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It's not so good for men.
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It's better not to cry.
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A study published in Global Science showed that female subjects reacted more strongly and emotionally than male subjects to images that evoked certain emotions, especially negative emotions. By looking at their functional magnetic resonance imaging (FMRI) graphs, the researchers found that the strong response produced by female subjects was associated with increased activity in areas of the brain that control muscle movement. In other words, from a genetic point of view, women are indeed more emotional than men.
They are more emotionally active than men when confronted with negative events or **.
This perspective seems to explain many social phenomena, such as the fact that women are more likely to cry when they face failure and need emotional support. In my personal experience, I often hear female friends talk about their setbacks in the workplace. Sometimes their conversation has deviated from a single event, more of an emotional catharsis, and it takes multiple conversations to release the stress.
But fewer men showed significant emotional swings in the face of failure, and they were more concerned with finding a solution.
I still remember in middle school, if I answered a question incorrectly in class, I would be embarrassed for a long time, and I would ask myself why I made a mistake, and then I would spend the whole class in self-blame and silence. But I observed that many boys in my class would speak up after answering the wrong questions until they got it right. There seemed to be only one or two girls in our class who showed an aggressive attitude towards mistakes, and most of the others would have a "**" period like me.
Does this mean that women are destined to spend more time dealing with more intense negative emotions before they can begin to solve problems? I believe that while it is true that women's brain structure is more emotional, the ability to combat frustration is not determined by innate genes, but more by the acquired environment.
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The girl was moved to cry, usually when chatting, he was angry when you suddenly said a word, you don't understand why she is angry, you don't know whether to coax him, you don't know how to coax her, so the boy will choose to be silent at this time, or he just thinks that the girl is unreasonable, he can't understand why the girl is angry, and he doesn't know how to deal with the situation. After a long time, I will find it very difficult for girls to get along with. In the process of daily dating, you will find that girls always like to ask your opinion.
She will ask what you want to eat and what you want to go. The girl was moved to cry, usually when chatting, he was angry when you suddenly said a word, you don't understand why she is angry, you don't know whether to coax him, you don't know how to coax her, so the boy will choose to be silent at this time, or he just thinks that the girl is unreasonable, he can't understand why the girl is angry, and he doesn't know how to deal with the situation. After a long time, I will find it very difficult for girls to get along with.
In the process of daily dating, you will find that girls always like to ask your opinion. She will ask what you want to eat and what you want to go. Full text The girl was moved to cry, usually when chatting, he was angry when you suddenly said a word, you don't understand why she is angry, you don't know whether to coax him, you don't know how to coax her, so the boy will choose to be silent at this time, or he just thinks that the girl is unreasonable, he can't understand why the girl is angry, and he doesn't know how to deal with the situation.
After a long time, I will find it very difficult for girls to get along with. In the process of daily dating, you will find that girls always like to ask your opinion. She will ask what you want to eat and what you want to go. Full text.
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Charles Darwin, the founder of the theory of evolution, once speculated that tearing was a relic of some kind of evolution, and when crying, the microvessels around the eyes became congested, and the small muscles contracted to protect the eyes, causing the lacrimal glands to secrete tears. For the human body, tears are a by-product of no effect.
And the American anthropologist Montago has the exact opposite theory: human tears are the result of the survival of the fittest. Tears contain lysosinobacteria, which are self-defense substances that protect the nasopharyngeal mucosa from bacterial infection.
Subsequently, some studies divided tearing into reflex tears and affective tears, and the protein content of reflex tears was significantly lower than that of affective tears, which is a chemical similar to analgesics.
Tearing is an excretory act that removes biochemical toxins caused and accumulated by the human body due to emotional stress, so that the person who tears can restore psychological and physiological balance.
Women's tears are mostly emotional, the pain and sadness of strangers cannot resonate suddenly, that kind of feeling needs to be cultivated, just like watching movies and television, it needs to be sensational, just like crying and mourning in the old days, crying and narrating.
A woman is an animal of this induction.
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, a beautiful gift.
It is not the gift itself that touches me, but the sincerity, only friends who have truly felt their hearts will find the gift I want, and be pleasantly surprised in the way I want. Some things, the most prosaic, the most ordinary, the most simple feelings are the most precious! This kind of thing is something that very few people will do, because without this thinking, they will not choose conditions.
There are many such opportunities in life, give yourself a chance, and your girlfriend or your wife will find it sweet.
2. Warm things.
Whether you are a white-collar worker in a stressful company or a company employee who is constantly entertaining, you must always be ready to do something warm when you surprise your girlfriend in love. It doesn't need to be earth-shattering, but it must go deep into her heart. will do warm things, and does not need a specific occasion, only needs to have a delicate and sensitive heart, and big and small things can be thought of for her, such as:
When crossing the street together, take the initiative to walk on the side of the car coming by, pull the door for her and cover the door frame of the car when you get into the car, and so on. If you pass by the flower shop or gift shop at any time to bring her small gifts from time to time, it will definitely add romance and sweetness to your love.
3. Help your girlfriend squeeze toothpaste.
What touched me the most was that once, we went out on a trip together, and that was the first time we went out together. In the evening, stay in a hotel. Due to the lack of rest for a day, coupled with the bumps in the car, I never got sick and dizzy, and it was very uncomfortable.
He was busy bringing me tea and water, rubbing my head, and giving me a gentle massage. I soon felt no longer uncomfortable and soon fell asleep. That night, nothing happened to us, he hugged me until dawn, and I felt safe with him.
When I got up early on the second day, what touched me the most was that I had to brush my teeth, and he gave me a glass of water and toothpaste.
