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Parents want their children to grow up healthy and happy, and his growth is inseparable from the family environment and the teaching of parents, good education can make children become excellent, if the parents' improper education is not only for the child, but also for the whole family is not good, especially the following education methods, parents should pay attention to the baby, there is no benefit to the baby.
Stuff the baby at home.
Neighbor Kai Kai is 3 years old this year, his parents usually because of work, although they live with their children, but rarely accompany him, every weekend is also at home rest, almost never take him out, so Kai Kai often watches TV at home, can not play with children, so he becomes so irritable, and even beats people. Many parents are afraid that their children will make trouble at home, and some parents feel that the baby is too small and too troublesome to go out, but they don't know that confinement of the baby at home will not only affect his character, but will have a great impact on his future life, so parents usually take time to take the baby out to see.
Compromise with your child's crying.
The child's crying has different meanings at different ages, and when he can't speak, the crying is basically for psychological and physical needs, such as being hungry or sleepy. But as the child grows older, his crying has more meaning, and some children often use crying to threaten parents to get what they want, because parents are afraid that he will cry, and always the child will give what he wants when he cries, which is easy to make him willful.
Chase and feed. Many parents, especially the elderly, take the baby, especially like to chase the baby to feed when eating, because they are worried about the hunger of the child, they will serve the meal early, and the house will chase him away, but this is a very bad habit, parents will always stuff the big bite of food into his mouth when the child is not paying attention, and it is easy to choke the baby. Moreover, parents habitually chase after feeding, and when the child grows up, his independence will be very poor and he will become dependent on his parents.
Blame the innocent when comforting the child.
In our memory, when a child falls, whether he is careless or not, parents will first comfort him, and then blame innocent things, such as the baby falls, parents will blame the table or the ground, but this behavior will make him learn to shirk responsibility, not good at correcting problems, and it is easy to become irresponsible and not responsible in the future.
In the process of educating children, parents always feel that the child is still young, and he does not understand the reasoning, in fact, he is far smarter than we imagined, and parents should establish a correct view of right and wrong for their children from an early age, which will be more helpful to his growth.
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Many parents feel that their children are still young, and they usually eat some candy and chocolate, and their children are hungry to buy all kinds of cakes and snacks, which will seriously affect their children's baby teeth. There is also a child who can look at the mobile phone with him and brush the **, which is quite destructive to the child's eyesight.
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Smoking and drinking will affect the child's health, smoking will cause the child to inhale second-hand smoke, drinking will cause the child to have bad habits, and if you don't go home at night, it will cause the child to cause family harmony.
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1. Parents' smoking will cause second-hand smoke inhalation to their children, which is not conducive to the healthy growth of children. 2. Parents connived at their children's snacks, causing harm to their children's health. 3. Parents control their children too much, and their children run around and make noise, and they also quarrel with their children when they are having fun, which will affect their children's mental health.
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In life, all the actions of parents will affect the health of their children. For example, if some children's fathers like to smoke, the children will indirectly receive second-hand smoke, and even some smoke residues on the father's clothes are likely to cause harm to the child's health. We all know that secondhand smoke is more harmful than direct smoking.
On the contrary, if the child's father is a person who loves sports very much, he can drive his child to exercise regularly, which can not only cultivate the child's strong character, but also improve the child's physical health to a certain extent. In terms of mental health, if parents often vent some bad emotions to their children, then the children will definitely be influenced by the parents, either becoming timid and cowardly, or becoming very violent. Therefore, as the old saying goes, parents are the role models for their children, and every move of parents affects their children's lives.
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When I was a child, my parents would set a lot of bad examples, such as:
Bad habits: Parents may have bad habits such as smoking, drinking, gambling, etc., which may affect their children's behavior and lifestyle.
Dishonesty: Parents may engage in dishonest behaviors, such as lying, cheating, etc., which may affect their children's honesty and trust.
Irresponsible: Parents may have irresponsible behaviors, such as lack of family responsibility, not caring for the family, not taking care of the family, etc., which may affect the child's sense of family responsibility and family awareness.
Poor eating habits: Parents may have poor eating habits, such as eating unhealthy diets, eating too many high-calorie foods, etc., which may affect their children's health and nutrition.
The role model of parents has a great impact on children. Parents' behaviors and attitudes have a direct impact on their children's growth and development, including values, behavioral habits, attitudes, and emotional expressions.
If parents are able to set the right example, children will learn the right behaviors and attitudes to become positive, responsible, and compassionate people.
Conversely, if parents set a bad example, the child may be negatively influenced, develop bad behaviors and attitudes, and even develop bad personality traits. Therefore, parents should always be mindful of their words and deeds and set the right example for their children to grow and develop in a healthy and positive family environment.
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Parents, as their children's first teachers, play a vital role in their children's development. If parents give their children a bad example, it will have a bad impact on their children's development, which is manifested in the following ways:
1.Influencing values: Parents' words and deeds can directly or indirectly affect children's values and morals, and children are likely to imitate them if parents show bad habits such as dishonesty, irresponsibility, disrespect for others, and excessive pampering.
This not only affects the child's personality and character, but also the child's social skills and emotional intelligence.
2.Develop bad habits: Parents' words and actions can affect their children's behavior and habits.
If parents smoke, drink, gamble and other bad habits, children are easy to imitate and form bad habits. Even in the process of a child's growth, these bad habits can become the fuse for the child to break the law and commit crimes, abandon schooling, and go astray.
3.Harm to health: If parents don't value their own health, children may also learn this behavior habit and not focus on their own health.
