Every time I come out to work, I feel much more difficult than others, I don t know if it s psycholo

It's probably your own mind. Everyone has to do things with their hearts, work hard to do it, there are many situations that I don't know clearly, I think someone is willing to succeed, willing to be easy, in fact, he spent a lot of time behind his back, hard work. Don't worry, this situation is normal.

I don't know what I'm talking about, but I tell you it's definitely psychological.

People always think that they are special, that they always suffer more than others when they endure hardships, and that they always get less benefits than others.

If you look at the people around you, and think about yourself and other people, you can be open-minded.

Do you think you're having a hard time? I'm telling you, I think I'm having a hard time too.

I'm working here, I work 2 jobs, I hurt my hand once, I can't get anything, and I have to stick to the second job. When I was doing my second job, I was thinking, "It's so hard."

Later, my friend called me, and he told me how hard he worked, and I said that I was busy, and I was tired, and he said that he was busier than me and more tired than me. That's when I instantly felt what I had said at the beginning.

In fact, everyone is tired and miserable. It's because everyone is suffering. So you're not actually a bitter class.

Got it? To put it another way, you think you're miserable, but to others you may see it as such

In the same way, when others are complaining about being tired over there, do you sometimes just feel that they are average, and call them dead and alive?

Remember the saying that more work gets more

Find a permanent job.

If you're not confident, you can try to go to the insurance industry or work as a salesman.

Probably because of your psychology.

There should be both! Be strong!

Mentality is the most important, and when you encounter troubles, you have to do it.

Say it, talk to a friend or a close friend on the know, and everyone can give you ideas.

Suggestion to the landlord: enlighten and relax your heart; Give yourself plenty of encouragement; Do what you love; Shopping or climbing or running, the wonder of life lies in their own choice, happiness and troubles are multiple choices, lies in our choice, may the landlord be happy! The watchtower lord adopted.

It's the same kind of person as me, the same distress, let's make friends.

I'm like that, too.

So what you need to do now is analyze it.

Society and school are two different places, many students are deceived for this reason, society is very complicated, you can't be too naïve all day long when you enter society, although some things you look very dissatisfied with some language, you listen to it very unpleasantly, but you can't change it, so you are annoyed.

If you keep doing this, you will be eliminated by society.

Remember: when you enter society, it's you who adapts to society, not society that adapts to you!

Learn to change yourself!

This is normal! There's nothing to worry about, and it's also a great way to divert your attention a little more.

How could it be abnormal.

You should try to blend in with them, listen to their topics, try to talk to them, and although you're not abnormal, it's not good to be so introverted.

It can be seen that you are a sensitive girl, but you have to let yourself not think so much, the psychological burden is too heavy, but it is not good.

You should be more closed-minded!

You can try to communicate with others and you'll feel a lot better! Give it a try! Huh

People in society are all interests, and everyone just needs to look at their faces, and there is no need to look at other people's faces.

No, how can this be considered abnormal?? There are a lot of things like this, maybe it's because the hobbies are different! Or maybe you have a different personality!! o(∩_o...It can't be a mental problem

How did you come up with this idea? I don't think it's a big deal.

Can you please relax? Trust me, you have no problem.

Because you're more introverted8.

It's not a psychological problem

You have just integrated into society and a new life, and anyone will have discomfort, not to mention that you are introverted by nature and do not like to talk.

Secondly, in society, everyone may be working hard for life, so it is normal for them to not know each other very well.

As long as you integrate into them with a normal heart and a sincere heart, and integrate into the collective feeling, I believe that you will gradually get rid of the current troubles.

Don't worry, this is a normal phenomenon, for students who have just graduated and entered the society, they will be more or less afraid or even resistant to the community, and its direct manifestation is the attitude towards others. But you have to learn to adapt, to adapt to other people, to adapt to society. Even if you don't want to see or hear, you need to be reluctant, which is the least way to survive.

Open your heart to people as much as you can, let others into your life, and you will be part of others. I'm not worried about what you said about being introverted, but in two or three years, you will definitely become able to speak and believe in me, even if you don't want to, society will change you.

Give a bounty point...

It's okay, it's normal, it should be fine slowly.

Haha, you don't like gossip, you should be very trustworthy, because working outside, the content of what people talk about is basically gossip (I'm not wrong), talking about work is rarely the same as talking to classmates at school, and it's no longer just about people-to-people communication.

It's not that you're abnormal, it's that you're not experiencing the one environment you want. But you also have to gossip once in a while.

How do you have this kind of thought too?

No, maybe it's a different vision, a psychological effect.

A lot of people are introverts. Do you "make friends not in many, but in fineness?" Is a friend a confidant? ”

For people who you don't know as friends in your heart, you don't subconsciously get too close to them, or even if you want to have a good relationship with them, you don't know where to start?

The mastery of friendship sometimes requires going with the flow. Even if you can't be friends with them, you can't be enemies.

You can bai

It's too much psychological pressure.

du, and I can't find a suitable way to vent.

Only then will dao refer to the person who is closest to you in the form of anger. This is not true, and you understand.

I hope it will help you.

1. Carefully understand your psychological pressure and find appropriate solutions.

3. Learn to control your emotions and experience the harm of this nameless fire to your loved ones.

Learn to be cheerful, bold is the most important thing, joke with others, and be friendly with others.

For example, when he arrived at a new ring and was not familiar with his tablemate, he took the initiative to say to him: Hello, what is your name, I have to ask you to take care of it.

