If it s you, will you choose to have a second child?

Don't give birth! I really want to be alive in my heart, to be honest. But the second child not only requires energy and money, but also requires a harmonious family environment.

For modern women, it is impossible to be a housewife at home all the time. Of course, if you can really stay at home without worrying about food and drink, then who would want to go out and work hard? And there are often many families where both parents can only save money and leave the good ones to their children.

Even some families can't even buy what their children see and want. If you want to give your child a better one, you may have to double or double your work. Therefore, the husband and wife will share a large part of the pressure.

I probably wouldn't. Women themselves have a fear of childbirth, especially during pregnancy, they will be restless, anxious and worried. And raising a child requires not only sufficient time and patient education, but more importantly, a lot of money.

Resolutely do not give birth. Some people may say that the burden of two children is light when I am old, but I say that I may be tired and short-lived for the sake of two children!

It is already a quasi-two-child family, the husband and wife have a stable income, the elderly have no burden, the family has the ability to raise, the ability to bring, as a mother, the career will not be affected too much, and the second child will not significantly affect the quality of life of the boss.

Regardless of financial considerations, I would prefer a second child. Because from what I've observed, children with siblings are more emotionally intelligent, especially in families with older siblings and younger siblings. But the third child has no idea.

I am a man, I have an object, not to mention a second child, I don't want to have a child, it's too hard to raise a baby, I spend too much time and money, I earn money for my parents, for my lover, for myself to spend, the most cool.

It's enough to give birth to one, and you have to give birth to a second, people like me who don't even want to have a child, who beep a second child with me, I'll flip the table, and it's not annoying enough to raise one, and it's going to be doubled, and my head is going to explode when I think about it.

Second child? You also need the consent of the big baby! A new member of a new family is happy only if he joins with the expectation and blessing of the original members.

No, resolutely not to have a second child.

Just give birth to one, you can still collect rent if you have more houses, and you can only hurt your feelings if you have more children, people's hearts are originally biased, give me a bowl of water for me to hold all the time, I can only spill it everywhere, and don't make myself this trouble.

For a family like ours with unstable jobs and unstable incomes, we are determined not to have a second child, and I don't think it's suitable for me to have an irresponsible attitude towards children.

It's hard enough to have a baby. My mom and dad didn't have any money for me because I was pregnant (I couldn't work), so I didn't want to see me. Mother-in-law and husband don't care. I really regret that I was pregnant. Subjected to cynicism from both sides.

If you don't have good enough conditions, it's better not to have a second child.

No, I'm afraid that no one will bring it, and it's very stressful, and it takes a lot of money and energy.

When an accident took care of my son, my daughter was 5 years older than my son, and the two children were under great pressure.

After the second treasure is born, I often regret it, and when I talk about the second child, I lose my mind, and my emotions explode "Why do you want a second child, I want a second child if I have a brain disease", however, I already want it.

Yes, the second child is almost 2 months old, it will be very hard, but it will also be very happy.

No, I can't make a bowl of water for two! Definitely eccentric, still a good one.

No, I will never be sorry for my child.

If there are accidents, they stay. It's been almost four months!

No, one is limited in human and financial resources, and the other is not good in health.

I want to have one, but no one will help me bring it, and I have to go to work.

As Zhang Ailing said: If a child is born to inherit his own hard work and panic poverty, then not giving birth is also a kind of kindness.

If you are poor and still want to live, then you must admit that you are selfish, live for yourself, don't flaunt your greatness, but prepare a way back for yourself in order to provide for the old and die and be buried. For the sake of selfishness, knowing that you are unable to provide for your child, and the child will suffer in the process of growing up, or insist on giving birth to him, let him experience pain, and then let him support you when you are old, is this a great father's love and mother's love?

Apparently not! This kind of child is born like a chicken born on a chicken farm, which must be slaughtered in 28 days, either eggs or meat. Otherwise, what's the use of the chicken farm owner raising you?

An investment without a return is not an investment. For such a "chicken": "Never born, probably the greatest blessing."

The greatest evil in this world is poverty. Poverty prevents us from loving and being loved, from protecting and caring for the people we want to care. True poverty always hovers between "last resort" and "helplessness", and the boy's parents are not intentional evils, but unawakened sins.

Such parents should indeed be sorry!

For my part, I support happy or well-off people to have more children, because their children are likely to grow up in happy and wealthy families, and will have a colorful childhood and a lifetime of happiness.

As far as individuals are concerned, whether to be a mother or not is a matter of choice, and a woman's greatest self-discipline is not to have children indiscriminately.

