main reasons why it is difficult for netizens to develop their relationship after meeting. This requires us to be prepared to minimise the impact of these differences in our online interactions. If you understand and accept these differences before you meet, then the communication after meeting will not be so rusty and difficult, and the relationship between netizens is expected to continue to develop in reality.

This requires both sides to make necessary ideological adjustments and work together so that the relationship can last for a long time.

1. Program Background:

The popularization and development of the Internet has made it possible for people to meet friends from all over the world through social software, forums and other means. However, when netizens meet, there are often situations where they see light and die. Why is that?

2. Problem elaboration:

1.It often happens that netizens see light dying when they meet;

2.The background of netizens meeting, getting to know each other at the morning banquet is another way;

3.The main problem of netizens meeting;

3. Objectives of the study:

1.Find out the problem of netizens dying when they meet;

2.Propose solutions to reduce the occurrence of photodeath.

4. Research Methods:

1.online questionnaires;

2.Interview.

5. Research content:

1.The reason for the death of the light appeared when netizens met;

2.how to improve communication skills in the context of the Internet;

3.how to prepare the conversation topic before the meeting of netizens;

4.How to maintain long-term friendships and associations.

6. Research Results:

1.The main reasons for the death of netizens when they meet are (1) the two parties are unfamiliar with each other and do not know how to talk; (2) Topic list.

1. Boring and boring; (3) There is no interest in each other, and the other party is not interested;

2.The ways to improve communication skills in the context of the Internet are as follows: (1) actively participate in online social networking and increase their own communication experience; (2) Watch more high-quality content on the Internet to improve your cultural literacy; (3) increase one's own knowledge;

3.The way to prepare a conversation topic before meeting with netizens is to (1) find common ground and formulate common topics; (2) Focus on and pay attention to current hot topics and prepare your own opinions; (3) What are the interests of the other party and make relevant preparations;

4.The way to maintain long-term friendship and interaction is to (1) maintain communication, and often communicate to a certain extent through Lu Closed Bank and pay attention to the situation of the other party; (2) Reciprocity, don't always ask, you should want to make some contributions for yourself.

7. Conclusion: The main reason for the death of netizens when they meet is that their communication skills are not strong and the topics are not novel. On the basis of improving communication skills and preparing topics for conversation, it is possible to maintain a long-term friendship and relationship.

8. Suggestions: 1Communicate more, share more, accumulate more;

2.Expand your network and expand your circle of friends;

3.Enhance cultural literacy, improve one's reading ability and knowledge level.

4.Insist on maintaining your interpersonal relationships and maintaining good communication and interaction.

The reasons why netizens always meet light death when they meet may be the following:

1.There is a difference between online and physical socialization: While online social networking makes it easier for people to connect, there is a huge difference between online social networking and physical social networking.

On the Internet, people can more easily express their thoughts and emotions, while in real life, face-to-face interactions need to take into account various social norms, etiquette, and expressions.

2.The gap between the online avatar and the real image: Many netizens have their own "online avatar" on the Internet, and they can express their thoughts and emotions through QQ, WeChat, Weibo and other social tools, but there is a big gap between the online avatar and the real image in real life.

When netizens meet in real life, they may find that there are big differences between them, which leads to the failure of communication.

3.Lack of communication skills and social skills: Although online social networking makes it easier for people to connect, communicating successfully online does not mean that they can communicate successfully in real life.

Many netizens may lack communication skills and social skills, and cannot handle their emotions and expressions in face-to-face communication, resulting in communication failure.

To sum up, the reasons why netizens always meet light death when they meet are more complex, including the difference between online social networking and real social networking, and the gap between online avatars and real images, as well as the lack of communication skills and social skills.

Netizens always see the light and die when they meet, and this phenomenon can be explained from the following aspects:

1.No common topic: Internet users may only know each other through communication on the Internet, and if there is no common topic or common interest, it will be difficult to maintain communication after meeting, resulting in embarrassment and discomfort.

2.The online image does not match the real image: On the Internet, people can show their image by modifying their information and uploading beautiful faces**, but in fact, when meeting face-to-face, the real image may not match the online image, causing the other party to be disappointed and uncomfortable.

3.Lack of trust: Since the communication between netizens is basically based on the Internet, there is a lack of real face-to-face communication and contact, so there may be trust problems between each other, and this lack of trust will affect the communication and getting along with netizens after meeting.

4.Prejudice and misunderstandings: Communication on the Internet tends to be short and direct, which can easily lead to misunderstandings and biases. When netizens meet, they find that each other is different from what they expected, and it is easy to have negative emotions and unpleasant experiences.

In view of these problems, it is suggested that before meeting, the two parties should have some in-depth understanding and exchanges, try to find common topics and hobbies, and regret or increase the sense of promotion between each other. At the same time, maintain a truthful and honest attitude, and try to avoid creating untrue images and information on the Internet. In addition, it is best to choose a public place or a gathering with many people in front of the old people to increase a sense of security and self-confidence, and reduce embarrassment and discomfort.

Netizens meet and see light death, which means that people who meet online quickly lose contact or the relationship becomes awkward after meeting in reality. There are many reasons for this phenomenon, and here are some possible ones:

Therefore, when netizens meet and find that each other is not in line with their imagination in reality, they may feel disappointed or embarrassed, which can lead to estrangement of the relationship.

