What is love in the end, ethereal and illusory

Love can't be forced, just like a strong melon is not sweet.

Illusory love is the love you think is love, but it is not love, it is the love that is not real in the likeness, not the thing itself, but you have always thought it is the real love. It is recommended to watch "Illusory Love", "Hypocritical Love" and "Waves of Sand", three dramas about love and marriage, and you will get the answer.

Because love itself is invisible and intangible, but love is objectively elevated, so many people feel that love is ethereal.

To a certain extent, when love comes, many people are not fully prepared, and at the same time, they will have psychological fluctuations because of love. In such a situation, some people's lives will be affected by love, even negatively. It is precisely because of this reason of envy that some people will think that love is an ethereal thing and not worth pursuing, but this is actually a wrong concept.

1. Love is indeed an ethereal thing.

As I said above, the so-called love itself is something that cannot be seen or touched. When two people have a good feeling together, two people will have a feeling of love. It's a wonderful feeling, two people want to show the best of themselves to each other, and at the same time, they want to make each other better because of their existence.

Second, some people say that love can't be grasped, so they feel that love is ethereal.

Some people's emotional experience is not smooth, and in the process of getting along with their other half, they may quarrel with each other because of various problems, and the relationship between the two people is also unstable. It is for this reason that some people feel that love is ethereal. Although two people are vigorous when they fall in love together, when the relationship between two people no longer exists, it seems that two people are not even as good as strangers.

3. Love is actually fate.

The reason why we say this is mainly because we are very lucky to meet each other in the vast sea of people. It is precisely because of the randomness of love that we feel that love is ethereal. Just imagine, we can meet countless excellent people in the old age, why we must be with the current other half.

When we choose our other half, it is a great honor and happiness in itself. <>

With all that said, I hope this can help you and I wish you all the best.

Love is a beautiful dream. Just like a flower, it has a predetermined flowering period, and when the flowering period arrives, it will inevitably fall to apoptosis.

Perhaps it is because of this that love seems so meaningful and touching in ordinary life.

Just like Xi Shi who suffers from angina, it is this defect that is destined to last for a long time that creates the perfection of love.

True perfection is not actual perfection, but actual perfection is some kind of incompleteness - a set of camouflage that binds the self, a mirror that reflects the incompetence of others, a repulsive and irritating centrifugal force, like the all-powerful bree and Gu Jia before the divorce in "Desperate Housewives" and "Woman Thirty".

In the same way, what a person loves is not the real person, but the other person who has been beautified through the filter of fantasy.

In "The Three-Body Problem", Luo Ji fell in love with the perfect lover he imagined. He felt crazy and consulted a psychiatrist. The doctor confessed: Who is not the imaginary person of love?

It's just that someone can hone the gap between imagination and reality well, so they can stumble and hold hands for a long time; Someone can't run in, and when he turns around, he is a passerby.

In Immortality, Agnès feels that love is based on a willingness to love each other and live with each other. But once this will is relaxed, love flies away like a bird with an open cage.

Yes, will, what kind of erratic, shapeless thing!

Perhaps this is why commitment and romance are needed, as if taking a wrench and tightening the screws of will to keep the love machine running.

In addition to the fantasies of people for their lovers and the vagaries of their will to maintain the foundation of love, there is another point that exacerbates the illusory nature of love and makes it impossible to last. This is the principle of opposite-sex attraction similar to magnets.

The two extremes attract each other; Human nature is always looking for something that can destroy itself," says John Christopher.

The difference in the early stage makes each other exude incomparable charm, and they are naturally attracted to each other. But don't forget, after all, they are two completely different ends of the world, and over time they will inevitably evolve into a battle for sovereignty to the death.

This is the reason why lovers always love and kill each other in love! The fulfillment of a relationship is always a part of self-sacrificing accommodation.

In view of the above three points, it is not difficult to conclude that there is no such thing as "diamond forever" love in this world. I was so pessimistic, and at the same time, as if I wished I had made a mistake, I looked forward to it in despair, even if I would spend the rest of my life.

Affection is one of the romantic emotions in the world. In a person's life, he must experience the baptism of feelings. Experience the process of acquaintance, acquaintance, and love.

Every link is indispensable. The great thing about love is that two people who don't know each other can attract and appreciate each other at the beginning of their acquaintance. And spark love.

When Eros comes, both men and women in the world will be bathed in the light of love.

I'm a stubborn person. There's a romance in my bones. This breath has always been with me.

The love I want is the beauty of two loves. But God didn't fulfill people's wishes, and I met someone who didn't love me. I threw myself away for him, and tortured myself all over my body.

In the end, it was all for nothing. When I was physically and mentally exhausted, I met people who loved me. His love makes me feel at ease.

This is the love I want, but I still want to leave him.

He I met on a blind date platform. I like to be a matchmaker, so I help my friends introduce people on dating platforms. I chatted with him inadvertently.

Talking to him is very quiet, feels comfortable, and can release negative emotions. Every time I finish chatting, I feel better. It's strange that I can hear what he said in my heart.

And there is no mood for rebellion. When he learned my story, he was very distressed and helpless. I know he loves me and I have feelings for him.

But reason tells me that this is an ethereal love. It is not in line with reality, and there is no logical thinking at all. We love each other, but I can't escape my current marriage.

So you can only hurt one person, and you can only quit halfway. Bring this love to an end.

I'm sorry is the word I say the most. Cowardice keeps me away from you, and fear keeps me from facing you. All I can say is sorry.

Thank you for loving me and thank you for all that you have given me. The end means a new beginning. Let me bury this beautiful relationship in the deepest corner of my heart.

Ethereal love, please leave.