What should I do if I feel more decadent lately?

Change your mind, give up on your goals, and take a break with peace of mind. Transform the decadent self into relaxation. Bridging the gap with the goal.

The reason for decadence is that the status quo is incapable of changing it, or that the difficulty is beyond our capabilities. Therefore, I don't want to act even more. You can try to make concessions, such as talking for a longer period of time and spending more energy.

You may have fun for a few days, but you won't be able to play in peace, and it won't be long before you get anxious and go back to study or work. Do too little and think too much, look at flowers and plants, climb mountains, gather for dinner, spend more time with the elderly, make life warmer, and you will not always live in your own philosophical world.

Then completely decadent once, do everything you think you shouldn't do thoroughly, feel bored, and return to normal. I couldn't read anything for a while, and I watched some boring Internet brain retarded ** all day long, and one day I suddenly felt a headache when I saw these**, and picked up a book about the history of American democracy, and I relished it. Later, there was a similar situation, and it came over like this.

To put it bluntly, there is no goal and the status quo is satisfied. Why don't you try to learn something that interests you? In fact, I used to think that I would only work hard for the girl I liked.

So you can try to find a girlfriend? I don't know the difference between paper books and e-books. The ultimate goal of reading is to learn knowledge.

So it's all pretty much the same. Chicken soup really doesn't work, because what really touches you is the one in your heart that really needs. If you have someone to protect, you will go to the gym, and if you want to answer everything for the person you love, you will go to study.

So be it.

If you can run for 1 hour a day, if you can do it for 5 years, then you won't be decadent! Of course, if you want to **, then continue with the current one. When the decadence is at the end, you will see the sun, find someone to talk nonsense, bask in the sun, travel, refuel.

Accept and allow yourself to be decadent in stages, set time boundaries for your decadence period, enjoy decadence during the decadence period, arrange a reinvigoration plan for the latter part of the decadence period, and act according to the plan at the end of the decadence period. But I know that this is because of the boredom caused by no work (study), and if you are really busy, you still want to get so much, if you read a book, find something that interests you.

Since you can't read it, let's listen to some audiobooks, and I personally think it can be a lot calmer....Go out with friends for a while, this is too idle and boring, you can also give yourself a vacation or go to sports, cultivate interests, and find the direction of life.

In fact, everyone understands the truth, it is better to set a goal for yourself, read some reference books, learn a language, master a software or something, and know why you are decadent? Which event caused your dissatisfaction? Slowly untie the knot.

That's all right. It is not easy for people to live for a lifetime, and every moment of time cannot be wasted.

Summary. How old are you?

Every young person, especially college graduates, young people who have worked hard in society for a period of time, and people with families will have such a psychological reaction!

Analysis: You don't want to be in contact with people, you just want to be alone and read and write, which shows that you are escaping reality and escaping responsibilities now! It's not about money, even if you're rich right now, you'll feel empty! It's a matter of your psyche!

So what is the reason for this?

You don't have your own goals and directions, you don't have the means to achieve them, you don't know what you have to do, you have to be on your own.

Solution:1Set goals, set future goals based on your current situation, what do you want to do in the future?

Locate first, and if you have a goal, you will have a direction, and you will not be confused 2Take action according to the goal, take a few steps, do it specifically, plan it yourself, and you will feel fulfilled and confident as long as you do it 3Persistence, as long as you insist on everything, there will be good results, as long as you have the right direction and the right method.

4.Resilience, the ability to enjoy solitude, and the courage to overcome difficulties.

Do the above four things and you won't be decadent! And will live better and better!

I've been feeling so decadent lately, what's going on?

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How old are you? Every young person, especially college graduates, young people who have worked hard in society for a period of time, and people with families will have such a psychological reaction! Analysis:

You don't want to be in contact with people, you just want to be alone and read and write, which shows that you are escaping reality and escaping responsibility now! It's not about money, even if you're rich right now, you'll feel empty! It's a matter of your psyche!

So what is the reason for this? You don't have your own goals and directions, you don't have the means to achieve them, you don't know what you have to do, you have to be on your own. Workaround:

1.Set goals, set future goals based on your current situation, what do you want to do in the future? Locate first, and if you have a goal, you will have a direction, and you will not be confused 2

Take action according to the goal, take a few steps, do it specifically, plan it yourself, and you will feel fulfilled and confident as long as you do it 3Persistence, as long as you insist on everything, there will be good results, as long as you have the right direction and the right method. 4.

Resilience, the ability to enjoy solitude, and the courage to overcome difficulties. Do the above four things and you won't be decadent! And will live better and better!

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