What do you think are the educational methods in Tiger Mom and Cat Dad that are desirable?

Older ones are better than those of the same age. For example, if a stranger suddenly becomes prosperous and rich, we will not care, but if a neighbor suddenly becomes prosperous and rich, the family will explode, and the reason is the same. Those who start from the same starting point are often more able to challenge our fragile nerves.

People of the same sex with a certain age difference can often become good sisters or brothers, but the same age is different, they are in direct competition, and competition is cruel, it can distort human nature.

In the play, the main difference between the way tiger moms and cat dads treat their children's education is pressure. In fact, all education issues cannot be discussed separately from social issues, the reality of Chinese education in this drama and the current situation of many Chinese families. In China's family education, it has gradually changed from strict fathers and mothers to tiger mothers and cat fathers.

But is it really good to have a mom who is too strong and a dad who has no dignity in a family role? Russell played by Tong Dawei has no dignity in front of his wife, no prestige in front of his children, no status in the family, and will only blindly make peace with the mud, which is very pitiful. In a family, men should play the role of standing up to the sky and sheltering from the wind and rain, and correct education and guidance will give children more sense of security and strength, and will also better cultivate children's sense of responsibility.

"Cat Dad" - Happy education Compared with the strictness of "Tiger Mom", "Cat Dad" is undoubtedly the representative of a loving father. In the view of Chang Zhitao, the cat father, education can also be very gentle, uphold the concept of "happy education", adopt personalized education for children, tolerate children more, communicate with children more, so that they have more autonomy, not only to help children grow, but also to let children have a happy and free childhood. Of course, giving children autonomy is not to indulge children, but to let children have more consciousness, such as learning is the first task, there is no room for bargaining, you learn very consciously, let you decide some things independently.

If you are given autonomy and you use it well, it can give you some more.

In the whole process of educating children, the father plays an important and main role, which can not be missing, as the father of the child, male friends should take the initiative to take the responsibility of educating the child, and according to their own children's situation, choose a suitable way to educate the child, take care of their beloved child. The introduction of "zipper" education has alleviated the drawbacks of this kind of education to a certain extent. "The two sides of the zipper are located independently of each other on different 'tracks', but they need to move forward in sync to merge.

If the parents' 'zipper' cannot be synchronized, it will be caught in the child's 'heart'.

In my mind, the education method that is really suitable for children should be 90% Shengnan plus 10% Russell, with appropriate and reasonable entertainment and rest under heavy learning pressure, and a combination of work and rest. In China, most parents are not local tyrants, so they can't buy whatever their children want, let their children learn golf and skiing, and send them to study abroad when they grow up. 80% of parents in Chinese families only want the next generation to be as happy as possible under successful conditions, not to let them be proficient in piano, chess, calligraphy, painting, poetry and songs, but to hope that their children can survive in this cruel society and have the ability to support themselves.

The focus of the family education concept of "Tiger Mom and Cat Dad" is on the child, and the father and mother are one singing red face and the other white face. The concept of "zipper" homeschooling is just like the English word "parenting" for "parenting."", the focus is on the parenting of the parents themselves. The emergence of the "tiger mom and cat dad" family is mainly affected by the traditional model of male and female dominant, men earn money to support their families and have no time to take care of their families, so the burden of educating children naturally falls on women.

In addition, the man who has only been a father for a few years has not really matured, and "happiness first" has become a code of communication between father and son.

The father presents the strength of men, masculine and masculine, and what he brings to his children is protection, support and a sense of security; The mother presents love, sensual, soft, delicate and warm. What a mother sings in white is a kind of strength, and this strength is not the "strong" education that children really need. In the stage of children's growth, both boys and girls need a strong, powerful, and authoritative love.

And this kind of love cannot be given by the mother, only the father can afford it. As the saying goes, "Mother's love is like water, and father's love is like a mountain", which is what is said.

Mothers are the most disciplined children, and this is the case in many families. If the mother does not have authority in the child's heart, the child's discipline can get out of control. If the child does not have a sense of rules and grows up to be a "bear child" as the Dasanmao family calls it, his future development will also be affected.

A kind father is good for the social development of the child. In the role of the family, the father is generally the breadwinner of the family, the idol in the hearts of the children, and the symbol of majesty. Children are naturally afraid, and if the father is strict, it is not conducive to the interaction between the child and the father.

For girls, Zheng Xian's father's strict mother's family education is more suitable. The girl lives in a strict family with a loving father.

Such girls don't know how to interact with people at all, let alone how to interact with men, and they are more likely to have low self-esteem when they fall in love. If you encounter a problem, you either cry twice, hang yourself three times, or endure it now. But on the other hand, if it is a family with a loving father and a strict mother, the mother will give him the bottom line and principles of being a man, and the father will give him a very loving way of education, so that he has his own height to develop in the bush, he will feel closer to men, will not feel that men are a very terrible creature, and will not be afraid of men and fall in love.

After a long period of "leniency and severity", if the child understands the "routine" of his parents, he will behave honestly in front of his "white-faced" parents.

Don't dare to say anything, but in front of the "red-faced" parents, they will behave presumptuously and have no rules. Because he knows what is the right person to talk to, it will not only affect his future growth and learning, but also his marriage and work. If both parents always deny it, the child will become suspicious of the parent's authority and thus be unconvinced by the parent's teachings.

Even if parents tell their children the right things, they will not understand. It may be difficult to think of effective education in the future, and it will also lay hidden dangers for his future learning.

