How parents communicate with rebellious boys

Adolescent rebellion is a relatively normal phenomenon, and your child must have something wrong with it, or be dissatisfied with something, and want to try to vent it. But as a parent, when your children's performance does not satisfy you, don't blindly blame your child, don't show your own weight, and don't always say something in front of him that he has no self-esteem, which will hurt his self-esteem, he will play personality with you, and he will show some abnormal performance to maintain his self-esteem. I used to be a rebellious teenager, and I fully understand why teenagers are so rebellious nowadays, that is, you are too authoritative as parents.

If you want to change the children's rebellion, you must teach them with the right attitude and methods, and you should criticize and educate the children reasonably when they make mistakes, instead of showing their authority and bringing out their previous mistakes at every turn. I think that most of the rebellious people are middle school students, it was adolescence at that time, they were teenagers, they were already under a lot of pressure to study, and they didn't have any freedom, and they felt unfair in their hearts when they saw that you had everything, plus they had to be absolutely obedient to your parents, which would inevitably lead to rebellion. Rebellion is light, and some serious ones will hold back mental illness, and it is very likely to go to the road of crime when they grow up, which is not a joke!

Parents should give them a certain amount of freedom, and they should take care of what they should do, but they don't want to do anything, and they should take care of what is useful or useless, especially some unreasonable. If this kind of control is too strict and too serious, the children's psychology must be unbearable. Remember, he is your child, not your slave!

He should be given appropriate encouragement and praised even for a little improvement. Some children are like this, they have made progress and paid, but in the end they still can't be appreciated, which will make them break the jar and break it.

In fact, the best way to communicate with your child is to treat your child as your friend, not as a high-minded parent.

For a rebellious child, if you communicate with him as an elder, it will only make him more rebellious.

For boys in the rebellious period, parents should communicate with their children well and seriously, don't be anxious, listen to their children's opinions and ideas, empathize, and then tell their children some truths according to the experience of adults so that they can learn well.

The rebellious period is a process of children's growth, during this period, children have their own ideas, have their own views on everything, but many ideas and views are not fully mature, so during this period, adults need to be well guided, don't be anxious, and the child is facing each other, completely ignoring his thoughts, to respect the child, guide the child. (The answer is for reference only).

1. Don't scold your child, don't accuse your child, don't suppress it forcefully, you should care more about life, communicate more calmly, let him say what he thinks, and parents will guide him purposefully. 2. Let go of prejudices, let go of the arrogant prejudices of adults, and talk to children in a lesson-like tone. 3. Tell stories and children to tell inspirational stories, mainly rebellious stories, and the cases of people around them can be, so that children can clearly know what the final result of these rebellious children is, and it will be better to persuade and educate children for their rebellion.

4. Trust your children to build a relationship with them with an attitude of trust and respect, so as to continue to interact with them, learn from each other, and grow together. 5. Empathy to understand and respect the child's ideas, think about this problem from his point of view, sometimes the child may be right, but if the idea is wrong, communicate with the child on an equal footing, don't force it, the more you press, the more you press. 6. Refuse to be verbose parents don't be too verbose, it's easy to quarrel if you talk too much, if the child is obsessed with doing a wrong thing, it's better to let him try, obey him, if he is angry with you, then he may not do it, if not, then let him suffer a little, long memory.

7. Appropriate weakness of children, especially adolescent children, is more sensitive, and parents should train their awareness ability in communication. When you feel the tension in the relationship, you should restrain and find a way to repair it, and when the adolescent child has an emotional outburst, you can't force it, and parents can show weakness moderately and reassure it, and then continue to discuss controversial topics when the child's emotions have eased. 8. Children who are given too much personal space will lose the opportunity for self-adjustment and will often be very wooden, so parents should give their children more freedom.

9. Relax your mind: Children's growth is a slow process, everyone should accept this point of view, relax their hearts a little, lower their requirements, and we will find that children are actually very cute. Children who are rebellious are needed to live and teach them to grow.

Be open. When parents find that their children's interests are affecting their homework, do not ban them immediately, and it is better to know more about the situation. For example, accompany your child to a video game center and discuss their idols with your child to remind them what they should and should not learn.

Only by entering the inner world of children can they get along more harmoniously. When parents get along well with their children, children will not rebel. Keep experimenting.

When parents discipline their children, they should change their ways from time to time, and when their children are young, they are generally just parents who talk and children who listen. Once you're in middle school, try to communicate both ways and listen to your child's advice. Once you find that a certain method does not work, you should change the method at any time and keep experimenting until you find an effective method.

Hello! Boys in the rebellious period are awakened to their self-awareness, but their judgment, their own experience, and knowledge are still shallow, and parents should communicate more with them. Try the method of communication:

1.Respect for children, only by respecting each other can we communicate with children in a friendly manner, which includes a calm tone, friendliness, and a willingness to listen to children's opinions.

2.Being able to think from the perspective of children, not always from the perspective of adults, think about the environment and knowledge of children living now, and think from their perspective in order to form a consensus.

3.Communicating with your child in a quiet and peaceful environment will have a better chance of success. Try not to communicate in a large place, which is also a sign of respect for your child.

I hope the above methods are helpful to you, and I wish your children a healthy growth!

