What if you feel like a waste?

I am born to be useful, do what I like, learn to play the same, do not have fun is a kind of pain, let yourself relax, reasonable arrangement of study time, game time, play when playing, study seriously, believe in yourself - say I can, I wish you a happy and happy day on the road to growth!

If you don't like to talk, do something you like, you don't have to be like those who love to talk, you have the opportunity to choose what kind of person you are, remember Tolstoy is a very unsociable person, but he is a great writer, everyone has their own good and bad at it, you don't have to compare your own shortcomings with the strengths of others, come on.

Do what you can.

When you do what you can do, your personality will come through. The important thing is that instead of desperately trying to restore your self-image, find out what you can do now. Knowing what to do and then doing it can liberate you from your self-image.

In short, try to write down what you can do right away and then put it into practice, it doesn't have to be a great, extraordinary action, as long as it is within your ability.

Practice looking at others squarely, a person's eyes can reveal a lot about him. When someone doesn't look you in the eye, you instinctively ask yourself, "What are you trying to hide?" What is he afraid of? Will he be bad for me? ”

Not facing others usually means: I feel inferior next to you; I feel inferior to you; I'm afraid of you. Avoiding other people's eyes means:

I feel guilty; I did or thought of something I didn't want you to know; I'm afraid that as soon as I touch your eyes, you will see through me. It's all bad information. To face up to others is to tell you:

I'm honest and above board. I believe that what I am telling you is true, and I have no false heart.

Practice speaking in public, no matter what type of meeting you are attending, and always take the initiative to speak, perhaps in the form of comments, suggestions, or questions, without exception. And, don't be the last to speak. To be an icebreaker, be the first to break the silence.

Don't worry about you coming across as stupid. No, it won't. Because there will always be someone who agrees with you.

So stop saying to yourself, "I doubt I'll dare to say it." "Be attentive to the attention of the President of the meeting so that you have a chance to speak.

Go with the flow, try to discover your strengths, improve your self-confidence, and accept your shortcomings. Find the direction you want to work towards, find a way to change yourself, and have persistence, change takes time, take your time.

Everyone's personality is different, but sometimes change is also needed, otherwise you will suffer in the future, you have to learn to interact with others, you can also learn other people's communication skills, and I think this situation is also related to your experience is too little, if you broaden your knowledge, then you can naturally talk with others, but also let others have a kind of admiration, naturally willing to make friends with you.

Ways to build self-confidence, pick a seat in the front, have you noticed how the back row of seats is filled first, whether in teaching or at various gatherings in the classroom? Most of the people who occupy the back seats want to not be "too conspicuous". And the reason for their fear of being noticed is a lack of faith.

Sitting in front builds confidence. Try it as a rule and sit as far forward as you can from now on. Of course, sitting in front of you will be more conspicuous, but remember that everything about success is conspicuous.

Try to change yourself, read books about speaking skills, communicate with people more, not all people are born to be very eloquent, as the so-called life is always learning, life is actually beautiful.

To be honest, I think it's normal in and adolescence! And I think you're pretty good, at least you understand your departure, and you'll be in a hurry, which is very good! Learning can be done slowly, but mentality is very important, what are you afraid of learning with such a good attitude!

Process it and turn waste into treasure.

First, I hope that you will have a more positive and sunny attitude, including your evaluation of yourself, which should be more positive and fair.

Be open-minded, horizontal, and thoughtful.

Be good at seeing your own strengths, strengths, and strengths, rather than always staring at your own shortcomings.

Second, young people still have to have ideals and revenge. You're about to become an adult, and you still have to find your direction and purpose in life.

Including being able to talk to teachers, classmates, and family members, ** life.

For the country, for the society, for the family, for the career, for the professional ......It's all very meaningful.

I hope you will think and explore it widely. Including with everyone, talk more, talk about it.

Usually, you can read some inspirational and biographical books to learn from advanced and exemplary figures.

Third, have you encountered anything unhappy and unsmooth recently?

The psychological quality should be improved.

If you are not arrogant or discouraged in victory, you still have to adjust your mentality.

In fact, everyone's life has peaks and valleys, and there are times when you are depressed and feel lost.

However, after the rain is a sunny day, there are always more solutions than problems, and it is necessary to believe: everything will be fine!

You can also consult a psychiatrist when you find time. I believe there will be a harvest.

First of all, it is clear that I am born to be useful, and everyone has their own strengths and strengths. Feeling like a waste may be due to a lack of encouragement and affirmation in a long-term living environment. Caused by the blows of family members and the distrust of those around them.

Now that you recognize this problem, you can consciously read some psychology books to find the cause of the problem, start with small things, set goals, complete them on time to give yourself some rewards and affirmations, and gradually build up your self-confidence, you will not have such thoughts.

This is an extreme lack of self-confidence in your heart and a strong inferiority complex. If you want to change yourself, you need to study hard, learn by reading books, learn from people who are better than you, and learn from the people around you. Choose a direction that you are optimistic about and choose a technology.

Then try to improve yourself and make yourself do it. Perfection in a certain technical aspect. Make yourself a skill.

Hello, if you feel like a waste, then you can give yourself a mental hint that you are a very successful person, you are a very confident person, and then you will take action, do things or something, and you will think that you can succeed, so you will not be a waste.

If you feel that you are a waste, you may not have too many achievements, so you should better self-analyze, recognize yourself, improve your ability to make yourself better, and create greater value.

What if you feel like a piece of waste? This kind of thinking is self-defeating and inferiority. So don't think like that. If you feel useless, you can go out and play more often to relax your mind. Enrich yourself.