Holding the squeezed toothpaste, I felt warm. Growing so big, even my parents never squeezed toothpaste for me, even when I first learned to brush my teeth. He thought of such a small thing, which touched me very much. I think he is really a delicate and considerate person.
What are some love words that move your girlfriend?
1.If you think of me inadvertently in the future, please don't forget that I loved you so deeply ......
2.Can we get closer to happiness by standing on tiptoe?
3.I really like you, I closed my eyes and thought I could forget, but the tears that flowed didn't deceive me.
4.Honey, come back if you're tired or injured from going out, I'm still here waiting for you to ......
5.When you can't help but cry out, keep your eyes open and don't blink! You will see the whole process of the world from clear to blurred, and your heart will become clear and clear ...... moment your tears fall
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1.She will really be moved, but only moved.
Yes, don't think too badly of girls. She will really move for you.
When you buy breakfast for her again and again, rain or shine, she will really be moved.
When you stay up late for her for several nights in a row to prepare the competition materials, so that you are in a trance during the day.
When the boss scolds, she is really moved.
When you are sick and get up to help her because of her words, she is really touched.
When you delay your relative's wedding banquet in order to help her......She was really, really, very impressed.
However, that is touching, not love.
What you do, you see is serious, responsible, diligent, and persistent, but what she sees is stupid, not good at taking care of herself, not good at coordinating time, and not caring about her relatives.
If you were a girl, would you feel comfortable giving yourself to such a boy?
He can't even take care of himself!
2.She won't necessarily be moved, but she will be attracted.
And the other boy, yes, his conditions are not much better than yours, and in some places they are even inferior to you. But, on the same issue, he handles it better than you.
When the girl asked him to stay up late to write materials for her, the boy's reply was, "You know I have a job tomorrow." If I promise you, then I'm trying to save face. Rest assured, you've got your business in my hands, and I'll get it done, just not tonight. ”
When the girl asked him to help when he was sick, he didn't hide it from her like you, but said it directly, the reason is: I can't give you a sick self.
When the girl asked him to accompany her on the eve of his exam, his reply was: I hope after the exam, so that I can accompany you better. I'm sure you won't like someone who doesn't take responsibility for yourself either.
When the girl had a conflict with his sister and asked him to help her get angry, he didn't blindly blame his sister in order to please the girl, but patiently persuaded both sides, and finally the girl and her sister made peace.
From this boy, the girl sees a shining point that other boys, including you, do not have: that is, rationality, wisdom, good at time management, good at communication, good at dealing with unexpected time ......It was these sparkles that attracted her.
3.Most of the time you can't even be moved.
You may think, no, that's not what the chicken soup for the soul and the joke say? Doesn't it mean that if you love her, you have to pay for her unconditionally?
Wake up, the little girl who coaxed the beginning of love is still about the same. Everyone is an adult, and they have all experienced the heat and coldness of the world, and they know a little bit of human sophistication. Therefore, no one who has a little brain will really believe in that.
What's more, it is a well-established fact that women are more mature than men in most cases among their peers.
Take 10,000 steps back, even if it works, but is your moving really that charming? In Jin Yong's **, there are indeed many examples of "receiving the grace of others and promising each other with their bodies", and that set is suitable for weak women with low status in ancient times.
And you're dealing with a formally educated contemporary woman, from.
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I heard a particularly interesting theory from my classmates today, she said that in fact, the cost paid by boys chasing beautiful women and chasing ordinary girls is about the same, because no matter what kind of girls have requirements for their partners, ordinary girls have lower requirements for their partners than good-looking girls, so in the case of similar costs, of course, they are the most good-looking. The reason is that girls are easily impressed, and it is not necessarily more difficult to impress a beautiful girl than an ordinary-looking girl. I'm also a girl, and I know very well that girls are really easy to be impressed, and I'll talk about the reasons here.
I am a very free and easy girl, although I am usually informal, and I say that my mate selection criteria are extravagant, but who knows, every girl is very easy to be impressed, in some festivals, there are your sudden surprises, occasional romance, warm words, no matter how busy you will not miss any message. These small places are enough to make a girl's heart move, and they are enough to make a girl hopelessly moved.
A girl who has just entered the society is like a kitten, but she is raw, she is easily impressed, and when she just opens her eyes and sees who is good to her, she will treat it as her mother or father. No matter how proud and ruthless you are, you can't stop other people's sugar-coated shells, even if you are abducted and sold by others, you will be stupid to help others count the money, a simple mess, and the kind is hopeless.
Are girls stupid? Of course not. It's just that a girl will only remember how good you are to her and how you want to be cared for.
The world is too cold now, and it's too difficult and too difficult to find someone who is really good to you, and kind girls will naturally cherish it. There was once a boy who said to me that touched me very much, that is: "I can't participate in your past, and I will accompany you to the end."
It's very simple, but it's hard to achieve, and since then, he's spent ten springs, summers, autumns and winters with me. Time is really the most affectionate confession, do you love him, of course. Impressed, you say.
The reason why girls are easy to be touched is because every girl has kindness in her bones, and longs for someone who can give her the warmth she craves the most, like a cat, simple and cute. If you have to let a girl choose a boy to spend the rest of her life with, she must choose the boy who loves her, because she can maintain an innocent heart, be innocent all her life, and be loved all her life, because the boy who loves you is impossible to be willing to hurt the kind you. Girls are actually very easy to deceive, and they are easy to be tempted, as long as you really love her, please show her your heart.
1. Domestic violence includes domestic violence against men, domestic violence against women, and domestic violence against children by parents. In case of domestic violence, it is recommended to report to the police in time; Shooting**, **, leaving evidence; Seek medical attention as soon as possible and document the injury; assistance to women's federations and neighborhood committees; Sue for divorce and apply to the people's court for a writ of habeas corpus.
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