What would you do if you suddenly felt like your girlfriend wasn t that perfect anymore?

When one day you feel that your girlfriend is not so perfect, you have to think about whether you are perfect. Because it is very likely that he has changed, and his girlfriend has not changed at all. I used to think that my girlfriend was perfect because I loved it enough, I loved it to the point that I loved the house and Wu, I loved it to the bones, and I loved it so much that I thought she was cute in everything she did.

But after you don't love it, you will feel that she can't get used to what she does, and she is willful and unreasonable. Love is so unreasonable, there are no two perfect people, they are two hundred and fifty percent people draw into a pair to become perfect, run in with each other, care for each other, and form a happy family. So don't be too surprised when one of the two people changes, as the work environment changes, it is normal for one person to walk in front and the other person to lag behind, so that the lagging person can keep up with his own footsteps, rather than disliking it.

Looking for a girlfriend is not a beauty pageant, let alone looking for an employee. So when you meet what you like, cherish it, don't pick and choose, and be too demanding. Think about yourself when you demand perfection from others?

If even you are not perfect and are just pursuing the perfect girlfriend, then you can only find it in your dreams. So if you really plan to be with someone you like, you have to learn to tolerate each other, accept all the shortcomings, and then make up for it, and you also have to discover her strengths, so that two people can be harmonious together and not too awkward or emotional. Don't put some negative mindset in the middle of the relationship to measure.

I think you need to ask yourself, if you are really in a quarrel period, learn to be considerate and get through it, if you feel that two people are really not suitable later, then break up peacefully, if you feel that you can't leave each other, you need to learn to tolerate each other's shortcomings, love each other, not only advantages, but also shortcomings.

The easiest and most painful way is to break up. If you still love it, choose to change, let your girlfriend change into the perfect way you want it to be, and at the same time change the high requirements for perfection in your heart. In fact, everyone is imperfect, and maybe you are not perfect in your girlfriend's heart.

Love needs to be tolerant of each other.

First, there is nothing wrong with pursuing perfection, but you must know that there are no perfect people in this world.

Second, when you feel that your girlfriend is no longer so perfect, you still don't give up, which means that you may really love her, but if you feel that your girlfriend is not perfect, and you want to leave him, then it is only possible that you do not love her, what you love is only a kind of perfection in your consciousness;

Thirdly, you have two options, the first option is that you feel that she is not perfect, and you leave her to pursue another perfect girlfriend in your own mind who is unlikely to appear, and the second option is to accept her shortcomings, get along with her shortcomings, and then do a real good time.

There is no perfect person in this world, don't be too demanding of each other, people have shortcomings, since you like her, you have to tolerate her shortcomings, only such feelings can last for a long time, you feel that others are not perfect at the same time, you have to reflect on whether you have done it in place? In the world of feelings, tolerance is needed.

You should think about his benefits so that you find it cute.

No one is perfect. If one day you feel that your girlfriend is no longer so perfect, you have to adjust your mentality, learn to change yourself, and fall in love with your girlfriend who is no longer perfect. You can also try to change your girlfriend and make her the perfect way she used to be.

1. Adjust your mentality, change yourself, and fall in love with a girlfriend who is no longer perfect.

There is no perfect person in this world, I used to see my girlfriend perfect, but now I see my girlfriend imperfect, this is a problem of mentality, so you have to adjust your mentality. Everyone has shortcomings, and they used to see their girlfriends perfectly, because they were in love before, and they weren't so familiar with each other, so they felt that each other was perfect. Now that they are very familiar with each other, they will see each other's shortcomings, and they will feel that the other party is no longer perfect, in fact, this is their own mentality.

You have to adjust your mentality, change yourself, learn to accept your imperfect girlfriend and fall in love with your imperfect girlfriend.

2. Try to change your girlfriend and make her look perfect.

It is especially difficult to change a person, because it takes patience to persuade the other person slowly, and then to change the other person, it takes a long process. I feel that my girlfriend is no longer perfect, I feel that my girlfriend has many shortcomings, I am very disappointed in my girlfriend, and if I don't want to change my attitude, I have to try to change my girlfriend. First of all, you have to convince your girlfriend to face up to your shortcomings and correct your shortcomings, it is very difficult to change a person, so be patient and pay attention to your attitude.

Companionship is the most affectionate confession, accompanying your girlfriend to slowly change, become her original appearance, and change back to her perfect appearance.

