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In the face of children's separation anxiety, parents should know how to comfort and encourage their children, help them build self-confidence, and believe that their children can do better without their parents, so that children will not be anxious.

Don't force him to go to school, learn to guide him to kindergarten slowly, knowing that there are many children and teachers in kindergarten.

On the first day of school, parents must send them in person, and personally take the children to meet a few children, so that the children will not feel very lonely; Secondly, you should pick up and drop off in person after school, and communicate with your child about the happy things at school today, and it is also very good to prepare a small gift for your child at home.

You can reassure your child and tell him that there are many children in the school who can play with him.

If you want to develop your child's independence, you need to take it one step at a time. In general, you should pay more attention to this aspect. Fathers should take care of their children in their daily lives.

Parents can first accompany their children, learn at school, and then familiarize their children with the environment.

How to Solve Separation Anxiety in Kids?

First, it is recommended to recognize "separation" with children in the form of games, such as hide and seek, which can be hidden by oneself or children, by people, or by things. The duration of the stash can be controlled. After the game, you can discuss with your child meaningful questions such as "where did the hidden things go" and "why are the invisible things still there?"

Second, create opportunities for separation, such as telling your child to go out on an errand and not come back until five minutes later. Or consciously guide the child to do something, and take the initiative to separate from himself for a few minutes. Later, you can talk to your child about "what we have done" and "what interesting experiences separation can bring us".

Third, you can tell some stories about the separation content to the children of the old spring draft, picture books or self-edited, the main thing is to be vivid. For example, why did the mother eagle drive the eaglet out of the nest on the cliff and so on. Later, you can discuss with your child, for example, why did the mother eagle kick the eaglet out?

You can also ask what you would do if you were an eagle mother? What would you think if you were Kitty Hawk.

Fourth, children can be more involved in picking up their older siblings or good friends to kindergarten or school. You can ask your child why his brother and sister go to school to serve filial piety? What are some meaningful things you can do when you're separated from your mom and dad? and so on.

Fifth, parents should not regard separation from their children as a major event in the first place, and after making preparations before separation, they should separate when they should be separated, and they should be trustworthy when they are separated. It should be affirmed that separation anxiety is a normal mental awareness activity in children, but it is a process, and it is not something that can be achieved overnight. At the same time, the mode and degree of separation anxiety will also vary depending on the type of innate temperament and parenting environment.

But in any case, the initial separation anxiety is inevitably related to the child's cognitive ability and level. If your child is young, it is recommended to take the following steps to promote your child's cognition and prepare for the relief of your child's separation anxiety.

Encourage your child often, let him try boldly, and take care of his child if he has nothing to do.

You can prepare some gifts for the child, and you can also prepare some snacks for the child, so as to reduce the child's separation anxiety and let the child go to school better.

Parents should be decisive, don't always worry about their children, and tell them that you are the best and that the teachers will like you.

If your child has "separation anxiety", he can easily get into school difficulties. In such a situation, in order to solve the child's school difficulties, parents can pretend to say goodbye to the child easily, let the child understand that he is only separated from his parents for a short time, or take the child to contact some peers, so as to reduce the child's anxiety.

It is very normal for a child to have difficulty in going to school at the beginning of the school chain, there are the following ways to alleviate the first, let the child make friends at school, only the company of friends can make him less homesick, second, Pei Qingqiao raises the child's interest in learning, let him fall in love with learning, so that he will prefer campus life. Third, actively cooperate with the teacher and work with the teacher to solve the child's problem.

This is to tell your child that school will be out soon, and there will be a lot of children playing with you at school.

The child will be anxious just because he is completely dependent on you and needs a certain sense of security, so it is normal for the child to behave like this, as a parent is to be by the child's side, to meet the child's sense of dependence, of course, when the child is older, you can gradually reduce the child's dependence on you.

Parents can make an appointment with their children to come back at a time and come back within the specified time, so that the children know that their parents are only going out temporarily, and they will not cry anymore.

For example, you can give your child something he likes, distract him from his mother, and divert his goals.

September is the children's kindergarten season, when the children leave the family and go to kindergarten, due to the change of the environment, the change of life rules, and the lack of preparation for group life, many children will have some anxious, uneasy emotional problems, which is often called "separation anxiety". Next, I have sorted out the relevant content of what parents should do in the face of their children's separation anxiety, I hope you like the article!

1. Synchronize with the kindergarten schedule

Try to keep children's daily life activities synchronized with kindergarten, and help children develop good habits of eating and sleeping on time.

2. Exercise children's self-care ability

Help children learn to dress themselves, wash their hands, go to the toilet, eat and other behaviors.

3. Bring dolls and toys to help children empathize

Parents can bring dolls into the kindergarten with their children, so that when children are homesick or vent their emotions, they can use dolls as emotional sustenance to help children vent their inner emotions.

4. Encourage children to bravely express their needs to teachers

Kindergarten is not a panacea'Encourage children to express their needs bravely, so that children can be more comfortable and secure in kindergarten.

5. Read more picture books and stories to help children transition

Read more picture books about going to school to help children build a good image of kindergarten.

6. Encourage children to make more good friends

Create conditions for children to have more contact with their peers to adapt to unfamiliar friends.

7. Parents should keep in touch with the classroom teacher frequently

Home co-education is the best way to reduce the difference in home life, make children more suitable for kindergarten life, and alleviate children's separation anxiety.

8. Infect children with positive emotions

In the face of separation, many times parents are more anxious than their children, such as: after sending the child three steps back, secretly lying at the door of the classroom to peek, etc., when parents show anxiety, it will amplify the child's uneasiness, therefore, parents must adjust their mentality, please believe that the teacher's love is a professional and not overstepping the authority, rest assured to hand over the child to the kindergarten teacher!