Why can t I look people squarely?

Or because you are not confident enough in yourself, in fact, you are already very good, think about those crippled people, physical cripples, family cripples, more pitiful than you, since you are not the saddest person in the world, why should you be inferior, you are what you are, this is God's gift, it has nothing to do with anyone, and you can't blame your family, they brought you to this world, let you feel everything in this world, you should be grateful. Be cheerful, face up to everything in reality, travel often, and release your mood, not only ** can make people feel relaxed. Also, communicate with friends often, temper yourself, there is nothing terrible about chatting, so don't think too much, try to calm yourself and calm your mind.

If you were born in ancient times, you would be a eunuch. Or is it the parents' fault? You goub, people's self-confidence is cultivated by themselves, and you blame your parents if you don't look good?

Your parents still think you're an ape when they brought you out. You're still **, I guess you're the same as the b on China's Got Talent. Brother advises you, die early and be reincarnated early.

Kill with a single sword. Don't defile it anymore. Look at my mouth, Sha'erbi.

You must be confident, you must first overcome yourself psychologically, and you must always think like this: I am different, I am the best child of my parents! After a while, I think your condition will definitely improve!

I've just signed up to complete the starter mission. This benevolent brother is completely inferiority complex and is making trouble, whether he succeeds or not, whether he does anything or not depends entirely on his heart, the so-called - there is nothing difficult in the world, but I am afraid of people with hearts. No matter what your qualifications are, self-confidence is the most important thing, and it is recommended that the most important thing in front of you is to let yourself have a heart that is not afraid of anything, and aspire to get ahead.

May you have a will, a will, a way.

Maybe you have ADHD, you can go to the hospital for a check-up, as for where to see the problem, you can't always stare at others when communicating, so that others will of course feel good about you, but you can't always look elsewhere, which will appear disrespectful. So, you merge the two, and when you communicate, you can generally look at others when you talk about the key parts.

You can't even tolerate your parents, what can you tolerate? You're still young, too small, don't tell me you've grown up.

Maybe you're a little shy, or you're weak-hearted.

1. Psychological or psychosomatic problems.

You can look at the other person's eyebrows, nose and chin when talking.

Same.

You're really thinking too much, it should be a matter of age, I've given this method to my sister, brother, and friends, and it's very effective, the key is to figure it out yourself.

Remember the phrase 'The problems I have now are related to my age, let me let go of all the messy problems in my head and do the things that are most important to me'

In fact, after a few years, you will feel that your current thoughts are really stupid, so why should you be so difficult to get along with yourself, I have encountered the physical condition you said, and many high school classmates have it. Don't have low self-esteem, find a better TCM doctor to try, and try a few more if one doesn't work.

It is often said that the eyes are the windows to the soul. Avoiding other people's eyes often makes people feel unsafe.

Practise facing others squarely, which is tantamount to telling them: I am honest and above board; What I tell you is true, and I am not weak-hearted.

If you want your eyes to work for you, practice looking at others attentively. Not only will this give you confidence, but it will also earn you the trust of others.

In daily life, when you attend various gatherings or lecture rooms, you will find that the rest of the work is always filled first. (Isn't that what my college is all about?) In fact, those are people who lack self-confidence.

Of course, sitting in front will be more conspicuous, but it is important to remember that everything about success is conspicuous.

Summary. Hello, being embarrassed to look others in the eye and speak is a sign of shyness and lack of confidence. You can do some training on speaking in public on a daily basis.

I'm embarrassed to look people in the eye and speak.

Hello, being embarrassed to look others in the eye and speak is a sign of shyness and lack of confidence. You can do some training on speaking in public on a daily basis.

When an individual is able to successfully cope with a particular situation, he will show a state of self-confidence, which will gradually strengthen into a state of concentration. And when a person is focused on solving a problem, his eyes will focus on the problem itself, rather than running away from it. Therefore, when a person is confident in himself, he will focus on the person he is talking to, listen carefully to what the other person is talking about, the messages released by his body, and try to interpret this information to make the right judgment.

Don't dare to look at other people's eyes when speaking, it may be caused by excessive tension, or it may be fear, for this phenomenon can only be improved by slowly adapting to multiple contacts with strangers, and you also need to pay attention to observe whether there are other phenomena, mainly excessive tension or excessive fright, fear will occur in a similar situation, you can choose to improve it in a desensitized way, and you can slowly adapt to it after multiple contacts.

To sum up, you should have a mild social phobia.

In fact, every time we communicate with people, we want to show our own side, so people with lively and agile personalities can generally be like fish in water, and people with secluded or even distorted personalities are less and less afraid to communicate with others. It all has to do with the environment in which you live. For example, the family is broken, the friends around you are too outstanding, and your own physiological problems are all causes of communication fear.

In fact, the solution is simple, but it is more difficult to do.

1. Show your own excellent strengths in front of everyone, and strengthen your ties with some of your shortcomings and shortcomings in secret.

2. Chat with strangers often, ask for directions, and even often go to clothing stores, computer cities and other places you like to go to chat with salespeople.

3. Quit some faults and bad habits in life, such as spitting, spitting, talking and spitting in public.

4. Contact more old classmates and old friends to talk about ideals, future, and hobbies.

5. Make eye contact with small animals often to increase your eye contact skills.

6. Do more exercise, people who don't exercise are easy to have autism.

The above recommendations are based on individual circumstances.

Hope it helps, thank you.

You are inferior to him in all aspects, and you have some inferiority, and the other party is stronger than you, so you feel unconfident and stressed.

You have to learn more about culture, learn more knowledge, and cultivate more hobbies. He is better than him in all aspects. Your heart is strong. When talking to others, they no longer dodge and dodge.

That's because you haven't met a friend you really want to like, and you don't have that kind of liking. When you have a friend and you feel relaxed around him, without any worries and feelings of depression, there will be no such troubles.