Psychology is numb, paralyzing psychology is what

Hello. I am a fresh graduate of the college entrance examination in '08.

I used to be like that, and I believe it is not easy now. There are a lot of numbness among the younger generation now. But how do you get out of the darkness and welcome the sun?

I only believe in one thing, that is, you know too little, and you go online without any scruples, and you learn nothing from the Internet! Then, because I have hope in my heart, I will find a way to solve it.

What is the solution? Knowledge! I don't hesitate, no matter when you are a sophomore or a junior in high school, 20 or 30 years old. It will make you less confused and more open-minded. Reading! Don't look at the computer. Thank you.

Then you can make a sign for the countdown of the college entrance examination and paste it in the dormitory or classroom, and you can see it as soon as you raise your eyes.

Think about it, you seem to be confident, but it is useless to have confidence alone, you must lay a solid foundation, you must work hard to review over and over again, no matter how dense the net is, it will leak small fish, you must urge yourself in your heart: you have to review well, and you have to start to be nervous......

Look at your opponents, they must be all gearing up! Even if you dominate one side in a certain school, there must be a character outside the mountain who is a threat to you, and the best way to relieve it is to review him over and over again, tense and orderly!!

You're running out of time, you still have a lot of tasks to complete, you still have a great mission to fulfill, there are only a few days left!!

In fact, don't really worry, just follow your normal study rules. Don't rush it, but remember to be down-to-earth and understand every knowledge point you learn.

The so-called celebrity quotes are useless, you have to set goals for yourself and work towards them from the heart to be the most effective.

Advice from someone who has come before.

I'm a sophomore, so I came across your post and let me say something

I remember when I was in high school, my grades in the second year of high school were getting worse and worse, my parents and relatives looked down on me a little, and even the teachers ignored me a little. At that time, my school was one of the top 100 in the city. In this kind of school, only grades and family background represent everything to you.

Due to my poor academic performance, my confidence was hit by the worse I took the exam, and I was depressed all day long, I remember that my grades were terrible after a midterm exam, and my parents didn't talk to me for a week. It seems that people are numb at that time, and I still get up early and go to school in the dark and go to class, and I want to be a good boy again. The indifference between people also broke my heart, and I gradually realized that if a person really wants to be looked up to by others, as a high school student, grades are the key!

Grades are everything to you!

What I want to say is that for your future, for your future, what so-called personality, what so-called friendships are fake, and those things can be picked up slowly after you enter college.

When I entered my senior year of high school, it was as if everything had become mechanical, and I spent a year immersed in my own world, and I only went back and forth between school and home. I used my time and heart to catch up. In the end, he was admitted to Wuhan University of Technology with relatively good results.

I would like to add that when I entered high school, I was a borrower (who got in at a low cost)!! But when I took the college entrance examination, I was better than those so-called positive students!!

You know best what you want, don't care about the little things! Learning must be a lonely path to growth, but it is a relatively obvious way to strive for after all!!

I think you're a bit like I was giving up on myself for a while, but remember, if you fall in the college entrance examination, no one will sympathize with you!! No one will help you but your parents! No one will stop them to help you!!

Psychological Paralysis After the traffic accident in Pengjinshan, Jiangsu, the great enemy of safety, almost all the survivors of the new traffic accident said: "Who would have thought that there would be an accident? "I knew there was going to be an accident, so I wouldn't have come out!"

And so on, why did you have a traffic accident and not think about it? This is what we often call paralysis, what is human psychological paralysis? The so-called measis refers to the loss of perceptual ability of a certain part of the body and the impairment of motor function (such as hallucinations, delusions, etc.) caused by the lesions of the human nervous system. Human psychological paralysis refers to a psychological phenomenon in which people lose their awareness due to negligence or overconfidence in the process of mental activities, resulting in subjective negligence or fault, and when there is psychological paralysis in the process of participating in traffic activities, there will be subjective distorted perception of the external objective traffic environment, which is a subjective psychological fault. Including negligence and overconfidence, it is the leading factor causing traffic accidents, and it has objectivity and inevitability in traffic accidents.

Why does psychological paralysis occur? Traffic accidents are accompanied by the emergence of motor vehicles, which is the most extensive, most common and most serious disaster for human safety in modern society, but the general public lacks the necessary traffic safety awareness and traffic safety knowledge. This is because the occurrence of traffic accidents is basically in the form of a statistical distribution, and its characteristic is that the probability of an incident is large, but the number of incidents is very small.

In other words, there is a possibility that any vehicle driving on the road will have an accident, and it will happen. This article is 1 page long.

If you are careless, you should pay attention to the place, because if you don't pay attention, it is extremely easy to cause accidents.

People or things that I care about and mind a lot.

Laugh it off.

We may have lost the power of anger, we no longer dwell on the facts that we thought were unfair, we began to feel that existence is reasonable, that my boss is oppressing me like this, that my friends are calculating me like that, that morality is judging me, and so on, and so on, and so on, and so on, and we have gone with the flow, and we feel that this is a natural thing, and most people are like this, and there is nothing wrong with it. It's okay if you're wrong, and so is everyone anyway.

In fact, behind this numbness, there is our indisputability and compromise, but in psychology, it is the embodiment of the extreme role of the self-protection mechanism.

The reasons why the heart has become numb are:

1) Encountering similar things repeatedly;

2) When encountering many things, the psychological defense line is established;

3) Indicates that you have begun to choose to escape;

In short, the numbness of the spirit and the numbness of life are fatal. A person's soul is dead, no different from the walking dead. Temporary numbness is beneficial to the person, and long-term numbness is harmful to the person.

Everyone should face life positively and live each day to the fullest in order to live a wonderful life.

First, establish correct ideals and beliefs, and formulate reasonable goals and plans. To enrich your life and strengthen your steps.

Second, interact and communicate with others, and get in touch with different people, things, and things to discover the joy of life. Including cultivating some healthy interests, hobbies, and making some like-minded friends.

Third, everything should be divided into two to look at the problem, look at the problem comprehensively and comprehensively, and not be one-sided and negative.

Fourth, if you have the opportunity, see a psychiatrist.