Then work hard to change the status quo, make yourself excellent, and really help you look forward to it

I was born to be useful. You can find out what is good and what is good in you and do it, so that you don't feel that way, and try to improve yourself.

Life is not smooth sailing, ditches and bumps are common, and there will be broken heads and blood flows. But as long as you give, you get something. Waste can also be turned into treasure.

Three hundred and sixty lines, the line is the champion. Maybe you haven't discovered your strengths yet, don't deny yourself so quickly, and take the initiative to face life will change your current view of yourself.

If you have a goal and work hard, you don't have to care about what people say, and you'll be successful in a few decades.

I am more careful than others, and I have to overcome my weaknesses.

If you can think like this, it means that you haven't scrapped it to the end. Many times it is the idea that changes the action, so you have this kind of thought, it means that you want to be better, but you are eager to get everyone's affirmation, please be patient first, because to get everyone's affirmation, you first have to change yourself, so changing your actions is the real change. Why not start with what you're good at?

Or find something you're good at. It's really not good to face the existing life, try your best to find the aspect you like, sometimes use your brain, and change the angle is also a good way. Since you can't change your life, then you change yourself.

Happiness is a day, depression is a day, why not make yourself better? It's good to have ideas, but imagination is daydreaming, so don't always think about what others do to you, think about how much you have given and what you have done? Adjust your mentality and lower your position, so that you will be more aware of yourself.

Actually, in some ways, everyone is a waste, but on the other hand, everyone is a genius, please find your own area of expertise or change your mindset.

People who feel that they are waste, they are not motivated and uninterested, or they may be caused by good family conditions, they can also think about it, find a goal to look at positive energy books, or you can look at things that are suitable for you, go out to see charity activities, and you can also look at public welfare activities to enhance your interests and hobbies.

This is not so much a problem, but a psychological problem. There is still a psychological state of inferiority. It's not that I don't want to be motivated, but I set a limit for myself. You can't break through on your own.

Personally, I think this situation mainly lies in your mentality, there are some inferiority complex and negativity, in fact, you should look at yourself objectively and find your own advantages, so that you can really cheer yourself up.

But when you feel like a waste, you prove that you realize that you need to improve. , in fact, it's just that I haven't been able to stick to it well. In fact, I don't have to be a waste, I just feel like a waste.

Come to you, I feel like you're a waste, I think on what basis do you say you're a waste, don't you do anything? So is it a pit that gnaws at home and eats at home? So you're a waste, you think you're a waste, so you don't do anything.

I think people can't be decadent by themselves, they think they are waste, then they are completely wasted, well, in the face of adversity, they should live their true values, and they should have a spirit of hard work and enterprising.

Don't think like that, you must cheer up, believe in yourself, believe in yourself, be capable, and work hard to forge ahead.

In fact, many people will feel this way, so I will find what I am good at and enrich myself, and I think I should have a little bit of confidence.

Then go to sports, go to reading, go to study, and do what you want to do, instead of relying on feelings, relying on your imagination, relying on your fantasies to live, to work, to lament!

I have been a full-time mother for many years, and I often feel that I have been seriously detached from society, and I feel that I am a waste, and I can't afford to lie down in the words of the Internet. Later, I heard Luo Zhenyu say that since you can't roll up and lie down, then choose to squat down, do what you have at hand, and do the things at hand one by one, you will have a sense of satisfaction after doing a good job, and after you feel satisfied, you will be eager to challenge in your heart, and you will change in turn, and you will be able to become what you want.

Later, I began to cook seriously, tell stories to my children, and insist on reciting an ancient poem every day, and slowly I began to become confident, no longer suffering from gains and losses, and no longer feeling that I was a waste.

I feel that this thing is very unreliable, I feel that I only hurt myself, I have confidence when I am hurt, I have no motivation when I am injured, and I feel sorry for myself when I am hurt. So don't let yourself have time to think about this "feeling", keep yourself busy, busy studying, busy sports, busy working, in short, you have to be busy, don't allow yourself to have a moment of free time.

It's useless to think, only by taking action, only by getting busy, can you have the opportunity to live as you like. Go to bed early and get up early every day, busy, superficial and ordinary and fulfilling.

Why do we feel like we're a piece of waste? The answer is because compared with others, I always feel that others are more successful than me, and I am nothing! In fact, everyone has their own way of life, what you see is not everything, just one side, we should not speculate on other people's thoughts, let alone fall into the past and suffer from gains and losses.

Anything that consumes you, it's your fault to take a closer look and think about it for a minute more. Invest your time and energy in yourself, stay true to your heart, and move slowly at your own pace. Honor.

There is only one way, change yourself! You're in a dangerous state! You know your situation, see if you change your faith!

First of all, challenge yourself to do things you don't like to do, such as chatting with everyone, at first you can't speak, can't chat, it's okay, you can understand! In socializing, be good at listening, see how others talk and chat, start with imitation, open your heart, and then slowly I think you also like to chat and brag with everyone, so that you can fit in. Then, learn to be helpful, hardworking and kind people, no matter how introverted, there will be people who will like them.

Finally, challenge yourself to do things that you can't bear, to put it simply, express your own opinions in the crowd, and you can speak and express yourself fluently, then it proves that you have successfully broken through yourself. In the beginning, you will definitely be nervous, scared, give up at the slightest difficulty, you have to believe in yourself, I think you must be very talented, otherwise you can't write, that requires a lot of knowledge to do it! You're just not good at expressing yourself!