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It's mainly up to you.
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In the article, Mr. Lu Xun expressed his love for nature and his enthusiasm for freedom, hoping to play freely and leisurely, and have close contact with nature, and not wanting to be controlled by parents and domestic slaves all day long, which is unique to children. Once upon a time, I was far away from my childhood and into a teenager, and I was in this busy study and scratching life every day. But I myself consider myself to be a childish child, and sometimes I still have sweet childhood dreams.
When I recall those childhood trivialities, I often remember them vividly and can't help laughing. My home was originally on the outskirts of the city, surrounded by a large field, when I was a child, I always went there to enjoy the spring sunshine, the autumn breeze, and the rape flowers that I always picked a single left, I indulged in the embrace of nature; When I was a child, I went to the neighbor's house every day without wiping my mouth after eating, went to eat tofu with my friends, went to play in the field together, and from time to time I fell into a mud puddle and turned out"Little clay figurines"I picked all kinds of flowers, and I was afraid that the owner would find them, so I hid the flowers in the hollow of the tree, and the flowers had already withered when I went back for a while, but I was still intoxicated by the unrestrained free space. Now, with buildings built on the fields, my friends and I are working hard for our future, so I don't feel the kindness of nature, and there is a lot less freedom, but I still indulge in the unrestrained free space.
Now, because of the building on the field, my friends and I are working hard for our future, so I can't feel the kindness of nature, and there is a lot less freedom, but I still love nature and yearn for freedom, whether it can be achieved now or not. This may be the similarity between me and the young Lu Xun, which made me so moved after reading the article. Childhood has gradually become far away, leaving only some trivial memories, it is better to read "Morning Flowers and Sunset", experience the childhood dreams of that different era, and Lu Xun loves nature and yearns for freedom.
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Set small goals first, and then complete them one by one, and then it's a big goal. The process of experiencing it will be a busy life.
Of course, if you can't try it many times, you can change to a new environment.
Hope it helps.
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Improve your abilities. Personally, I think this is one of the prerequisites for you to stay away from low-quality busyness. Because your ability determines your efficiency and quality to a certain extent, so if you want to achieve efficient work and obtain high-quality results, first of all, you should accumulate more professional knowledge or skills of your own work, and then actively participate in some relevant skills training, so that you have the ability to handle the work easily.
Ask for advice from excellent "seniors" and learn from them with an open mind. Sometimes some people always get twice the result with half the effort, not because they are not serious enough and not hard enough, it may be a problem of method, it may be a problem of the direction of effort, because if the method is not right, they may take a lot of detours, the direction is not right, and no matter how hard they try, it will be in vain.
Therefore, you can ask for advice from excellent seniors, seek guidance, or be good at observing them, learn their efficient work methods, and summarize the ways and methods that suit you according to the specific situation of your work and your own ability, so as to continuously improve your work efficiency and quality.
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If you want to have a high-quality life, you must first have a capital to have a high-quality life, that is, your ability.
Of course, it doesn't mean that only education can change your life and make your life a high-quality one, but it is indeed a relatively close path, and of course you can find another way.
If you are a very creative person, then you can use your ingenuity to accumulate some experience, to work hard, to start a company, or to start a business, which is also a good way.
But how many people in the world are gifted and capable? Most people are mediocre people, and these people have to go through some effort to get what they want to get, and it is impossible to get a higher quality of life without their own efforts.
And these efforts must have a direction, and the direction of our efforts is to climb to a higher place, and education is a path that is especially suitable for most of us.
Because education is relatively fair, on this fair path, we can open up a wider sky through our ingenuity and hard work, and also allow ourselves to live a higher quality of life.
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Nowadays, people always feel that they are very busy, but when they stop, they find that they have not done anything.
We should learn to free ourselves from low-quality busyness, and we should do some productive busyness.
First of all, we should set ourselves small goals for each stage. For example, what tasks we should complete this week, or complete this week's performance, or complete this week's homework, can be used as a small goal at this stage, so as not to cause ourselves to be busy and tired, and in the end there is still no effect.
Then you should find someone else to urge yourself, which is a method that must be implemented when your self-control is not strong, so that your friends or classmates, or your own family, in a certain period of time, supervise what you want to do, and let yourself be busy with efficient things.
Basically, if you do the above two things well, you can effectively get rid of your low-quality busyness, or in other words, useless busyness, and start your own high-efficiency work path.
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First of all, you have to be seriously devoted, don't just think about the result, regardless of the process, in fact, your attitude towards yourself will also be indirectly reflected in doing things, if you are a hundred points of focus and effort, you will definitely receive a return, there is no doubt about this, but many people always like to deceive themselves, always pretend to be very serious, and then cry with a look of grievance and others why they can't get a return for their efforts, as for whether they can receive the ideal return, they know best in their hearts.
If you want to be efficient, you must at least have the most basic foundation to do this well, and all the operation procedures must be clear and can be completed completely by yourself, and can be recognized by others. With these most basic abilities, the rest belongs to the will of the individual and the willpower of the individual, if you are a person who is too lazy to eat, let alone work efficiently, you will not even be able to do the work. People must at least rely on individuals to accomplish one thing, and only with self-confidence and a sense of accomplishment can they have the desire and perseverance to accomplish greater ideals.
