What do you think is your biggest character flaw?

Lack of perseverance. The reason why I say this is because the plans I make always exceed the deadline at first, and after three or two days, I start to be lazy for a day. A week later, the plan was put behind me.

There are more than one hundred and eighty such plans in my short life. It just gives me a lot of frustration and hates myself every time I think about it. Another example is learning something new, starting to be full of pride, and ending with anticlimactic.

It wasn't until my sophomore year that I found out that this was my flaw. I don't know how to reject others, I care too much about whether I'm good enough in the hearts of others, and I don't want to have conflicts with anyone. I seem to be tired and half dead to live for others.

It's just that I've always been content with the feeling that I can warm others, and that human kindness always has to shine. Actually, I hesitated while looking at it. I don't know whether I should insist on this purity of human nature or live in reality.

I feel like I've grown up.

Some of my personality flaws originated from the negative impact of my parents' quarrels since I was a child, and although my family doted on me, the negative magnetic field of long-term quarrels made me try to persuade me to become discouraged. At that time, parents were busy with work and did not pay attention to cultivating good study habits and establishing ideal goals for their children. When I became an adult, I went to live independently in a different place before I realized a problem:

The character defects of parents are also caused by the environment in which they were raised, and this is how they begin to understand their parents. Later, he re-educated himself by reading books, so that he could get out of the negative energy, and tried to help them improve the bad emotions that had accumulated for a long time through what he had learned.

I have a friend who is very smart, and although I don't interact much now, I always remember what he said. He said: A person's greatest strength is his greatest shortcoming.

Later, I found out again and again that this is the way it is. You feel that your greatest strength, after a long time, and through a lot of things, you will find that it is actually your biggest weakness. Quick reaction time has always been my forte.

It's fast enough that I can react quickly to complex logic, even if I'm not using a language I'm familiar with, and I'm able to handle most situations smartly. The speed makes me very efficient and can easily complete the work of several people. However, one of the consequences of being too fast is that I am not very infallible, because I move too quickly to the next thought process, and often I don't have time or think to check the current thing first.

This is because when the train of thought has passed, it is difficult for people not to follow their footsteps.

Unrealistically, I often imagine some future scenarios, imagine that I will become a very good person in the future, and imagine that I will take revenge on him very happily for the dirty things that happened to me in the past. All these imaginations give me is anxiety. Irritability.

I'm short-tempered, and I lose my temper over small things. One time I shook the wall when I closed the door, the clock fell, and I had a big fight with my father, which I regret now.

My family and friends often say that my kindness is my greatest strength and my greatest weakness. I myself used to think so. And every time something goes wrong, I comfort myself with kindness as an excuse.

But! If people don't reflect on their own problems, they will always "hit the south wall" again and again. So I told myself that the phrase "people are good and are bullied by others" is not true, and "people are stupid" will be bullied.

If you think about it this way, you will be more courageous to face problems in the future.

Not very good at rejecting others, soft-hearted.

I didn't realize what the big shortcomings of my personality were, but as I grew older, I slowly found that I always seemed to be looking forward to the future, and I felt that "the future" was better than "the present". Until one day I saw a sentence: "You never know that every real present was once the future you fantasized about".

Suddenly, I realized that I had been like this for many years, constantly fantasizing about the future, and after fantasizing, I missed the beauty of being fully committed to the present. The past is in the past and cannot be repeated, the future is unpredictable and difficult to grasp, all you have is the present. ‍‍

Actually, character flaws are a very general statement. What exactly is a person with character defects, let's analyze it for you.

1) Make others uncomfortable and make yourself uncomfortable.

Generally speaking, there are three kinds of people in the world: making themselves comfortable and making others comfortable, which is generally called a person with high emotional intelligence; Make yourself comfortable and make others uncomfortable, this kind of person is generally a villain in our opinion; Make yourself uncomfortable and make others comfortable, this kind of person is a noble person.

The above three kinds of people, some good and some bad, will never be crowned with "character flaws". After all, these people above can be called "rational people", that is, what the other party does and thinks is reasonable.

After all, self-interest is a person's instinct, and altruism is even more noble. When we talk about people with character defects, we mean more of the kind of people who make themselves uncomfortable and make others uncomfortable.

2) 3 characteristics of people with character defects.

You may wonder why some people would do things that harm others and themselves. But in fact, there are such people. It is precisely because of their irrationality and inadmissibility that they are even more disgusting.

3. Cowardly and unassertive people, they are not confident in doing things, they dare not make decisions, and they are afraid of taking responsibility for making mistakes. I feel the same about everything, I don't have any ideas, I am easily disturbed by external factors, and I often accept other people's opinions without analysis. People are also clouds, and the adaptability is poor, like "grass on the wall".

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I think the biggest flaw in character is vanity. Everyone has self-esteem, but some people need to achieve self-esteem satisfaction by inappropriate means or methods in order to achieve it, and when the conditions are not met, vanity arises. Self-esteem is beautiful to yourself.

Vanity is the beauty of other potatoes to stop people from counting the beard.

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People will have flaws in their personalities, more or less. If you can't see the shortcomings of that person, I think there are two reasons, one, he is not familiar with you, and two, he is much higher than you, and he hides it well. In fact, it is easier to be friends with people with personality shortcomings, provided that you can accept his shortcomings.

Perfect character, in fact, that person often suppresses himself, just for the perfection in the eyes of others, it is difficult for you to see his true thoughts, if the relationship is too close, it will be very tiring.

It should be, no one is perfect, and parents are the mirror of their children.

It is possible to change your personality, provided that you have a strong desire to change and long-term persistence, and you need to constantly strive to break through yourself. Psychologists' research shows that about 50% of personality is genetically determined, and the rest can be shaped and perfected as oneself grows under the influence of the environment.

No one is perfect, and since you have recognized the shortcomings of your own character, you must consciously adjust it. In addition, the formation of personality is influenced by genes and the environment in which it was raised. Once formed, it is difficult to change it.

Therefore, you should also play to your strengths and avoid your weaknesses. Try to bring out the best aspects of your personality. So that you can become a person who is loved by everyone.