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The original saying should be that when the water is clear, there will be no fish, and when people are clear, there will be no friends.

If the water is clear and there are no fish is the result of natural selection, then is the result of social selection when people are clear and there are no friends? Fish can hide from predators in relatively turbid water and can live and reproduce; And in the indescribable and unclear ocean of human feelings, only by following the tide can they find a corner of the world in society.

"Qing" here means pure and noble. The whole sentence means that if people are too pure and noble, they will have no friends.

If the water is clear, there will be no fish, and if people are clear, there will be no friends, and it may be understood that fish and friends are also a desire added by human beings out of thin air. Seeking purity, attaining purity, why should we continue to blame the river for being clear and without fish? Because there is desire!

If there are fish swimming in the clear river, what a beautiful scenery it should be;

Why should you worry about losing your friends because of the true nature of being a human being? Because there is desire! Fear of losing something else related to your friends, such as direct benefits, such as available social connections.

When the water is clear, there are no fish, but there is purity in it; When people are pure, they have no friends, those friends who drink and meat, and those who are hot on the surface.

Friends who stabbed in the back, I think it's better to have less.

When making friends, it is not often said that the friendship of gentlemen is as light as water? They have no desire for each other, and they are innocent and widowed. When you have time, get together and talk about your heart.

I didn't contact and didn't think it was a pestle after I was busy for a year, and it was still a breeze after meeting; When one party is in trouble, the other party tries its best to help, and the person who gets the help is naturally accepted, and the other party loses its calmness; He spoke from the bottom of his heart, and acted with a true temperament .......

When the water is clear, there are no fishIf a person is observed, there is no discipleIt is a Chinese idiom that means that if the water is too clear, the fish will not be able to survive, and if the requirements are too strict, there will be no partner. Nowadays, it is sometimes used to indicate that you should not be too demanding of people or things.

The words of "Da Dai Li Ji Zi Zhang Wen Entering the Official Chapter" also say that the water is clear and there is no fish - a modern Chinese dictionary.

Therefore, when a learned and virtuous person governs the people, he must not know the nature of the people, the psychology of the people, and their innate feelings and acquired habits, so that the people can completely obey your decrees.

Therefore, if the country is well governed, the people will love you; The politics are clear and peaceful, and the people naturally have no complaints. Therefore, when a learned and virtuous person governs the people, his ideals should not be too high, his goals should not be set too far, and he should not ask the people to do things that they cannot do.

If you use the ideal of the success of the ancient sages and kings to demand that the people achieve it immediately, I am afraid that the people will stay away from it and dare not welcome it. You tell them what the long-term future is for, and the people are suffering, and when they are suffering, they are to avoid it.

So the crown of the ancient emperors.

, hanging strings of jade, just to be vigilant against yourself, not to see too clearly; Plugging ears with cotton wool is to be wary of oneself and not to listen too carefully.

So the water is too clear, and no fish can survive; If you are too shrewd, there will be no one to partner with. Therefore correct the wickedness of the people, and make them feel at ease; With wide arms.

to guide the people so that they themselves may seek their own perfection; Measure the quality of the people, teach them according to their aptitude, so that they can find their own future.

The people have occasionally committed a small transgression, and they must find out the good of him, and they will forgive him; If you want to sentence him to death, think of letting him live, so that he will be fine.

Therefore, the top and bottom can be blended together, blended into one, and not separated from each other. Therefore, benevolence is the first priority of governance, and if governance is not done properly, it will not be able to teach the people, and the people will not be able to drive them until they know how to learn.

To put it in layman's terms: you can be demanding of yourself, but don't kidnap others with your own thoughts, in fact, I think this also has the traditional Chinese idea of the golden mean.

You can't be too serious, which is exactly why some people live a chic life and some people live too tired.

In short, be cautious, leave room for overkill, and don't do things that exhaust your energy, and you can deal with unexpected situations at any time.

Because in the people themselves, the strong have their own strong hands, and in the development of events, there are also unforeseen circumstances.

Therefore, leaving room for everything you do will allow you to move in and out of interpersonal interactions.

Fight with your family, win the battle, and the family affection is gone; Fight with your lover, win the battle, and the feelings fade; Fight with friends, win the fight, and the love is gone. What fights is reason, what loses is love, and it hurts oneself. Black is black, white is white, let time tell.

Let go of your stubbornness, be a relaxed person, be willing to do things, and win the whole life; A little more peace, a little more warmth, life can be sunny.

Be sure to be a palm-down person, no matter how beautiful you are, the moment you reach out for money you lose. There must be something that others can't take away, independent thinking, independent economy, independent personality, there is a return for paying, never envy others, you are the protagonist of your own life.

When the water is clear, there are no fish, and there are no disciples when people are observed, and the metaphor is that people should be tolerant and casual, not too harsh. 【Idiom】 When the water is clear, there is no fish, and when people are observed, there is no disciple [Source] Bangu "Hanshu" volume 65 Dongfang Shuo Biography.

The Chinese just let this sentence be ruined, do you want the law to eat dry food, what kind of mistakes are small things, what kind of mistakes are big things, do you turn a blind eye? Master Confucius's set of knowledge could not be thrown away until he died, and the social atmosphere slowly turned into flattery and a heart that had nothing to do with himself. If everything can be stopped, then our people will make progress, innovate, refine and be serious.

—"The Great Dai Li Ji Zizhang Asks to Enter the Official".

Meaning: If the water is too clear, there will be no fish, and if people are too shrewd, there will be no Liang Chun's friends.

So, in this society, it's better for a person to be confused.