Personality is a little eccentric It s a little painful to get along with others What to do 60

I think you don't want to get along with them because you feel that they are not the people you want to really befriend, just superficial perfunctory, so they are very indifferent to them, but the relationship is very important, you don't think too much, tell yourself to be with people in the future to give each other a smile and tell yourself that you are sincere, you are willing to get along with them, so to encourage yourself, in fact, to get along with everyone to learn to tolerate each other's shortcomings, learn to forgive others, and build your relationship, You have to be yourself for the rest of the principled things, change your mentality more, mentality determines everything, I hope you can get out of the trough and open a life of confidence!

This is normal!

That's where your personality comes in.

On the contrary, there are more people who get along with you intimately, and all kinds of troubles come one after another, but I envy you more!

Try to get in touch with you more, if you can't think differently, you're good at that!

Watch more movies and more TV series (don't watch soap operas!).)

In the process of watching, think more and experience the inner world of each character, which is very helpful for the cultivation of personality.

Self-improvement is a lifelong thing for a person (Lu Xun said, forget the original words.) )

A profession that violates one's own principles is to never do it, and I think I can't stand such a person who goes against my will, and I should change it.

And don't think that there are any noble people around you, everyone is not noble, because people have desires, it's just the way people express their desires, you feel disgusted, you have to learn to tolerate them, you have to know that the forest is big, there are all kinds of birds, there are crows and phoenixes, and the world is much bigger than the forest.

When you open your heart, you will find that the world is so beautiful, as long as you are attentive, don't imitate others too much, that will lose yourself.

I'm a person who likes to study psychology, behavior, sociology, and many of my friends have similar problems as you. Actually, you don't have to be so painful, because it's normal for this situation to be in a normal situation. Everyone has times of blockage, helplessness, boredom, and pain, you don't have to torture yourself to cater to others, as long as you smile confidently often, and watch others listen carefully when they speak, you will find that you are not only changed, but also happy. Many people will like you, especially yourself, and you don't have to know the complex principles. Just follow my simple methods and you'll find a whole new you

Actually, these are not difficult, you will succeed!!

Disguise? If it is camouflage. You first have to know yourself.

If, this is not what you want. Let others see who you really are. Little day.

Don't have a sudden change Otherwise, not only will you not be used to it, others will also be unaccustomed to it, and the embarrassment of others will make you lose confidence Slowly do the "addition" of life Every time you change a little bit After a long time, you will change Habits are the ones that govern your whole life Don't suddenly give yourself a big goal in everything Not only will you be pressured and then give up That will not achieve the goal Only hide the big goal deep Let it be found out the first step in the small goal This will be easy to achieve You will also be more confident For example, your withdrawn personality At the beginning You can say one sentence when you want to lie, and then two sentences, and then you can say the last sentence when you don't want to talk but need to speak, and slowly add up, and you will become cheerful and extroverted, and don't dislike the superfluous simple words, and only by saying too much can you reach the level of naturalness, and then become more profound, such as "You're here", "Why are you here?" "Long time no see, I miss you so much" "Look at how long you've been here, say it yourself, what should I do, let me miss you for so long" In fact, everything is from simple to complex No one is born with everything It's just that everyone grows up in a different environment, which leads to different results, take your time, brother.

Remember: you are the captain of your life, go your own way, why care about anything else.

Are you feeling troubled?

Since you're not bothered, you still care what people say.

But if you ask this question, it proves that you are troubled and want to fit in.

As long as you don't feel tired, try to appear gregarious.

If you don't fit in and want to be gregarious, then change yourself, or keep yourself all the time.

Generally speaking, people who are difficult to get along with have a better chance of success.

But do good deeds, don't ask about the future. Weirdos are often cold and hot, and a little bit of warmth can brighten up his life. So don't get too close to him, don't snub him, and give him as much help as you can, you will have unexpected gains.

No matter what kind of person it is, as long as you don't get along, you have to rely on running-in, the most important thing is that you have to communicate more, try to understand him, people with eccentric personalities sometimes make people guess but have to get along, maybe it will be very tiring at first, or it is easy to offend him, but since you are friends, you should use your heart to make him understand that you want to understand him, you want to know him better, usually care about him, take care of him a little when you are together, tell him what you think, and so on.

Find a way to understand his thoughts first, establish a friendly relationship with her, and then make suggestions to her on the basis of friends.

If a person's personality is more eccentric, then in normal times, his social aspect is not very good, that is, there will be some obstacles in the process of getting along with others, generally speaking, it is not able to blend into the circle of people around him, such a person will give people a very strange personality.

If a person's personality is more eccentric, then in normal times, he will not show his emotions very much, such as being bullied by some people, these people with more eccentric personalities will not immediately show their dissatisfaction and anger like others, these people with more eccentric personalities may hide their emotions and keep themselves from getting angry.

Personality is the psychological characteristics of a person's personality that are manifested in the stable attitude of reality and the habitual way of behavior. For example, humility or pride, honesty or hypocrisy, diligence or laziness, courage or cowardice, decisiveness or indecision, and so on are all character traits of a person. Personality is a continuum of many personality traits.

Personality is mainly manifested in two aspects? "What to do" and "how to do" in the factory to test off the super cunning coupons. The former shows what a person is pursuing and what he rejects, reflecting his attitude towards reality; The latter shows how a person pursues what he wants and how he rejects what he wants to avoid, reflecting the way one behaves.

In general, a person's character determines how he behaves.

A person's character is not formed overnight, but once it is formed, it is relatively stable and runs through all his actions. "The nature of the country is easy to change and difficult to change" illustrates this stability. The personality of a person manifests itself in similar situations and even in different situations.

