How can people change their self righteousness?

If you feel that people want to change themselves and be self-righteous, you must first communicate with different people, and then only by communicating with different people, you will understand that there is a sky outside the sky, there are people outside the world, everyone is particularly good, people who are better than you will have a lot of things of your own are particularly shallow, people are better than you, what qualifications are special arrogant? I think everyone will have their own consciousness, only through constant contact with others, constantly communicate with others your own social circle will become broader, will not be limited to their own small world, I think everyone should make changes, and then should be a wide range of fools to communicate, change themselves, their own faults.

Self-righteousness is a problem of thinking, which can only be solved by thinking it out. I think I don't need to deliberately change it, I just need to fuse it together through other excellent qualities, transform it, remove its edge, for example, a little more patience. Three steps:

Observe carefully, listen carefully, think deeply, and I believe that your self-righteousness will become slick and eventually become your strength.

Take out a pen and paper, write down your shortcomings one by one, and then in your circle of friends, find out the friends who have corresponding advantages on the shortcomings, compare your own shortcomings with his advantages, and the feeling of being compared will make you change the self-righteous fault! You need to be a little more mature. Failure allows you to be calm enough to understand what reality is.

Let yourself start with failure and gradually work your way up to success.

First of all, you must have such an awareness that you have the problem of self-righteousness, so that you can have a heart to correct him, because you know where your shortcomings are, so you can pass, think about whether you can really do it in many things, don't believe too much every time you encounter something, overconfident and conceited to say something, through this way of thinking before talking and doing things, let yourself get rid of the bad problem of self-righteousness.

I think the best way to get rid of self-righteousness is to let him face some failures and setbacks in society or real life, because you have so many failures, you will naturally not be so overconfident, too conceited to think how good you are, but after these failures and setbacks, you can have a more accurate understanding of yourself, so that you are no longer so self-righteous.

You can listen to your own opinions, look at them first, think about other people's opinions first, and think about whether you should say these things before you speak, and what kind of impact it will have on other people.

First of all, if you know that you have a problem with self-righteousness and want to fix it, you are halfway there. To break this bad habit, he needs time, and all you have to do is remind yourself often, and at critical times, such as when you are ready to say arrogant things, you should quickly remind yourself.

From a psychological point of view, there are two kinds of self-righteousness. One is the kind of liberalization; One is that they are not confident, and in order to cover up their own shortcomings, they are self-righteous. For the first type, pay more attention to the strengths of others and your own shortcomings; For the second one, pay more attention to your own strengths and the shortcomings of others.

It's a long process, so take control of it yourself.

As we grow older and have more social experience, we will form a fixed and regular way of thinking, so that when we encounter different views of others, we will be repulsed, difficult to understand and accept. Sometimes we become stubborn, we get into arguments because we disagree with others, we become self-righteous and extremely conceited. Here are a few ways to change your self-righteousness.

1. Review history.

In your free time, you can read more historical knowledge, so that some self-righteous and self-righteous negative images in history are always vigilant against yourself.

2. Read more biographies of successful people.

Reading the biographies of celebrities or successful people can let us know that "there is a source outside the sky and there are people outside the world", which can make us let go of the mentality of "know-it-all", and can allow us to broaden our horizons and increase our knowledge.

3. Learn more about the humility of celebrities.

To understand the deeds of celebrities, we can perceive their goodness, their humility and their humility in the process. Follow their example and be a low-key and peaceful person in life.

4. Slow down the pace of life appropriately.

Maybe it's a busy job, so the pace is fast. But try to slow down the pace of your life after work, listen to the soothing **, take a walk in the park can make yourself more peaceful, so it is not easy to argue with others, and you are more able to accept the opinions of others that are inconsistent with you.

5. Practice listening to others' opinions.

When others disagree with us, try to give up your own opinion for a while, listen to the other person's opinion, and try it according to the other person's opinion, maybe the result is not bad and may be better than you think.

6. Recognize your own insignificance.

In the vast universe, no matter how good an individual is, he is insignificant. The progress of our human beings depends on the continuous improvement of the way of thinking; Recognizing our own insignificance can help us to let go of unhelpful stubbornness, so that we can listen and tolerate, and constantly improve ourselves.

1. Learn to reflect and observe. Whenever you feel good, you must reflect on yourself, the best way is to let yourself jump out of your body, assume, the soul is in the air, and then, take a comprehensive look at what is happening around you, see what you are really like, don't just imagine yourself to affirm yourself.

2. Learn to admonish yourself. There are many times, when you feel that you are very good, you look at those who are better than you, and then9 warn yourself that you are still far from being a good person, and you can't look at them. Learn to be humble.

3. Learn to see your own shortcomings. Whenever someone praises you, or when others show appreciative eyes, the first thing that comes to mind is not how good you are, but that you still have a lot of shortcomings.

4. Learn to communicate with others. Whether it's emotional or work. Communication is very important, most self-righteous people feel that they are very good, and they should be the center of others, but in fact, others have not paid attention to them at all, so it will form a great contrast, so we must learn to communicate, and we will know ourselves.

5. We must continue to cultivate and improve ourselves. If it is indeed excellent, it is indeed the object of envy and pursuit of others. We must also remember that people should continue to improve their cultivation and become a better version of themselves. If you are satisfied and do not seek progress, then you are bound to be self-righteous!

Listen to the opinions of others, think more from the perspective of others, think more for others, and then think about a problem in many aspects, not one aspect of the problem, and do not always start from yourself, but consider the problem from all aspects.

Self-righteousness can also be overconfident, this should be more humble in life, and be humble in people and things. Don't be so confident in yourself, although self-confidence is good, but overconfidence will have a bad impact and affect some aspects of life.

Failure will frustrate people's ambitions, make people more aware of their own shortcomings, better understand their shortcomings and shortcomings, so as to further enrich themselves, supplement themselves, and make themselves more comprehensive and better. Then become an excellent person.

Self-righteousness, to put it nicely, that is, self-confidence, having your own opinions, Zheng Qing's own opinions, and having your own ideas. This is also a good thing, as long as you don't overdo it and don't think about others. It's all possible.