Broke up! Can you really be a good friend?

Updated on psychology 2024-03-22
9 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    You can't be friends after a breakup because you've hurt each other.

    You can't be enemies after a breakup, because you have loved each other.

    So you can only do the most familiar stranger ......

    After breaking up, don't be friends again, if you can still be friends, it can only mean that you haven't loved deeply.

    Friends need to be cared for, and if so, then why choose to break up?

    A relationship, a journey, a journey together, too much joy and touching, too much helplessness, heartache, from true love to hurt each other, to the moment of breakup, can you still be friends?

    If you can, you must not have really loved, or it is the result of a person's grievances.

    There is no floodgate for feelings, and it is not a ...... that can be closed with a single pull

    It is difficult for two people to love each other at the same time, and it is even harder to not love each other at the same time......

    There is no love or hatred in the heart, and only when the throbbing in the heart is indifferent can we become friends.

    Lovers are so close, friends are so far away......

    If you can't be a lover, maybe he will say that he will be friends, but the car obviously drove away, even if he returns to the original point again, it will be a different time......

    Different characters, different landscapes.

    We've already taken a step forward, but how can we measure the same size and go back?

    It's better to keep moving forward and keep going ......

    Until you meet up again with someone else you can love.

    Don't love him her.

    Let it go, don't make excuses for your selfishness.

    Don't keep if you still love her, don't expect her to turn back ......

    Therefore, when you break up, you can't continue to be friends or enemies, and you can only be the stranger you know most ......

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It varies from person to person, but it is possible to be friends after a breakup.

    However, it is rare to be friends, even friends may only be ordinary friends, because if they are separated, they will have their own lives and partners, and it is not excluded that there is a kind of breakup that is very good and reconciled.

    If you have loved each other deeply, at least one party will feel deeply hurt, he may be reluctant to contact again, he may be more hurt when he sees each other again, and it is better for the other party not to force it.

    It seems that after the breakup, everyone must understand the reasons for the breakup, learn a lesson, and recover as soon as possible in the next time.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I have always believed that people don't need to be too ruthless, they can't be lovers, we can still be friends, there is a song that sings well: the more friends there are, the easier the road to go! One more way for multiple friends!

    It may be a little awkward to meet each other in the early stages after you leave, but that's an emotion that every couple who has just broken up will have, because there will be a sense of guilt between the person who first proposed the separation, and there will be a sense of helplessness in the other.

    I read such an article, which says that those who have been loved by you, after leaving, will always remember that you loved her, and she will always be grateful to you and grateful for the love you once had for her! I believe that all this will make you different good friends. If that's the case, isn't it better to be friends than strangers?!

    Also, you will be worried that if you are still friends with your former lover, he or she will be jealous and angry! In fact, there is no need to be like this, there are not many opportunities to meet alone when you choose to be friends, and it is better to meet less alone, and give help as much as you can! That's all, I believe you don't want to be angry with him or her because of that!

    Friends hope that you cherish the emotion of the previous one she (his), and also cherish the feelings of him (her) you want to have, I believe you will be very happy!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    No, it won't. for some of you have been hurt. Even when it becomes a friend.

    I can't get that feeling back.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I don't think we can be friends anymore after we break up.

    There are several reasons for this:

    First: If you find a boyfriend and girlfriend separately after you break up, when they know that you have been together and are still friends, most people can't accept it, if you hide it from them, it is also unfair to them and very unfriendly to your future relationship.

    Second: You used to be boyfriend and girlfriend, you must have loved each other, it is difficult for a person to reach a very normal and ordinary friend relationship with someone who has loved each other, and an unhealthy and ordinary friend relationship is not good for both of you.

    Third: Why do you think of wanting to be friends with him, it must be that you don't want to have nothing to do with him in the future, you can't bear it, since this is the case, then why don't you think about it clearly, if you still like him, you might as well try to redeem it again, don't become a regret.

    That's all I have to say.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Breaking up and being friends may cause misunderstanding between a certain party, whether it is a woman or a man, so that the other party mistakenly thinks that the other party can't let go, and there is a possibility of getting back together!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Generally speaking, it will be very embarrassing and painful, and if you can still be friends after a breakup, it can only mean that you have not really loved each other in the first place

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    It's up to the two of you to deal with it!

    Some people think that in order not to touch the scene, it may be better not to meet!

    Some people think that in order not to be embarrassed by each other, it may be natural not to meet!

    But. Some people think that if they break up, they are still friends, and they will have a different life if they treat each other with another vision!

    Some people think that after breaking up, they are still confidants, and there is no need to let the other party disappear from their lives forever!

    Isn't that what life is all about? Love we can't resist.

    But friendship, we have the ability to ride!

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I used to think that I would be friends after a breakup, but now I know.

    It's not that you can't do it, but you can't do it, you've loved, you've cried, and you should face it with a heart, I think maybe it's really the most familiar stranger

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