The occasional manifestation of an individual's momentariness cannot be considered his character. Only regular, habitual performances can be considered his character. But personality is not static, and it can also change gradually.

Those who are close to Zhu are red, and those who are close to ink are black" shows that character can be shaped.

The shadow of childhood is indeed very important in a person's life.

At the age of 20, you should be able to be independent, you remember my words, 95% of people, when they jump off the rooftop, they already regret it. But it was too late. There is only one life in life, how to make your life more exciting, this is what you need to discover with your own heart.

There are ugliness, indifference, violence, hatred, and many negative things in this society, but on the contrary, there is also kindness, beauty, happiness, thoughtfulness, care, and warmth.

They will repay you in the same way as you look at them.

The most important thing for you right now is to relax your mind. Learn to be independent and learn to be self-reliant. Don't ask for it, use your own hands to change yourself.

Think about what you like about yourself. If you are willing to do anything that makes you happy, go for it. Face yourself with a good attitude.

Believe that you can. Learn a skill. is the most important thing.

Playing games is not a bad thing, but being able to play games as a profession is respected. Why can people be awesome? Because he has done what others can't do on his own, the anchor can earn more than 10,000 yuan a month, which is to tell you to pursue what you like with the right mentality.

to bring happiness to yourself.

"How do people with weird personalities get along with people" is a problem in itself!!

I don't know if you've ever read an article like this "Every leaf is different". In fact, everyone is different, let alone a ...... with a nervous personality

Getting along is not a one-person thing. If you can't get along with someone, then you have to analyze it in many ways, rather than thinking about whether someone's personality is weird or not.

Personality is not only a manifestation of one's own self-generated, it is also affected by the acquired environment, so if we want to get along with others, we think that "the personality is weird.""get along, then you must have enough psychological preparation, as well as enough tolerance and patience!

When those people are mentally ill, we have to be sympathetic to them, and you think like that

Or usually hide far away.

Whether we get along well or not has little to do with the personalities of both parties, when our homeroom teacher adjusts the position, different people are arranged to share the table with me, some people have extreme personalities, and some personalities are the same as me, and they get along very well. The key is that you should communicate with others attentively, be more considerate of each other, don't worry so much, and they will be friends in the end.

Dear Friend:

Don't worry about the fate of life Everyone will have this or that life troubles Find a confidant who loves you to face your ups and downs in the future, you have to remember that suffering losses, being deceived, even if it is your ordinary fall, is the most valuable experience in your life

What you have to do is accept all of this, cheerful acceptance, generous tolerance, fraternity, even the most painful thing.

Just like listening to a story, don't take it too seriously. Everyone's opportunities, circumstances, including the popularity of the whole are different, and the main thing is that the historical environment and social system are different.

Look at everything around you with an optimistic mind, people who laugh at you, people who don't love you, you can take the initiative to show your friendliness, and forgive those people with a tolerant and generous heart, friends like the new and hate the old, you can cherish them well, be good to them, and they will naturally cherish you very much.

You don't need to be a character in someone else's life, you can find good friends to chat and communicate more when you are bored and depressed, you don't like others laughing at you, you can turn a blind eye, you don't need revenge, revenge will only bring more harm!

I hope you have a good mood to do your own thing, don't care about other people's eyes, don't care about other people's ridicule, just be yourself! In fact, there is no need to pretend to be crazy and stupid to escape reality, escaping will only make you more lonely and lonely.

So, isn't it a lifetime? If that is the case, why do we choose to be unhappy or burdened? Is that right?

For man does not live for himself alone. Everyone has a series of groups such as relatives, friends, etc. People have to take into account the thoughts of the people around them.

Everyone is responsible! Living is not just about living, how to live, what kind of way to live? Once the material needs are satisfied, can the spiritual needs be satisfied?

So people have a certain amount of pressure. The double pressure of the outside world, its own body. That's why people feel tired!

In fact, people don't have to be so tired, it depends on how you look at your life?

In fact, there is a lot of fun in life, but your tired body doesn't want to feel it.

Have more interest and curiosity to discover the bits and pieces of life! ~

Really enjoy life and you will find that life is beautiful. People won't be so tired.

There are not so many things in the world that are inevitable because of accident, the plan is in people, the success is in heaven, and things are man-made! ~^

So much to the pointYou should work harder to face life.

Even a storm is a necessary part of your life!

May you shine every day! Happy and healthy :)

I hope to encourage you together. ~~

The story of a couple and a donkey.

At first, the wife rode a donkey, the husband led the donkey, and passers-by pointed and pointed: What does it look like? This woman is so unreasonable that she actually lets a man lead a donkey.

When the wife heard this, she blushed and changed positions with her husband.

Now the husband rode the donkey, the wife led the donkey, and after a few steps, the passers-by began to point again: What does it look like? This man is too unreasonable, and he actually lets a woman lead a donkey, machismo.

Now the husband blushed again, and they decided to ride the donkey together as husband and wife.

The two of them rode on donkeys, and they didn't walk a few steps, and the passers-by pointed even more: What does it look like? The two men riding this little donkey are clearly cruelty to animals.

The couple is completely at a loss now, this is not good, that is not right, simply, they don't ride.

The two walked together on a donkey. But the result?

The husband and wife were still pointed at by passers-by: these two people are so stupid, they obviously have a donkey, but no one rides it, so why do you raise this animal?

in this world. No matter how you live.

There is always a long story.

Whatever you do.

There's always someone to point fingers at.

Even so, care about what others think.

It is still the greatest weakness of human nature.