Why do friends also deteriorate, and how do you think about the deterioration of friendship?

Time will make a friendship fade, and gentlemen's friendship is as light as water, and men generally pursue this kind of friendship. If it's just a greeting question, which is not needed, it will only give people the illusion of unreality.

It's been a long time. Anything will change.

Not to mention camaraderie.

A true friend is a friend in college.

Only then friends can help you in their own faces.

Don't go for forever.

Life is just an episode in itself.

Anything beautiful in life is just a passerby, just an interlude.

As long as you enjoy it to the fullest, you will be satisfied, and what will you talk about forever.

Someday to leave, once had.

Look back and smile before leaving.

The aftertaste of intoxication is enough.

Time changes everything, including feelings!

For friendship, there is no amount of pay, every relationship is maintained by both parties, I am very happy, I see a person who has worked hard to maintain friendship and strive for each other's sake since he was a child, which is very nice!

For friendship, if you feel that you feel sad, and facing this person makes you feel stressed, hesitant and uneasy, then no matter how long this friendship has been maintained, at least the result at this stage will hurt you.

You grew up together since childhood, familiar with each other's personalities, your hair is influenced by your original family and your future character development, sometimes it really challenges a person's bottom line. You have to remember, "It's not that you think I'm taking this friendship seriously, it's that we're friends and you can consume the relationship at will, you can point out my shortcomings, but I don't need to be cold." ”

Because when you grow up, you are in a different circle, so your understanding and perception of things will always change, we don't blame others for being on a parallel line with us, if the other party makes you feel very tired, then you should tell yourself appropriately, let yourself recognize clearly, think about it.

Not everyone is worthy of us to pay so seriously regardless of the gains and losses of the conditions, "I treat each other with sincerity, and after a long time, you ignore or even distort my sincerity self-righteously, then I will take back my sincerity and keep it myself." ”

You have to know that everyone will change, this is the gift of this world to everyone, not all kindness will be treated gently, not all people will remain sincere.

You have nothing to regret about this friendship, because you are as thoughtful as ever for each other, and it's time to let go slowly, and you need to decide for yourself.

Family, friendship and love are the three most important feelings in a person's life. ......Of these three relationships, friendship is the most unique. ......Family affection arises between relatives, and the result of love is that both parties get married and become ...... familyAnd friendship always exists between people who have never known each other.

Therefore, how to establish and maintain friendships and make real friends is a question that each of us needs to think about seriously.

Specifically, if you want to know the connotation of true friends and true friendship, you need to start from the following aspects:

1. True friends, who are like-minded with each other and seek common ground while reserving differences.

The friendship of friends focuses on like-mindedness and seeking common ground while reserving differences.

Two people can become friends because they agree with each other on certain issues. ......It is because they are like-minded with each other that two people can become friends. ......And in order to maintain friendship with each other for a long time, we also need to seek common ground while reserving differences......Each of them retains their views on differences of opinion, and does not affect the friendship between the two people.

When you reach this state, you can be considered to have established a true friendship and found a real friend.

2. True friendship should first of all be selfless help when friends are in trouble.

The first thing to build a true friendship between two people is to be able to selflessly help each other when they are in trouble.

If you ignore a friend when they are in trouble, such a friend is not a true friend. ......A true friend will provide selfless help when he is in trouble, and do his best to help his ......Such a friend is a true friend, and such a friendship is a real friendship.

3. Never give up in adversity, and still accompany you in good times, this is a true friend.

Everyone's situation changes over time.

To judge whether a person is a true friend of oneself, you can examine it in combination with one's own situation. ......Those friends who never leave themselves when they are in adversity and can still be with them when they are in good times are their true friends. The friendship between myself and him is the true friendship.

This is an important sign for judging true friends and true friendships.

4. True friendship arises from mutual appreciation and trust.

Friendship requires corresponding conditions.

Specifically, friendship comes from mutual appreciation and trust. ......Because of appreciation, two people can make friends. Because of trust, two people can establish a true friendship and become a true friend ......Therefore, the core criterion for judging a true friend and a true friendship is whether there is appreciation and trust between two people.

