The biggest enemy is yourself, how can you overcome yourself?

I feel that I can only continue to improve and accumulate experience, and the enemy is still an objective person, and the enemy should not be myself; In the world, there are many things that are caused by one's own subjective and objective reasons. For example, every time I see my college classmates, I always feel excited and excited. The first reaction is how to hit the enemy, how to defeat him and them.

And will also think about "why do you hate them so much", chasing their own reasons or their own reasons are the main, if they are correct from the beginning of their ideological understanding, they are very strategic in communication, don't be at a loss, their thinking is very clear, they know what kind of relationship they want to maintain with what kind of person, know how to communicate with what kind of impact and effect they will achieve, and know how to make themselves able to study and live happily without being affected by the things around them; know how not to grudge and enmity with others; Know what you want, what you want, what you don't like, and what you don't crave. At the end of the day: a university is a microcosm of society, a period of transition; The college classmates are also from all over the world, and they must be mixed with each other, and everyone has everything; Therefore, you must be very smart and strategic, be able to deal with it flexibly, be good at socializing and studying, and spend a good and relatively pure college time in a relaxed and happy way is the ultimate goal.

It's not very naïve, and when you are good with this person today, it is very good; Tomorrow, when the relationship breaks up, I will regret that I have done something stupid, blaming myself for not being able to do anything that I shouldn't have done, which is not good. In short, I have known each other for a long time in college, and I have learned a lot of things, and it is true that to this point, I really account for a large part of the reason, and the result of anything is caused by objective and subjective reasons, and a large part of it may be caused by subjective reasons. Therefore, there is no need to be so indignant and excited about the objective part of complaining, because everything and everything is like this, contradictions are universal, and we can't just blame others and objective things, or we can't go too deep and excessive to hate and complain; In that way, you will only regret and be annoyed by things that cannot be changed objectively, and you will be prone to depression; Because many things in the world are like this, the objective part must not be changed, and the subjective is a large part and the subjective initiative is the most important part.

In short, I must be smart, think clearly, and not be stupid, I must have my own position and principles of doing things, so I can't let go of many things in the past, and I hate and resent some people, I think it's all in the past, the so-called flowing water is gone, and it can't be chased; If you understand it, you won't suffer in vain and experience everything in vain.

It's up to you to ask yourself this question, the only person in the world who can go straight to your heart is yourself, and experience is your best teacher.

Use time to wash away your worries. Protect your thinking with not thinking. Feel your presence with your presence.

This world is not a world without hope. No one can squander your self-confidence. No one can build your self-confidence.

Cherish your time with no association. Despise your enemies with no hatred. With great love, all the treasures are precious.

Tears are precious. Its existence is a testament to the helplessness of all. Hint at yourself quietly.

I'll definitely be able to. Because I am me. I'm not a drop of water.

I'm not a fallen leaf. I am a person who loves myself the most. I am everything to myself.

I must stand at the height of the most beautiful life. I have the courage to overcome all odds. I'm going to build a bridge for myself.

The biggest enemy of man is himself, and only by defeating himself with his eyes can he be the strong man of fate.

For example, when we take the college entrance examination, if we get a high score and beat ourselves in the college entrance examination, then we can study in a good university, and our future life will be smooth.

Yes, the courage is not big enough, no matter how strong the ability is, he is a small person; The courage is not big enough, and the hard work of the whole life is a small achievement; On the road of rough growth, we break through not reality, but ourselves.

On the runway of life, defeating the opponent is only the winner of the field, and defeating oneself is the strong man of destiny.