What is the difference between a virtuous woman and an unvirtuous woman?

There must be a big difference, virtuous women are more decent and qualified, while unvirtuous women are more annoying in some ways.

A virtuous woman is influenced by culture and will be more reasonable, while a virtuous woman is more unreasonable.

A virtuous woman, first of all, her demeanor will be very decent, and her speech will be measured, and a virtuous woman will do the opposite.

A virtuous woman is more respected, and a virtuous person is too unreasonable, has a bad mind, and is not popular.

If a virtuous woman is more emotionally intelligent, she will be more considerate of other people's feelings, and others will like to be with her.

A virtuous woman is more likely to have high emotional intelligence, and then it is also easier to be happier every day.

Virtuous people are more sympathetic to Dali, and unvirtuous women are more difficult to get along with.

A virtuous woman is loving and tolerant, while a virtuous woman is selfish and narrow-minded.

A virtuous woman will not scold others on the road, nor will she influence other people's things.

A virtuous woman deserves respect, and an unvirtuous woman annoys people.

I think virtue is kindness, some women have high emotional intelligence, high intelligence, and are as beautiful as flowers, but they do some messy things behind their backs, and some women drink and smoke every day, but they do some.

The difference is that what is the standard of virtue or non-virtue today? There may be virtue and no virtue, and there is no virtue and there is ...... virtue

Qiao Xueshan, Yangqu County, Taiyuan City, I have been with you for so many years and wanted to marry you, but you lived with other women behind my back and had children. He kept it a secret from me. When your father was paralyzed in bed, I didn't dislike you.

At that time, you were very financially poor. Who helped you in your most difficult times. Lend you money, I really don't know if *** had a conscience when he gave birth to you.

A woman's best youth is given to you. How did you end up with this woman, with the best person for you, and you were able to live up to it? Think about it.

How do you treat an ordinary person? Don't say anything, I love you wrong. If God has long eyes, I hope to get the retribution you deserve.

It's not that I don't dare to kill you, you're not worth it at all.

When it comes to virtue, it is not possible to generalize. It is necessary to start from the upbringing, cultivation, words and deeds, and details, and observe. And not a theoretical and literal narrative!

Eating depends on a person's moral character, and frivolous women will say things that should not be said regardless of the occasion, with both hands and teeth and claws.

The old moral code held that women did not need to be talented, but only obeyed their husbands. Source:

Zhang Dai of the Qing Dynasty "Public Sacrifice to Mrs. Qi": "Mei Gong said: 'A husband is virtuous, and a woman is virtuous.

This rhetoric is very uncertain. ”

Translation: Zhang Dai of the Qing Dynasty "The Text of the Public Sacrifice of Mrs. Qi": Mei Gongxing said that a man is virtuous and talented, and a woman is virtuous if she is not talented, which is very inconsistent with the facts.

The true meaning of "a woman is talented, but she is not shown in front of her husband, but is humble and submissive, which is where a woman's virtue lies." The husband should not be hegemonic and lose respect because of his wife's respect for you, but should reflect the feelings of men and support each other.

It seems to talk about the issue of talent and virtue from the side.

No talent is virtue? Strong women (highly educated, highly talented, and high-income), especially advocates of the feminist movement, often hate this sentence so much that they think that this sentence is used by big men to demean women! Some women also scolded the ancients and said that "women are virtuous if they are not talented", why did the ancients discriminate against us women so much?

Why are they saints? Far from being the case, it's quite the opposite! The misunderstanding of the sons and daughters of China about this sentence is huge!

Because most friends know one thing but don't know the other, do you know what the upper link of this sentence is? The upper link of this sentence is "A man is virtuous and talented".

Similarly, the following link "A woman is virtuous if she is not talented" also persuades women to act mainly with virtue, rather than degrading women for not being talented. This whole misunderstanding was caused by the misinterpretation of the word "nothing" in "no talent". The word wu here is a verb, which means "there is nothing in the original", that is, "there is talent in the original, but in the heart it is as if there is nothing".

For example, as the ancients said, "nothing" does not mean that there is really no thing in the world, but that there is no obstacle in the heart in the midst of all things. "Selflessness" does not mean that there is really no self, but that I have no concern for all my gains and losses; "Thoughtless" does not mean that there are no thoughts, but that there are no delusions, and that you are still at ease in your thoughts.

Therefore, "no talent" does not mean that there is really no talent, but "although I am very talented, I don't show off my talent at all, and I still regard myself as if I have nothing". In ancient times, women did not go out of the door, and they did not step out of the second door, but they had extraordinary talents, and they could still look at themselves as if they were nothing, isn't this a very noble virtue? This sentence is obviously praising the women of my Chinese nation for having such noble virtues!

**There is a meaning of discrimination against women! And we have such a deep misunderstanding of such a good sentence, we are really a gentleman with a villain's heart, we are so sorry for the ancients! It's not that the ancients are sorry for us!

Have you watched "Romance of the Sui and Tang Dynasties"? Chapter 37: People also have words:

A man is virtuous, and a woman is virtuousWhy should you be tired for women, and you will be in vain when you are in trouble, which makes people sigh that they are talented and virtuous, and it is a pity for them. Therefore, a talented daughter, and can not show off her talents, is that is, virtue!

It can be seen that the so-called "talentlessness" of the ancients is to appreciate the superb virtues of those talented women who can treat themselves as if they are nothing, and not show off their talents, rather than belittleing women!

Often we misunderstand the painstaking efforts of our ancestors, and think that the ancients did not advocate that women have talents, not only men are afraid when they meet talented women, but also cause many highly educated women to be unable to liberate themselves. Therefore, we should have a deep repentance to our ancestors, and we should also reflect on ourselves.

The meaning of the ancients and sages was "to be learned without self-confidence is to be virtuous!" "Talented women can be happy, and men are relieved! (Jin Leng Qianghan).