And the greatest self-discipline of children is not to become anyone's weakness.

Of course, if the conditions allow, I will choose to have a second child, if the conditions are not allowed, I will not have a second child, because it is too difficult to give birth to a child, and the child will also suffer, I think for the sake of the child, I will choose to have a second child if possible. If you don't have the conditions, don't have a second child!

I am an only child. Thanks to the one-child policy and the hospital's rule that men and women are not allowed to tell. Really grateful.

In fact, since I was a child, I have always felt the concept of patriarchy very directly. Until I was in my third year of junior high school.

Personally, I had a fragile soul and an extremely glassy heart, and I was depressed for a whole year because of the conflict between my classmates at that time. Take medication to control insomnia and depression.

But I'm a person with a terrible memory. When I was a child, I was teased by adults, and if you have younger brothers and sisters, your parents don't want you. Plus my parents love to fight education and threaten education.

It's like raising you as a white-eyed wolf, or if you do it again, no one will like you.

During that time, my mental condition had just improved, and there was no stress during the summer vacation. But in fact, I am still nervous, and it is easy to lose sleep and become seriously somatized. The next year was due to take the high school entrance examination, and at such a time, my parents suddenly told me that my mother seemed to be pregnant.

My first reaction was that I was going to be abandoned. The second reaction was that I didn't want or need a younger sibling.

It's not that I don't like children, it's just that I'm a selfish and realistic person, and I'm originally born to my parents (sort of, I was born when they were in their thirties). I was fifteen years old. Although they kept saying that I didn't care about that younger sibling, but think about it, when my younger siblings were my age, I was in my thirties, and my parents were in their sixties.

Pension to support younger brothers and sisters, if it is a younger brother, he will have to buy a house and a car in the future, how can he not need my support. I know the situation at home. So I was firmly against it, they said that I had a younger brother and sister to take care of, and they also moved out of their era examples, but I didn't expect that their older brothers and sisters were only a few years old, and I was fifteen years old, and I didn't quite understand what kind of help it would be.

So it was very serious at that time, you scolded me for being selfish, or you scolded me for being wolf-hearted and dog-hearted. I don't regret it at all. After all, I don't have any siblings now.

After all, my mother herself admitted that if I had a younger brother, I wouldn't have such good resources, and most of the things in the family belonged to him, and also gave me an example of my sister helping my younger brother, and my younger brother would repay such things in the future. She is patriarchal, and she herself finally admitted that she said that her generation could not change. I don't care, but it's still hard to think about.

It turns out that the dregs of feudal culture and ideology have not been completely changed to this day.

Have two children at an age suitable for childbearing, don't wait until you are old enough to have a second child, it's too late to regret it. We have to educate our two children even better, although they are a little tired when they are young. But when you educate two excellent children, you will live well in your old age.

If you have limited financial conditions, it is not recommended to have a second child, because you can't afford to raise your current child. Today's children don't just have to eat and drink. Now that the social and economic development is large, the population is large, and the competition for children's jobs will be great in the future, so they need to start cultivating well when they are young and need to receive better teaching, so that it will be helpful for their future career development.

Work hard to earn money and raise good children. And save more pension money for yourself. The child has been cultivated and developed, his material living standard is better, and there is no need to worry about the child's future life.

You can earn enough money for retirement, and you will also reduce the burden on your children. Wouldn't it be better to have the best of both worlds?

The second child is not only a younger brother or sister for the child, but also a beautiful emotional memory of growth and a shoulder that can be borrowed in the future, at any time to know that he is not alone, there is a younger brother, sister, if the children are fighting in the field in the future, they will not be distracted at home, at least there is a child at home who can be temporarily entrusted.

For adults, it also means that people are prosperous, in fact, there is a certain truth in the old saying, there are more children and a family gathering together for the New Year's holidays, if it is just a child, the child is older and happens to work can not come back, then there is really only you and her in the family, deserted.

When a child grows up, there are few people in a child's family during the New Year's holidays, and if the child can't stay with him for some reason, it will be deserted during the holidays. The family of two children is prosperous, and the two children and the whole family are happy together during the New Year's holidays.

There will be less pressure on two children to provide for the elderly. Nowadays, the aging population is serious, and it is very stressful for a single-child family to raise four elderly people with two children. The two children in the two-child family will be better, and the two people can take turns to take care of the elderly, which greatly reduces the burden.

Two children are more resilient to risk. In a one-child family, once a child has an accident, the whole family collapses. Therefore, many parents who have lost their independence have to work hard to have children in order to alleviate the pain. Therefore, it is still safer for a family with two children.