Or when you meet a classmate, you just say: Hey, isn't this big brother? I heard that you sent it, treat it After that, the younger brother will rely on the support of the eldest brother, haha The expression has to be cooperated, just get along for a few months and tell him that we are classmates for decades, what is polite, I will treat you to a face after class

It's okay to be at home and have good relationships with friends and classmates

Have the courage to admit your mistakes, such as: I'm sorry, I'm really sorry, I don't know how to be a person, and please be considerate

You have to say hello to others more, don't always think about others saying hello, for the kind of domineering people who like to bully people, it depends on whether you want to or not

Your plight is truly sympathetic. But I want to say, lz don't resent the injustice of the world or anything, because the world is inherently unfair, maybe you don't know it when you're young, but the truth is so cruel. Friendship and love are all to be gained, not if you feel sorry for yourself, it will come.

Encounters from childhood can definitely make you colder, unapproachable, and insecure and trusting. So you have to learn to smile, learn to make friends, and don't always complain about your life. You can't choose your own parents, but your life has just begun, and you can choose your own life.

Don't let your parents influence you for the rest of your life, you can still change. Believe in yourself, as long as you work hard and live seriously, you will definitely have a happy day. Let go of the resentment in your heart, you think about why your mother endured all this, what you want is to change this life, rely on your own hands, and work hard for everything that belongs to you.

Don't do anything that violates the law, I'm a lawyer, and I can tell you responsibly, even if you can't sentence yourself to death, but you are exchanging everything for your future, it's not worth it, and that kind of father is not worth it.

LZ, don't be sad. If you feel that you can't stand it and want to vent, just use a notebook and write down all your heartfelt words. Treat the book as your best best bosom friend.,Vent all the pain.。

If you really can't do it, save money with your mother, and if you can't, leave your father.

And lz, you have to study hard. Think about yourself, think about your mother. After graduating from high school, go out to work and support you and your mother. After all, my mother is so old. Don't rely on your dad for a living.

And please don't use force with your dad. One is that he is your father after all, and it is really not good to use force. Be patient.

Be careful, too. The second is that if you use force with him, you will be at a disadvantage. The strength is definitely not as good as Dad's.

Plus, he's drinking again, so he's about to go berserk, right?

When you go to school, tell your mom to watch out for your dad just in case something happens. If you really can't do it, ask your mother to bring a fruit knife.

Above, please think twice.

I wish you to come out of this psychological shadow and live a stable life with your mother!

Don't be sad!

First of all, the family environment has a certain impact on your growth, but the key is to rely on yourself. I think it's because you can't let go of a lot of things from the past in your heart, and you always remember things that don't belong to you, so you can't find what happiness is. In fact, your personality is not particularly withdrawn, introverted, if you are really such a person, you will not be able to write such words, but you like to think so you talk less, always think about some problems and end up ignoring yourself.

My childhood was also a bit monotonous, but I always found something I liked to do, all the winter and summer vacations in elementary school, junior high school, and high school were spent at home, and I rarely went out to play, and rarely went to my classmates, so many of my neighbors in the same village didn't recognize me. I always feel like you're in the same mood as I was at the time, so the first thing you have to do is figure out what you like to do. Find something you're interested in doing.

17 years old is still a minor, if you want to kill, only kill to stop killing, you will not be sentenced to death.

LZ don't be discouraged, you are a man, you can solve everything, be strong.

Take it easy, take a day off to go around the countryside, and then analyze the situation yourself.

Although you can't change your background, you can change the path you want to take.

Hello, your problem needs specific analysis, does not rule out a certain amount of psychological distress, we recommend that you carry out psychological counseling and counseling to adjust your current psychological distress, if you need help, you can contact us for psychological counseling and counseling.

A friend once said.

Excellent is a source.

Rather than being at a loss, it is better to learn the process of the restaurant, and then you can have a set of skills to open a restaurant in the future.

Learn finance, purchase, salary system, job arrangement.

And so on, as long as you can learn, you can learn.

Useful in the future, you think so:

I'm not a part-time worker, I'm here to learn!

It will definitely be stronger than them in the future.

Let them dog eyes people low, md

Learn more.

Listen to me, I hope it will be helpful to you...

People can be without money, but they can't be without spine.

I don't think leftovers are spineless, but again, if you think you don't need to be particularly rich or accomplished...Then you are doomed to achieve nothing, in fact, people really have mindfulness, although it is not very realistic to say what your mindfulness can do...But one's mental power can lead one to success or to recovery from illness.

I don't have any money now, but I think I have a lot of backbone, I think if I encounter the same thing with you, I will talk to the boss directly, and the things that are thrown away are regarded as favors and benefits to me, so what's wrong with the boss? As for the cook, you can also tell him with confidence, yes, I don't have any money now, but I am doing it today to pave the way for me to become a successful person in the future. Hope it helps, if there is a problem + mine, I can share some life experiences with you.

To be honest, I don't think it's a problem whether you take it or not. In zhi Chinese society, such a life is not considered a violation of morality or whatever. And I'm afraid it is undeniable that your boss and boss lady also know it, but tacitly, you can't do too much and put up with it.

As for the chef's question, it's probably because he thinks he makes his own dishes, or he likes to put on a stinky shelf because he has a higher status than you. Or if you take it, he won't take it, and there will be contradictions. But in any case, he is not upright enough.

If he is a good person, when he sees others doing things that he thinks are not good, he will remind him a sentence or two at most, but if others don't listen, he won't say anything, and he won't scold.

As for whether you want to take it or not, it depends on your life situation If you feel that taking those things is essential for the convenience it brings you, ignore those immoral obstacles. If it doesn't matter if you don't take it, don't take it, why bother if you feel uncomfortable about something?