2.Misalignment of interests and values: While there may be many common topics and interests online, in reality, you may find that you and the other person have different values and lifestyles, which can also lead to estrangement in the relationship.

3.Different ways of communicating and getting along: communicating online tends to be simpler and more direct, while in reality it requires more communication and getting along skills. When netizens find out that they communicate and get along with each other differently in reality, it may lead to estrangement in the relationship.

4.Instability of online relationships: Online relationships are often unstable and may be affected by third-party factors, such as the involvement of others, changes in the network environment, and so on.

When these factors occur, it may make the otherwise stable online relationship unstable, resulting in a lack of ties between netizens.

In general, there are various reasons for netizens to meet and see light and die. If we want to avoid this phenomenon, we need to build a more authentic and stable relationship online, and pay attention to how we communicate and get along in real life. At the same time, we also need to maintain an open and inclusive mind, respecting each other's differences and individuality, in order to build a more stable and healthy relationship.

<> netizens always see the light when they meet, and the reasons for the death may be as follows:

Differences between online and offline: On the Internet, people can communicate through text, expressions, etc., which is relatively easy. But once you meet, you may need to face various problems in reality, such as appearance, personality, hobbies, etc., which may be different from the image on the Internet, resulting in a gap when meeting.

High expectations: On the Internet, people tend to beautify their image and life too aggressively, resulting in high expectations of each other. When actually meeting, if the image and life in reality are not as expected in some way, it can lead to disappointment and death.

Lack of realism: Some netizens may find that the other person is different from their imagined image when they meet, and the lack of realism leads to a sense of alienation when they meet.

Lack of preparation: Some netizens may not be fully prepared when they meet, such as not knowing what to talk about, how to deal with the embarrassing situation when meeting, etc., resulting in embarrassment and silence during the meeting, and eventually leading to the death of the light.

In short, there may be many reasons why netizens always see the light and die when they meet, and they need to be fully prepared before meeting, establish real communication and communication, and lower expectations to increase the success rate and comfort of meeting.

Netizens will always "see the light and die" when they meet, mainly because of the following reasons:

1.The difference between virtual and real life: The Internet provides a virtual space for people to build their social circles on the Internet.

However, in real life, people have to face more problems and challenges when getting along with each other, including various differences in personality, habits, interests, etc. Because of this, netizens who communicate and meet on the Internet may not be able to resonate and connect in real life.

2.Lack of sufficient communication and understanding: When netizens communicate on the Internet, they may only see the other party's brief information, text or even **, which often cannot fully represent a person's true situation.

In real life, if both parties do not have enough time and opportunities to get to know each other better, it is difficult to build a relationship of mutual understanding and trust.

3.Lack of psychological safety: In online communication, people often experience a false sense of security, and even if they say what they are psychologically speaking, they will not be really harmed.

But in real life, people often need to bear certain pressures and risks, and it is not so easy to really open their hearts.

4.Social phobia: Most people have some social phobia that they may encounter even in real life.

When netizens meet in real life, they may become shy and nervous, and this emotion may make both parties feel unable to relax and engage in understanding and communicating with each other.

In short, netizens are prone to "seeing the light and dying" when they meet, mainly due to the difference between virtual and real life on the Internet, lack of adequate communication, insufficient psychological security, and social fear. If you want to avoid this, you need to build a deeper relationship with the other person in the online communication and give the other person as much understanding and support as possible. At the same time, in real life, it is necessary to respect each other's differences and Wang Jian's personality, and gradually establish a healthy and stable relationship of mutual trust and understanding.

There will be a phenomenon of "seeing the light and dying" when netizens meet, mainly for the following reasons:

1.Expectations are too high. Netizens are prone to overly idealized fantasies through text or ** communication, and have too high expectations for each other's impressions in advance. After meeting in person, it is inevitable that you will face a gap in reality, resulting in a sense of gap and disappointment.

2.There is a big difference between virtual and real interactions. Online interactions are virtual, and people can control what they say and do.

Real meetings require face-to-face and real-time communication, and it is inevitable that there will be obstacles and embarrassment, and it is difficult to continue the relaxed "cynicism" on the Internet. This can create a sense of stress and discomfort.

3.There is a real sense of distance and alienation of Shinwu. Although there is a certain tacit understanding and familiarity between netizens, after all, it will still seem rusty when they meet face-to-face for the first time.

Coupled with the physical distance between netizens, it is necessary to re-adapt to this sense of intimacy when meeting, which is also easy to cause a sense of psychological distance and it is difficult to let go of each other.

4.The influence of external factors. In addition to the above-mentioned subjective reasons, differences in external factors such as the other person's appearance, mannerisms, speech, and surrounding environment can also affect the impressions and feelings generated. This can also be one of the reasons for "seeing the light and dying".

5.A sense of responsibility for authentic interactions. Online interactions are casual and can be withdrawn or ended at any time.

Meeting in person means that the interaction will be deeper and more continuous, which can bring invisible pressure about the future, worrying about whether the real interaction will be as smooth as it is online, which is why people are "embarrassed to meet" or have a sense of distance.

Therefore, in general, the phenomenon of "slippery grip or light death" when netizens meet is mainly due to the big difference between virtual and real interactions between netizens, the gap between idealized fantasy and reality in advance, the real sense of alienation and distance, the influence of external environmental factors, and the sense of responsibility brought about by real interactions. Stress, embarrassment and disappointment are the main causes of this phenomenon.