What happened to the old people who didn t help their children with their babies in the end?

In the end, they also have to let their children support themselves, because children have an obligation to support their parents, and this is what they have to do.

They lived alone in that place, lacking the childlike joy that children brought to them. But all aspects of their own lives, such as economic pressures, have been relaxed.

In the end, such old people should live a lonely life, because they choose to be relaxed and happy when they are young, and when they are old, their children should not be happy to live with them.

The first three years after a woman has a child is not only a critical moment in the growth and development of the child, but also an important turning point for every family. In the face of a new life, you need to accompany your child to adapt to the world, if the mother is not around, the baby will cry from time to time because of the loss of the mother's protection, which makes most of the newly upgraded mothers seem confused and helpless. So, what happened to the families where the elderly don't help with the baby?

1. Mother-in-law with a baby is love, not with it is duty. It is very hard but also very happy to take care of a child alone, and only a mother who has taken a child can experience this kind of tearful day. If the mother-in-law doesn't help take care of the children, it's time to realize that the love of her husband and daughter-in-law is stronger than Jin.

As long as the husband is a responsible person, even if he doesn't make much money, because he has been educated by the love of the family since he was a child, he is very committed to the family, and a competent husband and father who can considerate and understand him, he can still live a very happy life. After the first three years of the child's birth, the relationship between husband and wife reaches a new height.

2. The relationship between husband and wife is getting deeper and deeper. Without the help of the older generation, the couple could only take care of the children. If the husband is a person who feels sorry for his wife, it is natural that he will do his best to take care of the children in his daily life.

Such a husband knows very well how hard it is for his wife to give birth to children, and naturally he doesn't want his wife to work too the way to take care of the children. If a woman can meet such a husband, she is also very lucky. In the face of difficulties in life, it is good for couples to work together to overcome difficulties, and the relationship will become deeper and deeper.

3. Gnawing the old in disguise. Although it is not natural for the elderly to help with the children, for most families, the income of two people is not enough to support a nanny or a month-long sister-in-law. If you want to liberate yourself financially, you can only ask your parents for money.

Sometimes the older generation doesn't take care of the children, so it's good to give some money. Many couples think that since they can't help take care of their children, they can at least give some financial support. In fact, this has become a disguised "gnawing old family".

Although it doesn't sound good, the pressure of real life is there, and it is also the result of necessity.

The situation of each family is different, whether you need your mother-in-law to help take care of the children depends on the specific situation, but in any case, the life is your own, and what kind of person you want to become depends more on your choice.

If the elderly do not help with the children, then the young people will not be able to go out to work, otherwise, the children will have nowhere to go. And if the elderly don't help take care of the children, then it won't have much impact, it's nothing more than a loss of income in the family.

If the elderly are reluctant to take care of their children, we can find a job with a slightly easier time, so that they can also pick up and drop off their children. We can find some hourly workers, so that we can pick up and drop off our children without delaying their studies. And I also think that if the old man is unwilling to take the child, we are not qualified to morally kidnap the old man, after all, the old man has worked hard all his life.

They also hope to be able to live comfortably in their old age when they are old, and we should not hate the elderly at this time.

If everyone's working hours are relatively relaxed, I feel that it is very good to take care of my children. If we hand over the child to the elderly, there may be some negligence on the part of the elderly, so there will be some quarrels between each other, so it is recommended that everyone choose to take care of the child by themselves. In this way, it can also make children become better.

In fact, many elderly people are reluctant to take care of their children because of their own physical problems. Because the age of the elderly is relatively old, and it is not good to take care of the children, I also hope that everyone will no longer shirk the responsibility of taking care of the children to the elderly. Because the elderly have raised their children, it is also possible for the elderly to enjoy their old age at this time, and do not put more pressure on the elderly, otherwise, it will also cause the elderly to be very uncomfortable.

In the end, they all bring their own, but young people can't go to work with their own children, family life is a bit difficult, and the elderly don't help families with children, and the children's lives are not very rich.

In the end, they must have lived very well, and the children are also very smart, and the children have parents with them, and they will not develop some bad problems.

