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Once, while Socrates was walking in the streets, he was hit on the back with a stick, and the pain was so painful that he could not stand and squatted down, but soon he got up again as if nothing had happened. The bystanders who witnessed the whole passing by saw that he didn't react, and asked him curiously: You were beaten, why didn't you fight back?

Socrates smiled: When a wild donkey kicks you, will you kick it back?

George Bernard Shaw liked to ride a bicycle when he was young, and once broke his leg bone, his female classmate took care of him very considerately, George Bernard Shaw was worried that he would not be strong-willed and would propose to this female classmate, so he decided to slip away But he accidentally fell from the stairs to the bottom of the stairs, and both legs were broken, and he really asked her if she would marry him When the female classmate nodded, George Bernard Shaw fainted

A woman said to Maugham: I have been with a man for a long time, but I dare not determine whether I am in love with him or not The famous writer has a very unique view of the test of love, he said: There is only one way to test whether you are really in love with him, whether you are willing to brush your teeth with his toothbrush.

Dumas was asked, "Why do you have the grace to enter your old age?" He retorted disapprovingly: It has taken me all my life to get to where I am today

Fang Xuanling, a famous minister in the Tang Dynasty, was not an official, and once he was seriously ill, and said to his wife Lu: If I die of illness, you don't want to be widowed, but remarry Lu went to the room and gouged out an eye to show that he would not change his temper for life Later, Fang Xuanling recovered from his illness and rose to the high position of prime minister, and he always had great respect for his wife

Christie's husband is an archaeologist, and once, at a rally, a friend asked him: How do you feel about marrying an imaginative woman like you to a man who plays with antiquities? The detective said:

An archaeologist is the most ideal husband, you think, the older something is, the more he likes it

Voltaire visited England in 1727, and he found that the English were very hostile to the French, and a group of Englishmen shouted at him: Kill him, hang this Frenchman! Voltaire said

Briton! Isn't it enough that you want to kill me because I'm French, and that I'm not punished because I'm not English? The Englishman laughed when he heard this, and actually sent him all the way back to his apartment.

Chaplin can write, direct, and act, and is a rare all-round filmmaker Once, he held a film production meeting, and a fly flew around him In the middle of the meeting, he held the fly swatter, posed as a fly, and looked at the fly fiercely But after hitting it three times, it didn't hit Later, the fly was on the table in front of him, and he slowly picked up the fly swatter, and when he was about to make a fatal blow, he suddenly put down his hand and let the fly fly away The people present next to him saw it and said, "Why didn't you kill it?" The comedian shrugged his shoulders and said:

This isn't the one just now!

After Li Bai's death, his body was buried at the head of the quarry river, and the poets who came and went wrote poems on his tomb Someone wrote a quatrain: A bad soil by the quarry river, Li Bai's poems are famous through the ages; Write two lines of coming and going, and Lu Ban dropped a big axe in front of the door

The definition of showing off is to deliberately emphasize oneself from various aspects (mostly referring to money, power, status, etc.) (slightly exaggerating oneself and belittling others). Generally refers to boasting. It also refers to deliberately showing others what you approve, so as to get the praise and envy of others, but here you need to pay attention to "waiting" and "generally", because in general, the so-called show-off psychology is just a self-affirmation of the party's self-worth, everyone will have their own pursuit, maybe in the eyes of others do not understand, but just like others can not fully understand you, but everyone stands at a different angle.

Indeed, at the moment, showing off generally refers to those colorful lives, luxuries, etc., but if you put it from another angle, it is also possible that he wants to share the joy of a certain moment, and there are not so many other meanings? The reason why you feel to show off, from another point of view, is to reflect your own emptiness, your own envy. For example, if someone is showing off a baby, you may think "Wow, her child is so good and cute", however, in fact, you still love your child deeply, even if he is not good enough or good.

Does someone else "showing off" really affect your life and mindset? Actually, because you will compare, this is how the so-called hatred of the rich comes from. So, don't always feel that others are showing off, when you feel like this, it is actually your dissatisfaction with your life, not the emptiness of other people's hearts, self-deception, young people have a better mentality, how to see the world, the world is what you see in your eyes.

Proud, empty-eyed, self-centered, thinking that the earth revolves around him, in fact, he thinks too much.

Looking at the mentality, some want to share, and some want to have a sense of superiority.

Ms. Yu Dan, a famous lecturer at the Hundred Lectures, once said: "What a person shows off shows what is lacking in his heart." On the other hand, what a person lacks, he will find a way to show off, which is actually a very common psychological phenomenon.

From a psychological point of view, everyone has the need to compensate for themselves and reduce anxiety, and once we lack something, we often brag and show off in order to ensure inner balance and calmness.

Because of this, what we show off is often the most lacking thing in our hearts, and the place we care about the most is often the most inferior, because we are afraid that everyone knows our shortcomings, so we always find ways to supplement and elevate ourselves in the external form, and find ways to create an illusion for others, this method of deception is actually a kind of self-deception, we are covering up the emptiness and inadequacy in our hearts, and we are covering up our own defects.

The really rich people don't flaunt their wealth everywhere, because they have seen through it, and those who flaunt their wealth all day long are actually born from a desire for wealth and an inferiority complex; Truly beautiful people will not deliberately dress up and show off themselves, only those who want to be beautiful will find ways to put on makeup, take pictures, and express themselves in front of others; The truly wise people never say how smart they are, but will keep a low profile and pretend to be confused, and only those who are stupid will want to show their wisdom everywhere; People with real integrity never talk about honesty all day long, only those who are insidious and treacherous always try their best to proclaim their honesty everywhere to confuse and cover up their hypocrisy; A person who does good deeds never says how much money he has donated outside and what kind of contribution he has made to society, only those who do not have many good deeds will talk about how to do good deeds and how to help the needy.

When a person lacks something and he can't find the most suitable way to prove that he is not lacking such a thing, he will always habitually show off, and he will choose to use the most superficial and direct method to cover up the truth of the matter, to cover himself. So in the end, they will hype and show off in front of others, hoping that everyone will be able to make a name for themselves, and hope that everyone will be able to know that they actually lack nothing. This practice is actually to cover up, and there are some suspicions that there are no silver three hundred taels here.

First of all, it takes capital to show off! Is it realistic?