It can be seen that the inconsistency of parents' education methods has a great impact on children. In fact, the key to children is not as contradictory as parents think. As long as you find a balance, it will not be so difficult to teach children.

And the so-called "strict" does not mean that children should be "beaten and scolded". "Kindness" is more about giving him encouragement and comfort, preventing him from losing faith. Therefore, as long as parents master the "strictness and kindness", it can be matched.

Personally, it is better to recognize the experience as a "tiger mom and cat dad". Because the mother writes more carefully, even if she is strict, the child can be better accepted by the blind circle.

In my opinion, family education is best to be strict with fathers and mothers; The main reason for the hail is that the strict father and the gentle mother play a very important role in the child's growth and development, and the character of the parents also determines the future development direction of the child, and Cong Fan has a very important impact on the child's growth.

I think that parents should be strict with family education, and friends should be kind; Because any kind of education will cause harm to children, parents should discuss together and teach children together.

Perhaps to educate children, one should sing red face and one white face, there is collection and release, it is easier for children to accept.

"Tiger mom and cat dad" will affect the child's growth and health, and through the observation of clinical children and the summary of psychological counseling

Nowadays, the mother is too strong and the father is too weak in the family, and the child is more likely to have anxiety disorders, obsessive-compulsive disorder and other problems.

This is because in a healthy relationship, the distance between the wife and the husband, the child and the mother, and the child and the father should be the same, in an equilateral triangle. This balanced family strength is the best soil for children's growth. However, the father is too weak, and the role in the child's psychological growth is "vague", and the mother occupies the absolute dominance of domination and domination, which will lead to the relationship between mother and child being too close, and the father and son are relatively far apart.

Tiger Mom and Cat Dad represent the current status quo of China's education sector, parents.

Feedback on the treatment of children and the feedback of children to parents. Answer.

It focuses on the difference between Chinese education and American education, and the debate between Daddy Wolf and Tang Lin can be referred to. Under the strict education of the tiger father, two completely different individuals appeared, Bi Shengnan's sister and brother.

At present, in the education of Sissi, the tiger mother's early implementation of the education of hope for the success of the child has brought great harm to Sissi, although Sissi's grades are among the best, but the psychology of children is an indelible shadow.

In the later period, under the premise of the tiger mother's laissez-faire, Sissi's grades plummeted, which is to give us a reflection on whether indulging the child at will can give the child a future.

I like the words of Daddy Wolf, only their parents know how to educate their children, and the words of education experts can only be used as a reference, after all, people are different.

With the emergence of the "tiger mom and cat dad" family, the burden of educating children naturally falls on women. Regarding the education of their children, the husband and wife have their own opinions and contradictions. Many of the contradictions in this TV series also exist in real life.

What kind of disadvantages will this kind of education bring to children.

1. Stick education is an educational method that usually appears in parents with relatively weak cultural foundations. Just like Bi Shengnan's father, such people usually believe that punishment by force is the best way to educate, "filial piety under the stick". As everyone knows, often hitting and scolding children will hit children's self-confidence and children's enthusiasm for learning.

Stick education may also affect children's interpersonal communication, and parents' long-term suppression of children will make children cowardly and timid, afraid to approach others, and dare not show themselves in front of others.

2. Spoiling this kind of education is common in children's elders, because the thinking has not kept up with the pace of society, relatively backward, in the education of children will often choose the doting education method. Parents' doting on their children will make them become self-willed, self-willed, and do not listen to parental discipline. It will also make children like to be self-centered in their interactions with others, and they do not take into account the feelings of others.

3. The inconsistency of education methods among parents is a very serious problem. When educating their children, parents should unite and choose the most suitable education method for their children. When there is a conflict between parents, it should be resolved privately and not quarrel in front of the child, so as not to bring a bad influence to the child.

If parents want their children to grow up better, then a good family atmosphere is essential. A harmonious and happy family atmosphere will have a good impact on children.

4. Strict education is different from strict education in that strict education is often excessive. Parents often demand too much from their children and exercise excessive control over their children. This kind of education often causes children to be overstressed, which may cause children to rebel.

In addition, parents who are too strict with their children can easily make them become reticent and close themselves off. Excessive stress can also induce mental illness in your child.

Educating children is a long-term battle, and parents should have enough patience to create a good living and learning atmosphere for their children. I hope that every parent can find a set of educational concepts suitable for their children and establish a healthy parent-child relationship with their children!

This kind of education may discourage children's interest in learning, may make children become inferior, and is not conducive to children's personal development.

The children taught by this way of education have no own opinions, they will only listen to their mothers, and if they are boys, they will be mothers when they grow up.

Too crude and simplistic. Completely different parenting styles can make children tend to be more predisposed, and children need to grow up in a healthy parent-child relationship.

The disadvantage is that children are too biased towards their parents. In such a family, the child will prefer the father, and the fear of the mother or even the rejection of the mother from the bottom of the heart is still not conducive to the child's growth.

Cat mom and tiger dad seem to be harmonious, in fact, there are some defects in this way of education, for education we have summed up experience in the long-term exploration, and teach students according to their aptitude.

The education method of cat mom and tiger dad, I think it is desirable, one educates children, one comforts children, and envy is effective!

Desirable, in family education, parents' attitudes should be consistent, but the way of expression can be diverse, stern can allow children to promote children's thinking, gentleness, can let children find hope in despair.

It varies from person to person. If the child is encouraging, then encouragement should be the main thing and not suppressed; If the child is the kind of stern that will make him progress, then the tiger mom and cat dad will have an effect.