In the end, it's a mess, if the old man doesn't help with the baby, the family will become very bad, it's just a chicken, a dog.

The question of whether or not you need to help your children take care of your children when you are old has been debated for a long time. In real life, most of the elderly will choose to help their children with their children mainly because they feel sorry for their children, and some elderly people are unwilling to help their children with their children or unable to help their children with children for various reasons. This answer is not singular, after all, each family environment is different, and the final results are different.

First, the family is harmonious, and the relationship between husband and wife is getting better and better. Raising children can be a lot of problems that need to be addressed by both husband and wife. When I meet a husband who is more considerate of his wife, he will take into account his wife's feelings in all aspects, take care of the children with his wife as much as possible, and solve the difficulties in life together.

Second, the chickens and dogs jump in the days, and contradictions will break out at any time. The new identity change is not so easy to adapt, and many women do not understand what it means to have a child before they get married, only to find that it is not what they think after giving birth. Every day in the face of children's problems have been very collapsed, and after a long time, no one can support the conflict, and it may explode at any time.

Especially when you meet a husband who is not considerate and does not support his wife, marriage is a time bomb at any time. <>

Third, some families feel that the elderly should help take care of their children, and there must always be one who contributes money and efforts. But they didn't realize why the elderly should help their children take care of their children, they didn't have such an obligation, and they were willing to help their children take care of their children because they felt sorry for their children. There are many elderly people who have no choice but to support their children through money, and the results may be different depending on the starting point, one of which is the children's requirements, which is likely to become a gnawing old family in disguise.

Another is that parents are voluntary, and it is not easy for some families to be considerate of the elderly.

Families where the elderly do not help with the baby are finally brought by the parents themselves, so the family will be busier in the early stage, but the child's character is better.

There are two situations, one is to be considerate of the elderly, their own willing to bring their parents, the children brought out are generally very sensible, promising, and the other is that the elderly are unwilling to bring, they themselves are not good parents, the children brought out are generally not very obedient, and the family relationship is very bad.

When the child needs help the most, the elderly do not help, which is really uncomfortable for children who are used to the contribution of their parents.

The elderly do not help the families with the baby, and in the end the elderly choose to return to the countryside to enjoy their own lives alone. For many young people in life, after giving birth, they don't want the elderly to help young people take care of their children, but as young people, you should know that in fact, the elderly will want to have their own life after retirement, and they are not willing to consider taking care of young people with children. Because living with young people will easily aggravate the conflict between young people and old people, and the old people will also think that they have suffered all their lives when they were young, and they should enjoy pure happiness when they live in old age.

In today's life, most of them are because young people and old people have different ways of bringing up babies together, which will easily aggravate the communication conflict between the two generations. In order to reduce the communication conflicts between many elderly people and young people, many elderly people will choose to return to their hometown and rural areas, and they are not willing to cause more trouble for young people when they live alone. As long as the young people need the elderly, then the elderly will definitely go all out to the young people.

But if the young do not need the help of the elderly, the elderly will also stay away from the young. <>

In fact, the choice of the elderly is only to give more young people a lot of opportunities to get along alone, and young people will feel a little uncomfortable because of the elderly at home. In the life of two generations, it is inevitable that there will be some disputes together. The old man is also in order to reduce some of the burden on his son, so he would rather live alone in his hometown than cause trouble to his son and daughter-in-law.

The elderly have the right to choose their own life, and if you want the elderly to help the young people with their children, then the elderly will definitely help the young people without hesitation. However, if you let the elderly take care of their children for a long time, you will also feel that the elderly are a little powerless, because as the elderly get older. It can be a bit unbearable when taking care of children, so the elderly should be allowed to relax their lives and find their own happiness.

First of all, one of the husband and wife must stay at home with the baby, relatively speaking, the economic pressure is very great, and the pressure as a husband is also very great. Of course, I also have a special plan for my life.

In the end, they all broke down, because women still have to work and have to take care of the baby, they will have a very serious quarrel with their husbands, and in the end they will all be divorced.

Most of them are brought by their mothers, so that they can better ensure the lives of their children, and life is more difficult.