1. First of all, parents should learn to respect and understand their children.

Parents should fully understand the psychological characteristics of boys in the rebellious period, in the rebellious period, boys often have their own ideas, and they want to get the approval of their parents when doing things, rather than rejection and discrimination.

2. Parents should guide their children to communicate more with their children.

In fact, boys in the rebellious period have a lot of things on their minds, but they never tell their parents, because these things may be very naïve in the eyes of their parents, and their parents have not taken the initiative to ask their children, which leads to a lack of communication and exchanges between mother and son, and many things cannot be unified, so there is a quarrel or awkward problem.

When the boy reaches the age of fourteen or fifteen, he reaches the rebellious period, during which he is most opposed to preaching, and even more averse to comparison with other people's children. Only by caring more about him in life, trying to talk to him, and establishing a friendship, the child will slowly accept the correct advice of his parents.

Encourage your child to express emotions correctly. Communicate patiently, and it is especially important to communicate with children at this time.

Delicious, good-looking, fun often take the baby to listen to their voices, how to care about the rebellious children? When parents come to Zhengxin Special Training School, they must let their children develop the habit of reading, and be more considerate and tolerant of their children.

Children have rebellious periods, especially boys, when the rebellious period is more reactive, as parents, we should communicate with our children as friends, do not reprimand and scold, and help children through this stage of adolescence

Parents of rebellious boys should try to avoid confrontation with their children. Because the child at this time can't listen to what you say, but likes to do it against you, so it is not as good as others to use other people's mouths to influence the child.

You need to take your child out for a walk, so that he can see the outside world and feel the bitter and sweet!

Parents of rebellious boys should talk to their doctor. Only when you find a topic can you communicate.

The main thing is to respect others, don't force it, communication is very important, I wish you well.

Parents of children in the rebellious period must pay attention to the ways and means of communicating with him, and do not be simple and rude.

1. When you feel the tension in the relationship, you should restrain yourself, and when the adolescent child has an emotional outburst, you can't force it, parents can show weakness moderately and appease it, and then continue to discuss controversial topics when the child's emotions are eased.

2. Be good at discovering children's shining points and express them, be patient, change yourself first, make yourself a good talkative and gentle, be able to find children's bright spots, and give children encouragement.

3. It is recommended to imply a kind of criticism, and use less words with a strong tone such as should, must, and must. In this way, the child is easy to get emotional, and the more suggestions he has, the more he will be emotionally disgusted.

4. Understand and respect the child's thoughts, sometimes the child may be right, but if the idea is wrong, communicate with the child on an equal footing.

Introduction: Parents must educate their children to be patient and not to beat and scold their children, which will make them very rebellious. Parents should learn to communicate with their children and understand their inner thoughts when dealing with their children in the rebellious period, so that they can let their parents talk to them.

Parents should learn to listen carefully to their children's opinions when expressing their ideas to their parents. Today, I will talk to you about how to communicate well between the family and the rebellious boy.

If parents want to communicate with boys, they must first learn to respect their children, and children in the rebellious period will not stop no matter what their parents say, and feel that the parents' methods cannot be adopted. Parents must take care of their children's consciousness and let their children be respected, so that their children will be exercised and will seriously think about what their parents say. Parents should be patient and tolerant of children in the rebellious period, so that children can have a good goal and develop in the direction of the goal.

If parents want to communicate with their rebellious children, they must first help their children develop good habits, and a good habit can affect their children's lives. What parents need to do is to cultivate their children's independent qualities when they are young, guide them to think positively and do what they want to do. If the child's psychological pressure is not relieved, the child's psychology will be very distorted, parents should communicate with the child, make correct guidance to the child, and the child will learn better.

Parents must not blindly beat and scold their children, scold their children, so that they have no confidence in themselves and dare not communicate with others, parents should cultivate their children's self-confidence, so that children can face setbacks and difficulties. If parents do not give their children enough courage, they will become timid in the face of difficulties, have no enthusiasm to do anything, and feel that they must not be able to do well. Parents should not always pay attention to their children's grades, children's grades are really important, and children's moral character is even more important.

Straight to the point: today's children are very smart, communication: is a mental knowledge, is to live to learn, first say:

Adults communicate with adults, first establish a relationship, first learn to listen to the other party, communicate with others, don't blindly express your own opinions, first listen to the other party's views on a thing, is respect, the other party respects us, the problem is easy to handle, and communication with children is the same. Why are today's children afraid of teachers and parents, because parents care about their children in every detail, they care too much about their children, and when their children can't speak, they all take it in their hearts and know that we love it very much. The child can see that the child is our baby, and without him, we have no hope of living.

The second is to first manage one's own emotions, and the secret of managing emotions lies in the organs: starting from love, the heart of loving children is transferred to the elderly, and the center of gravity is like a scale. Second, loving children is all about scale, and it is right to read more, and it is wrong to read for the sake of not working.

It's not entirely correct to expect that we have to go to university, otherwise there's no way out, and it's not that if we don't get into college, there's no hope. If we want to communicate with the child, the child's hobbies, we also want to experience it, walk with the child or play with him for a while. Relationships are built to communicate.

First of all, change the parents' thinking, don't let the child completely follow our "way of life" goal added to the child's heart, when it is bigger, there will be a certain assertiveness, some people demand that it is not necessarily completely correct, and only with the correct faith can the mind be renewed, the blessing is full, and I hope that your wish will come true.