3. Deal with the matter calmly and go to see your girlfriend after a while.

If you feel that your girlfriend is no longer perfect, it is likely that there is something wrong with your relationship, so deal with it calmly. It is recommended to look back at your girlfriend after a while, maybe you will change this view after a while, and feel that your girlfriend is still so perfect, everyone has a bad mood, don't be impulsive, don't say the words of breakup easily.

If you feel more and more that your girlfriend is not so perfect, it should be that you have been in love for a while. That's why you feel this way, in fact, if two people get along for a long time, some of the other party's shortcomings will be exposed in front of you. We can accept all this, after all, everyone is not so perfect, and it is normal to have shortcomings.

Your girlfriend is not so perfect, if you still love him, you have to accept his imperfections, after all, no perfect person exists.

There is no such thing as perfection in people, and if you think she is perfect from the beginning, the image in your heart is very beautiful. Then, when you get along more and more and spend more time together, you will see her not so good side, there will be some prejudices, and slowly, you will feel that she has a lot of things that you can't accept, so don't imagine each other so perfect at the beginning. Because once you find out about her less than perfect side, it will cause you to become more and more unacceptable.

You can talk to your girlfriend about these things that make you feel that she is not perfect, and if she can accept it, you can change it, and if you can't accept it, don't force it, and try to see her other shining points. Of course, if you really can't talk about it anymore, you must also make it clear to your girlfriend as soon as possible, so that you can get together and disperse.

In fact, if you feel more and more that your girlfriend is not perfect, it means that you have found your girlfriend's shortcomings, and you are very resistant to this kind of behavior, you should make it clear to him, and then ask him to correct these bad behaviors, instead of blindly resisting, in fact, the noisy and noisy run-in between the two people solved the conflict, and the relationship warmed up quickly.

More and more I feel that my girlfriend is not so perfect anymore, what should you do?

When you think he is the most perfect, it is because you don't understand others, and no one is perfect.

The more you and your girlfriend get to know each other, the more you feel that you should tolerate each other, everyone is not perfect, and there is no perfect person in the world.

Only by tolerating each other, understanding each other, and respecting each other, can boyfriends and girlfriends get married and embark on the road of marriage.

First of all, you have to understand that everyone is not so perfect. There are some shortcomings that are unacceptable to the other party. This is a very normal reality.

So this is the time to understand and tolerate. Don't forget your original intention. Think about why you're together?

It's because of what they loved. Don't forget this thing. Be considerate of each other and understand each other.

Because I may also have a lot of shortcomings.

Hello, in fact, many people are born imperfect. It's normal when you find out that your girlfriend isn't so perfect. There's no need to worry too much about these things, because you're not perfect yourself.

There's no need to ask your friend to be perfect. Sometimes we have to learn to tolerate the shortcomings of others. This kind of relationship can last for a long time.

That's the loss of freshness. Freshness is good at everything, and the advantages will make you ignore her shortcomings, and when the freshness is gone, you will often only see her shortcomings and ignore her strengths. If you don't want to be responsible for her and start a family yourself, you can worship each other.

If you want to succeed, you have to accept that this is a cycle where all feelings will come to this point, and look at her strengths and weaknesses to pretend to be blind. Keep loving her action, love or marriage needs to be managed.

When two people get along for a long time, it is easy to have aesthetic fatigue, a sense of burnout, and more and more feel that their girlfriends are no longer so perfect, at this time, they can be separated from each other for a period of time, give each other some space, keep a sense of mystery, and you can return to the previous feeling.

The relationship between two people is a process of continuous running-in, and they feel that their girlfriend is no longer so perfect, and there are some small shortcomings, but more should tolerate each other, understand each other, and love a person, even if even one of his shortcomings should be loved, improved, and tolerated, so that they can really go on.

Was it your feeling or did she do something? Men and women in love will feel that each other is the most perfect at first, and slowly as time goes by, they will feel tired as soon as the novelty passes, which is quite normal. Each other has to try to find more points of interest and common ground in order to go further.

Then if she does something that you feel sorry for, you can make it clear that it is difficult to continue and separate.

If it's just a matter of your feelings, I suggest you try to find her strengths from different angles. Falling in love can't be just three minutes of passion.