So you have to complete something that is not so simple for you first, and after you complete it perfectly, you will have the feeling of working efficiently.
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And there are a lot of people around me, they seem to be studying every day, but they don't learn a lot, and I have a lot of classmates like this in high school, and they don't do very well in their studies, so I think it's a bad habit for them, they pretend to be busy. So be sure to give yourself some sense of urgency and let yourself know how to learn.
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Generally, our busy low-quality life is our own thing, efficiency is a very important factor, many people feel that there are a lot of things, they are very busy and blind, and they have not been idle, but they find that they are very limited in what they deal with, and they can never finish it.
For example, if something urgent, and it is a more important thing, then it must be dealt with first, some small things that are more fragmented, learn to set a specific time for yourself, and concentrate on dealing with such things within a specific time.
In addition, for some more important things, but not so urgent things, then you can divide the time period and which time period to deal with, but it does not necessarily have to be completed in a short time.
Be sure to set a timetable, don't do one thing at a time, you don't have a clue to do it all the time, but it's very inefficient. This prioritization can make you more efficient.
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Some people seem to be busy, but they are too busy to produce anything, which should be defined as low-quality busyness. If we can work more efficiently, we can work more easily and productively. Therefore, having a sense of time should be an important driving factor for us to improve our work efficiency.
Lack of attention to time is the main reason for the decline in our work efficiency. Some people can complete two days of work in eight hours, while others process their work tasks slowly, without considering the efficiency of the work, so they have to work overtime at the end of the day, which is not a wise thing to do.
Proficiency in the business is also an important factor that affects our work efficiency. If we are proficient in the business, we will do the job at hand. But if we don't know much about our work, then we can only learn and work at the same time, and use time to make up for our ignorance, which will lead to our own inefficiency.
The ability to deal with problems is also related to the efficiency of our work. There will be problems and even mistakes in our work, some people will only indulge in negative emotions and cannot extricate themselves, while others will face them positively and correct them quickly. Therefore, only by improving our error correction ability can we save our work efficiency.
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First of all, you need to be clear about your goals and figure out what you want.
Some people are busy every day and don't know why they choose to live such a working life. Every day in the face of boring, unchanged work, you have to get by, just do nothing.
Such a person has lost his fighting spirit in life, and no matter how busy he is, it is in vain. If you don't make progress, your life will only be a mess if you keep it as it is.
Clarify the goal and point out the direction to yourself, so that you will have the motivation to strive forward.
Second, make a plan.
Once you have a clear goal, you need to plan for your future.
What to do next, what to do in the future, how to put it into action, step by step must be planned in place.
If you want to build a tall building, you also need to lay a good foundation and draw the design of the building before you can start construction.
It's the same with life. If you don't want to be mediocre all your life, then make a plan for yourself and be strict with yourself, so that it is possible to break through yourself.
Finally, it's time to put it into action.
Once you have a goal and a plan, take action.
You can't just say it and don't do it, you don't have the courage to try, it's just a piece of paper, it's meaningless.
As long as you do these three points well, you are not afraid that your life is of low quality. Let's take action and work hard for a better future.
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There is a saying that "if you are interrupted, you will suffer from it." Looking back on life, you will find that those low-quality busyness can actually be shirked, but every time for various reasons, you fail to shirk, so you start to do some inexplicable things in a daze. There are two reasons for this, one is that you are not decisive enough, and the other is that you have no goals.
There are some things that don't have to be done, they can be done, and it's okay not to do them. When you realize that your time is being spent on these things, you should stop immediately and decisively. Don't think it's bad to do half of it and not finish the rest, because you're still wasting time if you continue to do the remaining half.
This kind of meaningless thing is a quagmire, and getting out of it as soon as possible is the king.
It's important to have a goal. If you don't have a goal, you don't know how to judge that it's meaningless, and if you have a goal, your life will be very organized and won't drag on. Because you know what to do and what not to do, life becomes planned and efficient.
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Many people have the feeling that they have a busy day and then end up feeling like they haven't done anything. So how to start an efficient life, in fact, you must first know what you want to do and have a goal to do things, otherwise the feeling of getting nothing is really unpleasant.
The best thing is to make a plan, arrange what you want to do every day, come together in the morning to arrange the things of the day, and then after you finish one thing, you will row it, tell yourself that you have completed one thing, and finally you will know every day whether you have completed your goal or not, there are many such people around me who use this method, which is really efficient, and I myself use this practice when I review each semester at the end of college. I feel that every day is tightly arranged, and everything is done well. So that's how our daily busyness becomes very meaningful.
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Sometimes we put in too much time and energy and don't get the results we want. Sometimes time and efficiency are not proportional. If you want to accomplish something efficiently in a limited amount of time, you need to have your own strategy.
If your self-control is not very good, you can find a good friend to supervise you to finish, and with their supervision, you will be less lazy often. Or you can do it with your like-minded partner, after all, the persistence of two people is much higher than the persistence of one. Either way, you're going to have to find what works for you.
At least it's better than doing nothing at home.
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