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In 1921, when Charles Scober was the first president of U.S. Steel, the steel magnate Carnegie offered him an annual salary of $1 million. In this regard, Scoper said that he received so much salary mainly because of his ability to get along with others. "I believe that my ability to motivate people is the greatest asset I have, and the way to get the best out of a person is to appreciate and encourage," he added.
I never criticize anyone. I'm in favor of encouraging others to work, so I'm eager to praise and hate to find faults. If there's anything I like, it's that I'm honest with praise and forgiveness from praise.
It's a classic quote that best reflects his willingness to praise his employees.
A cleaner at a large company in South Korea was originally one of the most neglected and despised characters, but such a person fought to the death with thieves when the company's safe was burglarized one night. Afterwards, when someone asked him about his motives, the answer was unexpected. He said:
When the general manager of the company passed by him, he would always praise him from time to time, "You swept the floor so cleanly". You see, just a simple sentence touched the employee, and he just changed the praise to encouragement.
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This was a great blow to Edison's young mind. However, her mother knew her son's interests best and she did not think that his ambitions were unprofessional. He created good conditions for his son, opened up a laboratory for Edison, and supported the child's small scientific experiments, so that Edison's inventive intelligence was fully developed, and finally invented the white light bulb, telegraph, gramophone, etc., and discovered the phenomenon of thermal electron emission.
2. Armstrong was the first man to land on the moon. As a child, he was a fantasizing child, but his mother never discouraged him, and once, while his mother was washing dishes in the kitchen, he was bouncing around in the backyard and his mother asked him, "What are you doing?"
"I'm going to jump to the moon," he said. When his mother heard this, she didn't throw cold water on her children like other children's parents, nor did she scold him, or rather
Don't be naughty, stop. Something like that. Rather, it is said:
Good! Don't forget to come back! "In such a relaxed environment, he finally landed on the moon.
It can be seen that a good guidance method is more conducive to their development. 3. The essence of growth and talent is the same, good times and adversity are also a life course, the most important thing is whether people are diligent and interested in learning. The ancient Chinese poet Du Mu is an example.
Du Mu, born in a wealthy family, he received a good education since he was a child, and when he was young, he had great achievements in his career. He and Li Shangyin were called "Little Li Du" by later generationsThere is also Wen Tianxiang, ***.
Lu Xun and others, isn't this the best proof that talents can be produced in good times? 4. The sensational Zhang Haidi, it can be said that his success is built in adversity, but from the perspective of good times, without the help and encouragement of her comrades, would she have the courage to survive? Without organizational care, care, would she be able to overcome the disease?
Without the party's nurturing and guidance, would she have been able to make such brilliant achievements? 5. To say that those great people who have grown up in adversity, in fact, from another angle, we can find that in fact, people often ignore the good times, but pay attention to the bitterness that that person pays more than others. Sima Qian.
Or is it a historian of the Han Dynasty, he has the right to inspect and manage the royal library of the Han Dynasty, if he does not have such an environment, how can he write the "Historical Records" that truly reflects history, fabricated out of thin air? Cao Xueqin, whose grandfather used to be a weaver in Jiangsu and Zhejiang, once had a lot of money and read thousands of books. That's why you can create the luxurious and extravagant scene of Jiafu in the book.
6. Once upon a time, so far away, let's talk about the current example. More and more people have joined the star chaser family, then, movie star Zhang Ziyi.
Everyone must be familiar with her, she has loved singing and acting since she was a child, she won an award for her first singing and became famous for her first dance, can anyone deny such smooth sailing? It turns out that most of her success has been in good times rather than bad. With the strength of the good wind, it helps me to go to the clouds.
With the good winds of good times, we can grow our wings and fly higher and farther in the sky of life.
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Beethoven's efforts.
On May 7, 1824, Beethoven led his orchestra to play his Ninth Symphony. At the end of the performance, there was a deafening applause --- the evening venue in Vienna, where they were performing, but Beethoven did not feel the enthusiasm of the audience at all. What's going on?
It turns out that Beethoven can no longer hear the voice.
In 1796, Beethoven suddenly suffered from an ear disease, but he did not pay attention to it, always thinking that his ear disease would soon be cured. I'm not afraid of 10,000, but I'm afraid that in case, his ear disease not only did not improve, but also became more serious. It wasn't until 1819 that Beethoven lost his hearing and his heart was broken.
But in the face of the harsh blows of fate, Beethoven did not give in, he once again rose from the pain and suffering, his heart fell again on the side of hope and strength, and he also vowed: "I will challenge fate!" I will take fate by the throat and not let it ruin1
Since then, he has worked hard to compose music and strive for progress.
In this way, Beethoven overcame the pain under the great suffering of the ear disease, composed a large number of amazing symphonies, as well as some other ** works, and became a world-famous ** family and composer.
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In the slums of Harlem, New York City, a group of black children lived. They were absent from school and brawls. Frequently smash the glass in the classroom.
In order to educate them, the principal came up with a solution. One day, he came to the classroom and declared that he wanted to read palmistry for the children, ** the future of the children.
When one of the children walked up to the podium with his little hand outstretched, the principal said, "I knew as soon as I saw your slender little thumb that you would be the governor of New York in the future." The kid was taken aback.
Because he was the worst and mischievous kid in the class. But the child took note of the principal's words and believed it.
From that day on, the "Governor of New York" was like a banner that restrained and encouraged the child, who was no longer covered in mud and spoke with foul language; He began to walk with his waist straight, studied hard, and worked diligently. For more than 40 years, there was not a day that he did not demand of himself as governor.
At the age of fifty-one, he literally became governor.
This man was the fifty-third governor of New York and the first black governor in New York's history, and his name was Roger Rawls.
The headmaster of Rawls is not an immortal who can predict the future. He just used encouragement to turn an ordinary kid into an extraordinary governor. Encouragement is like a seed, as long as it is planted, no matter how deep the soil layer, it can break through the soil and sprout.
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Two local children fooled the old man, they caught a small bird and asked the old man:"Is the bird dead or alive? "The old man said without thinking
Child, if I say that the bird is alive, you will tighten your hand and kill it. If I say it's dead, you'll let go of your hand and let it fly. Your hands hold the power of life and death for this bird.
Takeaway: You hold the seeds of failure in your hands, but you also hold the potential for success. We have the right to choose success, but also the right to choose mediocrity, no one or anything can force you, it depends on how you choose.
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