The meaning of Commandment to Brother and Son Strict Dunshu .

Ma Yuan) aided his brother Yan and Dun, and liked to ridicule, and passed the light chivalry. Before aiding in Jiaozhi (1), he also wrote a commandment and said: "I want you to hear the mistakes of others, such as hearing the name of your parents, your ears can hear it, but your mouth can't say it."

I like to talk about people's strengths and weaknesses, and I am delusional about right and wrong (2), this is my great evil, and I would rather die than hear that my descendants have this kind of trip. Thou Cao knows that I am very evil, so the one who plies the words, Shi Jin knots (3), affirms the precepts of his parents, and wants to make Thou Cao not forget. Lombard is generous and cautious, unscrupulous, modest and thrifty, honest and prestigious.

I love it, I value it, and I hope you will follow it. Du Jiliang is heroic and righteous, worried about people's worries, happy people's happiness, and has nothing to lose (4). The father's funeral was a guest, and several counties were completed.

I love it, I value it, and I don't want you to follow it. The service is not high, but he is still a prudent person (5), and the so-called carved hooves are not still like the birds (6); The effect season is not good, and it is trapped in the world's lightness, and the so-called painting of tigers is not an anti-dog. The current season is not yet known (7), the county will get off the car and gnaw his teeth (8), the state and county think that I am often cold, because I don't want my children and grandchildren to follow suit.

Notes】 1) Cochin: Han County, equivalent to northern Vietnam. Ma Yuan served as General Fubo and led his troops to suppress the uprising of the people in Jiaozhi.

3) Jin: Wear. 缡: Yinli, wear a scarf. Shi Jin: Parents send their daughter to marry, tie a belt for her, and hang a scarf.

4) Nothing is lost: make friends without asking good or evil, and do not miss them.

5) Prudence: Prudence.

6) Hoof: Swan. Crane: Sound, duck. The metaphor is not far off.

7) Not yet known: refers to Ji Liang's unpredictable future.

8) Get off the bus: refers to the arrival of a new official.

My elder brother's sons, Ma Yan and Ma Dun, were fond of talking about other people's affairs, and they loved to associate with chivalrous men. On my way to Cochin, I wrote to warn them.

I hope you have heard of the faults of others, as you have heard the names of your parents: your ears can hear you, but your lips cannot talk about them. I like to talk about the strengths and weaknesses of others, and comment indiscriminately on the laws of the imperial court, which I hate the most.

I'd rather die than want my children and grandchildren to behave like this. As you know, I hate this kind of behaviour very much, so I can't stress it enough. Just like what my daughter's parents repeatedly warned her before she got married, I hope you will remember it.

Lombegau is a man of honesty and honesty, and there is nothing to blame for what he says. Modesty and frugality, treating others without losing majesty. I love him, I respect him, and I want you to learn from him.

Du Jiliang is a heroic and righteous person, with a sense of justice, who regards the sorrows of others as his own sorrows and the happiness of others as his own happiness. Make friends with anyone. When his father died, a lot of people came.

I love him and respect him, but I don't want you to learn from him. (Because) if you don't succeed in learning Lombago, you can also be a cautious and humble person. As the saying goes, "the carved hooves are not successful, and they are still like birds".

And once you don't succeed in learning Du Jiliang, then you will become a gentleman. The so-called "painting tigers can't be done, anti-dogs". Until now, Du Jiliang did not know that the arrival of the county general was resentful, and the opinions of the people were very large.

I often feel chilled for him, which is why I don't want my children and grandchildren to learn from him.

Follow good people, learn your duty, don't learn dung from big dogs.

The translation in the book of the commandments is as follows.

My brother's sons, Ma Yan and Ma Dun, were fond of sarcasm and chatter, and loved to associate with chivalrous men. On my way to Cochin, I wrote to them and admonished: "I hope you have heard of the faults of others as you have heard the names of your parents

The ear can hear, but the mouth cannot speak.

I like to talk about the strengths and weaknesses of others, and comment indiscriminately on the laws of the imperial court, which I deeply hate. I'd rather die than want my children and grandchildren to behave like this. You know that I am very disgusted with Yu Qinghui's behavior, and this answer is the reason for my emphasis.

Just like the daughter's parents repeatedly warned her before she got married, I hope you don't forget it. ”

Original:

Aid the brother is strict, Dun, and likes to ridicule, and is light and chivalrous. Before aiding in Jiaozhi, he also wrote a book and said: "I want you to hear the mistakes of others, such as hearing the name of your parents:."

The ears can hear, but the mouth cannot speak. I like to talk about people's strengths and weaknesses, and I am delusional about right and wrong, and this is my great evil: I would rather die than hear that my descendants have such a trip.

Thou Cao knows that I am very evil, so the one who plies the words, Shi Jin Tie, declares the precepts of his parents, and wants to make Thou Cao not forget the ear!

Longbo is high or generous and cautious, has no choice of words, is modest and thrifty, and is honest and prestigious. I love it, I value it, and I hope you will follow it. Du Jiliang is heroic and righteous, worried about people's worries, happy people's happiness, and has nothing to lose.

The father's funeral was a guest, and several counties were completed. I love it, I value it, and I don't want you to follow it. The effect of the uncle is not high, but he is still a cautious person, and the so-called "carved hooves do not become still like birds".

The effect season is not good, and it is trapped in the world's lightness, and the so-called painting of tigers is not an anti-dog. It is not yet known that the county will get off the car and gnaw his teeth, and the state and county will say that I am often cold, because I do not want my children and grandchildren to follow suit. ”

The Book of Commandments tells us that one learns to respect the truth.

The book of admonition to the brother Yan Dunshu tells us: In fact, many people, in their common work, life, and study, will make unexpected mistakes, hold on to them, and attack them in groups, which is really a bad trend. We all want to be recognized by others, but everyone's thinking, ability, etc. are very different, who can guarantee that it will be flawless every time?

Don't make a big fuss, and don't hide it! What is needed for daily work, life and study is an atmosphere of cooperation and mutual assistance. Rather than an atmosphere of mutual accusations, mutual ridicule, and mutual criticism.

There will be an immature process in the growth of any person. Anyone who does things will have the psychology of self-correction. Any unit will have a set of self-correction mechanisms.

Learn to respect and give anyone a space and time for self-adjustment; Learn to respect, not to ridicule the shortcomings of others, and not to discuss the faults of others; When someone falls, don't be a proud bystander, let alone gloat, but help and help. Criticizing and ridiculing others will not make life more beautiful, and eliminating will not make you taller. Only by helping tolerance will life be full of sunshine and will make people more noble and beautiful!

Ma Yuan admonished his brother Yan Dunshu:

This letter was written by Ma Yuan to his two nephews during the expedition. In the letter, Ma Yuan pointed out the weaknesses of his two nephews who like to talk about others and love to make friends with light and chivalrous people, and used his own life experience to guide them on how to behave in the world.

Ma Yuanzi Wenyuan, the Eastern Han Dynasty Fufeng Maoling people. When the new mang, it is the new city of Dayin. Later, he attached himself to Kui Huan, followed by Liu Xiu, defeated Kui Huan, and defended Longxi.

The official to General Fubo, the new marquis. Later, when attacking Wuling "Wuxi Man", he died of illness in the army. He is the author of "Bronze Horse Physiognomy".

Ma Yuan's nephews Ma Yan and Ma Dun usually like to ridicule and comment on current affairs and make friends with knights who take the cover, which worries him very much, although he is far away in the Jiaozhi army, he still wrote this sincere letter. The article is sincere, and the words are full of the affectionate care and ardent expectations of the elders for the younger generations, so it can produce such an effect.