When should I break up with him, and at what stage should I break up?

When I want to break up with him and don't want to see him again.

In the end, disappointment turned into an absolute expectation of no more.

When it's time to leave, you'll never look back.

That's when we really broke up.

Will you suddenly feel guilty about me, when you love someone else.

My dear, love is not on the line, but there must be a bottom line.

May the sincerity of your love also be dripping, and remember to protect yourself.

The bottom line of life. There's such a story:

After her daughter was admitted to college, her father sent her money: "Is 1,200 yuan enough?" ”

Daughter: "That's enough. ”

The father said, "Buy whatever you want, don't lose yourself." ”

The daughter listened and was silent for a long time.

The father wondered, "What's wrong?" ”

The daughter said: "My roommate is the same as me, and the family also gives 1,200 yuan a month, but her quality of life is higher than mine, she has snacks every day, and she goes to McDonald's every week to ......."”

The father said, "Is she working?" You don't want to go, delay your studies. ”

She didn't have a part-time job, she was in a relationship. One time she came back from a date and told me that she didn't really like the guy, she just liked him to pay for herself. She also said that I was stupid, but it was a pity for this face, if she had a beautiful face like me, she wouldn't have to ask for money from her family at all. ”

The father put down **, immediately called his daughter 1,500 yuan, and said to his daughter: "From this month on, I will give you 1,500 yuan per month." For the extra $300, you can buy snacks.

Also, if you're in love, tell me. I'll give you another 500 yuan a month as a love fund. Remember to bring your wallet with you every time you go on a date.

Why did this father do this?

He is teaching his daughter a bottom line in life - to be financially independent.

If a woman wants to have an evenly matched relationship, she wants to have a home with peace of mind. Economic independence is the first thing to be guaranteed. ”

It's time to break up when you're seriously thinking about it, don't delay each other, don't hurt each other.

If you don't like it, break up as soon as possible, without delay, it's not good for anyone.

By the time you're done spending his money!

It depends on what you want.

Some people choose to break up after graduation, but if you find that he has stopped giving to you for a long time or has not paid enough and the communication is ineffective, he doesn't care much about you for several months and doesn't give you quality time and conversations, and you don't have to wait until the breakup day, you can consider breaking up.

2. Observe the situation

He doesn't care about your situation, you should feel it. Giving to him should also be stopped. Observe what's going on, like what he doesn't care about your feelings and what he makes you do for granted.

3. Distance yourself

Distance yourself from him and take a look. Make sure your observations are correct. Then communicate from a reserved and independent distance. You can go back to the distance where he is chasing you, and you think about whether or not to promise him.

4. It can disappear from here

If you don't communicate with him, you can disappear from his life immediately. In such a situation, if you want to get him again, the opportunity is to let him go. Immediately and cleanly disappeared from his life. Let's see if the sudden blank space evokes nostalgia for him.

5. Don't go back in time

Even if he is very nostalgic for you, and he has renewed enthusiasm for you, he must continue to be reserved and independent for a while. If you say yes right away, you'll be back to that state, and soon you'll see history repeat itself, and you'll step into that mud pit again.

6. When it is broken, it is broken

Don't get stuck with the spoiled things that have already broken down, which will only hinder your progress and will only cost you more future gains. Say goodbye to the past, don't go back, and the future is better.

Hello dear, two people start a cold war, and then ignore each other, can't get each other's care, two people are drifting apart, each other has blame and don't trust, blame each other when encountering things, can feel that the other party is evasive from you, and is unwilling to talk to you, such a relationship is not conducive to the development of feelings, it is very easy, hurt feelings. The two of them will slowly drift apart.

When two people are in a cold war, or when they quarrel, they will say some words that hurt their feelings, and these words can easily lead to the breakdown of the relationship between two people. and excessive interference by family members, or the tendency of the other party to be violent. As long as there are too many feelings and violent tendencies in the family, this level has already broken the relationship.

My dear, the most taboo thing we are in love is well, the person you love, he doesn't love you enough, and then, if the other party has violent tendencies, those two people can't get together, because the other party will hurt you. So to this extent, the breakup is irretrievable.

There is also the fact that the other party has always listened to the opinions of the family, and that does not take into account your feelings, this kind of words, the relationship will always make the other party feel sad, and blindly giving will not be rewarded, and it will also make the relationship worse.

When there is no feeling for each other, and there are irreconcilable problems in the relationship, some problems will persist and there is no possibility of solving, and I don't want to make any effort for the relationship. And the life you aspire to is very different from the other person. When both parties feel that they can't get a response for anything, when they feel that they can't get a response for anything, when you are annoying and annoying, you can break up at this stage.

I can't get along with it.

In this issue**, let's talk to you, which of the four periods we will inevitably experience after the breakup, which period is the most suitable to recover? And how do we get through this painful time? The first thing everyone faces when they break up is how do I get back to each other?

When you are annoying and annoying, you can break up at this stage. I can't get along with it.

When both sides feel that they can't get a response for anything.