What to do if your child refuses to go to kindergarten

If the child does not want to go to kindergarten, parents must give more encouragement.

The kindergarten, formerly known as the Kan'er Garden, was introduced from Prussia hundreds of years ago. Formerly known as Mengyang Yuan and Kindergarten, it is a kind of pre-school educational institution used for intensive care and education of young children, usually accepting children between the ages of three and five.

If your child refuses to go to kindergarten, you can use the following methods:

1. Be sure to have more verbal comfort, encourage the child to go to kindergarten in time, when the child behaves better, such as actively going to kindergarten, there must be more encouragement, more verbal praise. If the child is reluctant to go to kindergarten, such as crying, playing scoundrel, etc., it is also necessary to be appropriately tolerant, more patient, and more explained.

2. Be sure to analyze the reasons behind the baby's reluctance to go to kindergarten, such as some babies are more introverted, sensitive, afraid of teachers, afraid of classmates, at this time must be more tolerant, but also communicate and communicate with teachers. 3. If some babies have separation anxiety and are unwilling to leave their mother or their own family, they should be more patient at this time, communicate more with their babies, and at the same time put the baby in kindergarten can not repeatedly pay attention or go and return, but learn to ignore the baby's crying behavior.

In addition to the reasons for leaving parents suddenly, there is one more thing to pay attention to: the environment of the kindergarten. Does the child feel safe in kindergarten? This is also what influences whether he wants to go to kindergarten or not.

1. Adults should be mentally prepared before entering the park.

It doesn't matter how the child will make trouble. Parents who are about to take their children to kindergarten should make personal psychological preparations in advance. Only parents with a strong and correct psychology can help their children better adapt to kindergarten life.

The first thing parents should do is not to expect their children to adapt to kindergarten life in three or two days, not to be too harsh on their children, not to be too perfect for their children, to understand that children have lived with their parents and the elderly for so long, and suddenly want to change their living conditions and integrate into a strange collective, and it is very natural to resist.

2. Take your child to adapt to the new environment in advance.

When planning to enroll in a kindergarten with the time possible, parents should take their children to acclimatize in advance. At present, most private kindergartens are open to the public every day. Parents can take their children to see how the children in the kindergarten do morning exercises and dance, and they can take their children to play with the playground equipment such as the slide in the kindergarten, so that the children can fall in love with the kindergarten life.

3. When you first enter the park, you should arrive late and leave early.

Most children do not adjust to being separated from their parents all at once. Before planning to start kindergarten, especially for children with separation anxiety, parents should take a short time out of their child each day, starting with 15 minutes, 30 minutes. In the first week of kindergarten, we should try to arrive late and leave early, gradually transition and extend the child's stay in school, so as to help the child better transition and adapt to kindergarten life.

4. Tell your child "I love you".

Another problem with children's anxiety about entering kindergarten is that they suspect that their parents don't want to be themselves anymore and "abandon" themselves in kindergarten. Therefore, during the period of children's kindergarten adaptation, parents should say "I love you" to their children, and tell children that they go to kindergarten to be happy and gain knowledge of growth, rather than "don't want you anymore". In addition, it is better for parents not to tell their children that they have to go to work and do not have time to take care of their children, so they should leave them in kindergarten.

For children, it is completely impossible to understand why parents work. Doing so will only have a negative psychological impact on the child.

5. Give your child a substitute.

When your child is adjusting to an unfamiliar environment and mom and dad can't be around, it's a good idea to let your child bring his or her favorite items, such as a small teddy bear or a beloved car, and tell him that this toy will accompany you instead of mom. Doing so can give your child a sense of psychological security.

6. Don't go straight to kindergarten when your child is crying.

For parents with conditions, when the child refuses to go to kindergarten and cries incessantly, do not forcefully take the child straight to the kindergarten. You can promise to take your child to another place to play for 15 minutes, or take your child to kindergarten by other routes, and constantly explain the scenery and interesting things to your child along the way to distract your child.

Here are some tips for babies who don't want to go to kindergarten:

1.Put your child in a good mood.

Let your child be as happy as possible when he goes to kindergarten, and tell him that he will soon be able to play with his friends, so that he is full of expectations for going to kindergarten.

On the way, you can also tell your child: "When you finish your activities and meals in the afternoon, your mother will pick you up after school." "Of course, you have to do what you say, try to pick up your child on time, and if you pick up late, you should tell your child in advance, so as not to disappoint your child's expectations.

2.Parents leave quickly when picking up and dropping off.

After sending the child to the kindergarten and handing the child over to the teacher, the parents had better leave quickly, otherwise the child will be very reluctant to see his parents looking at him all the time. Once the emotion of parting is exaggerated, the child may be coquettish or crying.

3.Leave your child to take care of themselves and good habits.

Understand the specific requirements of the kindergarten for educating children, cultivate children's initial self-care ability and good habits, arrange corresponding work and rest time for children in kindergarten, shorten the distance between family and kindergarten life and hygiene habits, and make it easier for children to adapt to the collective life of kindergarten.

4.Encourage your child to make friends.

Children in kindergarten are very important to children. With friends by their side, children don't forget about what adults are doing when they leave them. Therefore, it is also possible to invite other children and parents to play at home to promote friendship between children.

5.Communicate with children and teachers in a timely manner.

If it has been a long time since entering the kindergarten, and the child still has strong fear and resistance, parents should pay attention to it, and communicate with the child and the teacher in time to find out the specific reason so as to prescribe the right medicine.

If the child encounters difficulties in kindergarten or is criticized, parents should help the child overcome the difficulties, or find out the reasons for doing something wrong, and educate the child to have the courage to overcome difficulties, admit and correct mistakes, and be a strong child. If you find that your child is not feeling well, you can temporarily skip the kindergarten and observe at home.

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