Through the above analysis, we can know what is a real friend and what is a real friendship. ......After clarifying these two points, we can have a ...... in mind when we make friendsOnly by making friends based on this standard can we make true friends and allow ourselves to gain real friendship.

Most of the world's friendships just ended in nothing.

The relationship that pulls into the blacklist is mostly decisive. It is a good ritual to agree with each other not to get along with each other in old age and death. Whether the relationship is good or bad, I have my own hands to put an end to it.

However, most relationships end in failure.

There are no problems between you, he is still updating your circle of friends, and you will occasionally like him. But it's been a long time since I opened the dialog box to talk, and even if I did, I couldn't find a topic.

One day, I was chatting with a college classmate. Talking about former classmates.

I said, "My college roommate is so loving to her boyfriend, I don't know why she hasn't gotten married."

Classmate: She's married, don't you know?

All the processes are missing and are posted in the circle of friends.

I just remembered that I was busy moving, changing cities, and looking for a job during that time, and I didn't have time to look at the circle of friends at all.

Momentarily stunned. Actually, I even thought about being her bridesmaid.

When the bridesmaid thinks about it, send her a red envelope and say congratulations, but forget about it. Open the dialog box, the chat history is still the last time she traveled past my hometown and chatted with me, I didn't deal with it coldly.

There seems to be a trace of our estrangement. Her occasional enthusiasm met my coldness, and the blessings I wanted to give her seemed so out of place.

So they all give up on each other, this is the tacit understanding of adults.

We all wish we could have lifelong friends, but we miss out on a lot of friendships in the process. ......In my own experience, I have been deeply impressed by the following regretful friendships: breaking a friendship because of separation, giving up a friendship because of misunderstandings, and losing a friendship because of missing out.

1. A friendship was broken because of separation.

It was very nice to have a playmate as a child. But at that time, I was still young and didn't know what friendship was. If the two of us can be together, we will definitely make a beautiful friendship when we grow up.

But because we were separated from each other and no longer in touch, our friendship was broken, which left me with a lot of regrets.

2. Gave up a friendship because of a misunderstanding.

I had a good relationship with a good friend. However, because of a misunderstanding, a conflict arose between us. ......Neither of us handled it properly, so we parted, and a friendship that should have been made was abandoned.

In retrospect, I felt very sorry. If we had tried to keep it a little longer, we would have been able to continue to be good friends......

3. Lost a friendship because of a miss.

When I was in school, I admired a classmate in my neighboring class and wanted to make friends with him, and we had established a certain relationship.

If we continue like this, we should be able to build friendships. ......However, due to graduation and further education, we missed each other and never kept in touch again, and our friendship was lost because of this.

The above lost friendships have left me with very deep regrets. From this, I also deeply realized that it is difficult to find a confidant and cherish it when I meet a confidant.

Relationships between people are actually fragile, and it seems that the relationship is quite good, and the two often unconsciously feel that the other person is now avoiding them. In a moldy and spoiled relationship, the one who suffers from gains and losses will not only be able to win, but will also feel sad after learning the truth. As the old saying goes, many friends have many roads.

But with the development of the times, the total number of friends has long become no longer critical, and even many people often take a not good life because there are too many "good friends". All relationships need time and energy to stay strong. These invisible costs are actually the most important costs of life.

When a person thinks that her time doesn't matter, no one else will take her seriously.

To be a human being, you must understand that at all times you must never please others in order to maintain a relationship, rather than spending time to please others, it is better to improve yourself. The following 4 situations occur in the middle of being friends, which proves that the relationship has already changed qualitatively, don't be stupid and ignorant. Ignore whatever you say, be arrogant, and don't always talk to the person who ignores you.

No matter what the relationship was before, once the emotion changes, everything will change, especially the attitude shown in the process of getting along. Attitude lies in the heart, if there is no longer you in the other party's heart, the attitude towards you will be full of coldness, and even in addition to coldness, there is no disdain. But anyone who is a little careful will not use a cold attitude to look at the person who is talking to him, once he is left out, he should understand that the other party has explained his attitude, and there is no need to post forward again and again.

