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We have always pursued equality between men and women, but have men and women really been equal, I don't think so. Because of the gender of both parties, whether in marriage or in the workplace, women have always been treated unfairly. Why are many women very good and very strong now, is this innate, no, but forced out, because of their own inequality, so they need to put in too much effort.
One: Women should balance family and career.
One of the questions that women are often asked when they enter the workplace is that if you choose a career, then how do you balance career and family, this is the sad thing about women, not only to earn money outside like a man, but also to manage everything in the house. But men are different, they don't need to take care of things at home, they just need to earn money outside with peace of mind. Why is it that no one has ever asked a man how to balance family and career?
Two: Men don't have to do anything after work, and women have to do housework after work.
In many families, there will be such a phenomenon, that is, both husband and wife are out to earn money, and when they come home after work in the evening, the husband can wait for dinner, but the wife has to take care of the children, cook and wash clothes, and so on. Everyone earns money to support their families, why do women still do the work at home, and I still think that women should do it. Know that home is for two.
Three: There is a lot of pressure on men, and even more pressure on women.
Men often say that they are under a lot of pressure outside and need to take on the responsibility of supporting their families, and they will be more tired when they come home to do other things. But you have to know that you have pressure, the pressure of women is greater than yours, and the trivial things in the family every day are overwhelming, if you can't afford to support the family, her heart is also very anxious, and she needs to bear it with you. <>
Therefore, women have never been truly equal, but I just hope that I can meet someone who understands you and understands your efforts.
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This is the result of a long period of unequal development between men and women. Inequality between men and women has always existed in history and in the present, which has led to the unequal experience of women in marriage, and the state should introduce relevant laws to promote the development of equality between men and women.
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I think this is disrespectful to women, who are inherently vulnerable and should be protected. Both men and women are equal in marriage, and women must also learn to protect themselves.
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I think women should live their own lives. Women are always hurt in marriage, and they should be independent, be a strong woman, don't please others, and live their own lives.
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It's normal. There is no absolute equality in this world, and we can only reduce this inequality and further improve the status of women in marriage.
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Now it is advocated that men and women are equal, and in the marriage relationship, the relationship between husband and wife will be treated unequally, but this needs to be coordinated by both men and women, because it is not a social situation where men and women are dominant, and both men and women must work hard for the family and understand each other, so that they can maintain the intimate relationship of life.
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I believe that the inequality that women experience in their married life is closely related to society, and most people have extremely high expectations for women, while men are treated leniently. Such double-standard behaviour should be corrected.
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This is unequal for women. Nowadays, society advocates equality for all, and women will encounter unequal treatment after marriage, or they must learn to be financially independent and have their own opinions.
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Some people think that women should be husbands and children at home, and be good wives and mothers, which is unfair treatment of women. Men and women are equal, and when they are treated unequally, they can use the law to protect themselves.
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The relationship between women in marriage is inherently unequal. Because men themselves are stronger than women, for these phenomena, as a woman, you should pay attention to it and try to create some harmonious atmosphere.
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There are too many unequal things in marriage, and most of them have a very sad ending. Marriage needs to be a good match, and a good match is to need the feelings of childhood sweethearts, or experience, social level, and education level are all about the same, in order to get along harmoniously. Otherwise, there will be many contradictions.
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The equality of the relationship between husband and wife is often overlooked in small things. As long as we recognize this, it will be much easier to solve these problems.
1. Husband and wife shall jointly undertake the tasks of providing for the family, running the house, and raising children.
In modern society, there are still many women who marry a golden beetle son-in-law and climb the branches as a phoenix as the ultimate goal of marriage. Rely on each other to live a good material life, and are unwilling to prove that they have the ability to make a living.
When faced with a scene that requires compromise, where does it have the confidence to fight for equality with the other party? Therefore, having a job and should pay attention to and do a good job with independent economic income is the basic condition for the equality of husband and wife.
Only when there is a financial contribution to each other in the family and a common cause to be worked on is the right to claim joint household chores and the ability to jointly raise a woman.
2. Major family affairs shall be decided by the husband and wife through joint consultation.
If you have a financial contribution to the family, I believe it is easier to be satisfied in this item, but if you do not have financial income, the opinions of most women can only be used as a reference for major matters in the family.
Even if you contribute financially to the family, it depends on the cognitive and emotional balance between your husband and wife, whether the husband knows how to respect his wife and regard her as one of the masters of the family, and whether the wife knows that this is her right, rather than blindly obeying her husband.
3. Arrange family roles according to their respective strengths and actual needs.
The traditional role of husband and wife is often "male outside, female inside", the real equal marriage relationship, will depend on the husband and wife's respective strengths to arrange family roles, people's personalities are diverse, gender can not be changed, a careful, hard-working and good-tempered but weak husband and an IT professional background has a strong practical ability of the wife, is it necessary for the wife to watch the children and the husband repair the computer?
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The first is to put yourself on an equal level with each other in the marital state, and then you will have the confidence to regain your self-confidence, so as to achieve true equality in marital status.
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You have to build your self-confidence first, make your heart strong, and then have the confidence to face the other half, and then you have to be principled in doing things, and you can't be easily influenced by others.
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Two people must negotiate well, not too unfair, and two people must be considerate and understanding of each other, so that they can have a fair marriage relationship.
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Marriage is not a business in the first place, there is no equality at all, but should be based on the premise of mutual tolerance and understanding of each other, rather than the pursuit of fairness.
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This may be the necessity of being the right person, not only to say that the family strength is equal, but also the personal ability should be similar. If there is inequality, it can only be tolerated, otherwise the more criticism, the more regression.
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The inequality in marriage is a matter of money, and both parties have economic conditions and are not dependent on anyone, so they are naturally equal.
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The treatment is earned by yourself, if you feel unequal, speak with strength, let him feel that you are worthy of love, don't underestimate yourself.
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Enhance your ability to be independent, and when you have the capital and confidence, you will have enough strength to argue with the other party, and then it will be possible to coexist on an equal footing.
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Let's get a divorce. After all, it is already unequal, and you should give up your current marriage to be happy.
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