As the saying goes, if a person is not a sage, he can be incapacitated, and no one is perfect. It is a personal who will definitely have flaws, especially if the lover gets along for a long time, some shortcomings will gradually be exposed. If you just abandon your old love because you think your girlfriend is not so perfect, it is a bit irresponsible.

If the other party has something wrong, she can openly and honestly raise it, and if she understands the reason, she will definitely restrain herself.

First of all, you feel that your girlfriend is not so perfect, is it because you are getting better and better now, or is it because you have more recent income and you have become inflated, or he is relying on you more and more, so that you will have this kind of mentality, first of all, no one is a perfect person, so you can understand your girlfriend's imperfection that is the best, after all, it turns out that you may be worse than him when he is with you.

I don't think you're a little weird? Because it still belongs to the state that you are with him, it is because you feel that he is not so perfect anymore, not what you are in your heart, maybe you didn't have contact with him at the beginning, or you didn't fully understand him, you are like this. But I think you're a more serious person, you still don't want to delay other girls, because I think you belong to that kind of surface, that is, when you first felt that he was very good together, and then you couldn't accept her real side, and then you want to be a girl who mistook others, I think you should tell others about good things and separate, if you have such a psychology, I don't think you will be happy in every relationship.

aqui te amo。

If you feel that your girlfriend is becoming more and more imperfect, you should let yourself communicate with your girlfriend at this time, and then think more about your girlfriend's goodness at ordinary times, and then let the relationship continue.

First of all, you should think about whether you are perfect, if you can't be perfect, then you naturally have no right to ask others to be perfect. What you just saw together was the good side of each other, and after a long time, their shortcomings will naturally be slowly exposed, and you should communicate well with her.

When you fall in love, when you become her weakness and armor, a girl will show her true self in front of you without reservation.

That's when you'll find:

It turned out that she didn't look that good when she didn't wear makeup, and after removing the makeup that had been carefully dressed for an hour, her face was covered in acne scars and dullness.

It turns out that she is not as quiet and stable as she seems, and her anxiety about age far exceeds mine, and she often can't sleep because she worries about the future.

It turns out that she has no eyebrows, and she secretly got up and made it out of the temporary before she co-authored, but I didn't see it.

It turns out that she doesn't understand anything, and when I drive the car, I can see her taillights, and I lose.

It turned out that she was not as sunny as she appeared on the surface, and she also had times when she was so sad that she didn't want to move and cried silently.

It turned out that she was not as sunny as she appeared on the surface, and she also had times when she was so sad that she didn't want to move, and she cried silently.

It turns out that she is not as reasonable as she seems, she will also have small emotions for no reason, she will also get angry inexplicably, and she will also eat the vinegar of people who can't beat it.

It turns out that she is not the body of a female man, she is very deficient in qi and blood, and her hands and feet are often cold, even if she drinks more brown sugar ginger tea, it will not help.

It turned out that her room was not tidy at all, and when she lived alone, she could be so messy that she couldn't insert her feet.

It turned out that she said that some girls did it for a while, but in fact, she occasionally wanted to do it herself, feeling the feeling of being unreasonable and being pampered.

It turned out that she was also a little princess who didn't touch the spring water with her fingers, and the delicious dishes that day were the result of her countless times using her roommate as a guinea pig.

It turns out that she is better than me in the second middle school, and there are all kinds of small theaters in my head that I will have a black question mark on my face when I listen to them.

She was so afraid of losing me, and I was so important to her.

It turned out that when we first got together, she carefully told me that she was not good, and it was really not modest.

She said, you said you wanted to see the real me, and now you do.

She said, will you dislike me, I'm not as good as I used to be.

She said, I told you, don't get too close to me, if you get too close, some things will taste bad.

I thought about it and took her into my arms.

I saw it, and I knew it, that you weren't as good as I thought you were.

When I become your other half, I can gradually see your shortcomings and faults, and see the shadows under your sunny appearance.

I admit that there is a psychological gap, but trust me, I will not leave.

Because I know that when you start to show that side in front of me, it's when you let your guard down and open your heart like me.

Those things are really hard to be pleasant, but my dear, who is not a shortcoming, and who is not sick to survive.

But can you believe it? When I woke up yawning as you watched you with a shiny face and messy hair beside me, I smiled like a Chi clan child.

Above. It's not easy to code words, if it helps you, please give it a thumbs up, I'm Hongsang, a national second-level psychological counselor, receiving counseling on love and marriage issues.