Feelings are mutual, friends and the other party ignore you, the best way to deal with it is to distance yourself. In the life of adults, there is basically no immediate refusal, and there is no wonder in Shanchai and no pretending to be confused. When communicating, immediately ignore you, and people who will not leave room for you in public places will most likely not have you in their hearts.

Whether it's a discussion with each other or a group communication, the person you immediately ignore is not really a friend. Some people may say that it happens that they don't think too much about you as their own excellent talent. Keep in mind that the word "own family" means nothing at all, and many people who don't have a good relationship deliberately refer to passers-by as their own family members in order to be able to do so.

But no matter how nice the words are, you can easily see through the real emotions of the other party just by touching each other.

No matter what you say about the jujube manuscript, you will ignore it when you communicate, usually do not contact, and will only contact you after you need your help, and will not pay to you wholeheartedly.

Mutual auspicious praise will confide in each other, two people will can't help but dig out that Yingchang wants to contact each other, will pay attention to their own image, when these three situations occur, it means that the relationship has deteriorated.

My good friend has another good friend, and I often say some weird things with myself, and I communicate less and speak politely.

It is mainly caused by the normal physiology between men and women, which will deteriorate in a certain environment, and there is also the fact that the two may have loved each other, but they lack opportunities.

The key to dealing with the relationship between friends of the opposite sex is to suppress the impulses and desires that should not be met, maintain a normal and peaceful state of mind, and of course have the correct concept of interests and values to guide themselves. In today's society, multiple friends have multiple roads, which is undoubtedly correct, of course, including friends of the opposite sex, sometimes friends of the opposite sex can help you do very important things, so as long as you correctly grasp yourself, grasp the degree of communication (morality, law), and do not care too much about each other's privacy or carry out each other's secret world, there will be no trouble or the feelings of both parties are deep, so normal interactions, can also be understood, including the understanding and support of your lover or lover.

Friendship is above, lovers are not full.

True friendship will not deteriorate, in fact, a real friend is a lifelong confidant, only a true friend is even called a friend's friendship, but not all friends are real confidants, friends also have general friends, ordinary friends, sincere friends, the most confidant friends, real friends are to make themselves worthy of cherishing and trusting confidants, but also the most trusted people in their hearts, friends will know how to be grateful and return, righteousness and trustworthiness have a conscience, friends should be mutual pay, It is not a person who can share the weal and woe with you, and a person who can take the initiative to stand up and speak for you, comfort you, do things for you, help you, and relieve your troubles when you need help the most when you need it most. A friend is a mutual considerateness, trust, respect, care, support, help, understanding, tolerance, and mutual willingness to pay for each other, and a loyal guardian for each other. Friend:

It may not be reasonable, but it must be knowing; Not necessarily inseparable, but certainly sympathetic; Not necessarily the icing on the cake, but it must be a blessing in the snow; It doesn't have to be in touch all the time, but it's always in mind. A friend is a friend who reaches out to you on the road of your life, especially when you encounter difficulties; When you are happy, it is your friends who laugh and cry with you; When you are most painful, it is your friend who holds your hand to give you strength, the weight of your friend is not in words, not in material, not in wine and money, but in the care, understanding, help, and support between friends、、、 if you are in a lonely journey, remember what your friend said, you will no longer indulge in it, if you can feel your friend's hand by your side in the painful days, the whole person is suddenly full of strength; If you dial your friend's ** when you are depressed, and when you hear that familiar voice, even if you don't say a word, you feel that the hesitation is no longer shrouded, then this is the weight of a friend. The way each of us treats our friends is how we give to our friends, how to always leave an oasis with our name written in the hearts of friends, how to make friends always feel that there is a light ahead, a signpost to guide them, and a heart to hope, express and cherish in the same way、、、 such friends are real bosom friends.

A person will have a lot of friends, but the real confidant is very few, the confidant is able to meet in the heart, can understand each other, when you are troubled, even if he is troubled, will not tell you, confidant does not have mutual possessiveness, when you are happy, he will also tell you his happiness to share that joy with you, confidant only silently dedicate himself, confidant is each other's heart, confidant is each other's heart, life is enough to have a confidant.