Parents' poor lifestyle habits and unhealthy lifestyles can not only put children at risk of health problems, but also reduce their quality of life and well-being.
In conclusion, a good family environment and good role models are essential for a child's development. Parents need to be good role models for their children in their words and deeds, and actively guide their children to develop positive and healthy habits and values, so as to help them create a better future.
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Parents always say that they are busy and have no time to spend with their children, which will affect their children's physical and mental health. In a family education, the father is the role model for the child. Moreover, the father's behavior will also affect the child's future, and the mother's personality and hope will also affect the child's character and personality.
If you want your child to be productive, parents must learn to build a good learning environment for their child. We can see that many parents do not spend much time with their parents, and sometimes there will be a phenomenon of one person in the house.
Children play their own, parents play their own, because a mobile phone does not communicate with each other and does not communicate. In fact, children at this time have already rejected their parents, because they have never enjoyed the company of their parents, so the relationship with their parents is not particularly good. They feel like the most familiar strangers in the world, so it can also be seen that we should devote most of our time to our children.
Parents don't want to lose their lives, but they also need to understand that their children can have a sound mind in a good family education, and more importantly, their lives will be more comprehensive. If parents educate their children wrongly and force their children to communicate. Don't tie your child down, and don't compress your child's growth.
Try to let the child decide on his own life direction, so that the child has a sound performance. Be cautious.
Give your child more care and don't always quarrel with your other half, this kind of education can make your child grow up healthily, and at the same time, it can also make your child physically and mentally healthy. We should educate our children positively, not negatively, and if the children's negative emotions become more and more, then the children will not be able to come out of this compressed emotion. Therefore, parents must learn to care for their children, pay more attention to their children's psychological problems, and communicate with their children in a timely manner if their children have abnormal behavior.
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Can't lead by example, strict with children, but loose to bury the key to treat themselves, often in front of the child noisy and fighting, often to the child to make money is not easy, ask the child to be sensible and not spend money.
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Parents often criticize their children, beat and scold their children, let them do things they don't like, swear in front of their children, and quarrel in front of their children.
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1. Excessive protection of children.
Some parents don't let their children do anything at all, this kind of behavior actually deprives their children of the opportunity to do things, will make the children have no chance to learn and Duan Lin, and it is also very difficult to learn to take care of themselves, and they will become a "lazy" child. As a result, children are away from home, and it is difficult to adapt to the collective life at school and work in the future.
2. Compare your child with someone else's child.
Parents will always say to their children, you see whose children are more sensible than you, better than you in learning, more polite than you, and so on. I want to use such words to motivate my child and make him motivated.
On the contrary, parents say this, which will only cause children to be stressed, lack self-confidence, and have low self-esteem.
3. Parents are very frugal and generous to their children.
Parents will always think that to love their children is to give them all the good things, and to buy whatever their children want. In fact, it is easy to cause children to learn to be extravagant, do not know how to return and give, and will only spend lavishly, without financial awareness.
4. Yelling in front of your child.
Whether in life or at work, everyone will always encounter pressure and dissatisfaction, as a parent, you must always pay attention to your emotions, do not transmit bad emotions to your children, and do not yell in front of your children to vent your emotions.
This will only cause negative emotions in the child, and will allow him to slowly learn to find fault with others' shortcomings, instead of looking at his own mistakes and learning the wrong way to deal with things.
5. Criticize children in public.
This can hurt the child's self-esteem, make the child feel inferior, and also affect the relationship between the parent and the child, so that the child cannot realize his mistake.
6. There is no concept of time, and things are procrastinated.
Many parents may not have a sense of time for a while because they are busy, and some of them are more procrastinating, which will make it easy for children to turn a blind eye to time, and do not have a correct understanding of punctuality, tardiness and other adverse events, and similar problems will easily occur in the future.
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First of all, parents often quarrel, which will lead to children's irritable personality, timidity, and low self-esteem. I don't dare to socialize with others, and I don't want to talk about marriage when I grow up. Secondly, if there are bad habits, such as gambling, alcoholism, not liking cleanliness, etc., the child will also be subtly affected and become a person with bad habits.
Wait a minute. Mindfulness.
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"Education should be early", we all know that children need to be educated, and only when children are taught can they know etiquette and shame, and study hard every day. Many parents think that education is the teacher's business, but it is notParents are always their children's first teachers, and there is no substitute for them. Parents are the first teachers of children, therefore, parents' words and deeds will have a very big impact on children, after knowing this, we must regulate our words and deeds in front of children, do not let children who are good at imitation, imitate our inappropriateness.
As a parent, you should be a benchmark for your child, let your child learn the good aspects, and then grow into a better and better child. And you should not "infect" some of your bad habits and so on to your children, so that your children can grow up under a very bad example. Your child's growth is irreversible, please give your child some positive examples.
Playing with mobile phonesWe all know that today's parents are all "low-headed people", when they go to work, they have to look at their mobile phones when they have time, and they have to play with their mobile phones when they eat lunch after work. When I go home at night, I also hold my mobile phone. In this way, parents are inseparable from mobile phones all the time, then, children will also have the same example, have a great interest in mobile phones, once the child is addicted to the mobile phone and can't extricate himself, do you think the child's learning and so on, will it be able to keep up?
Many. Fewer children become fans of small games because their parents like to play games, and then they are not interested in learning, and then they are not interested in interpersonal communication. After a long time, it is not easy for children to quit the addiction of playing with mobile phones!
If parents casually throw paper out of the window when driving, then the child will also learn from the same and feel that this behavior is not inappropriate. Children will develop the habit of throwing garbage wherever they go in their daily lives. Obviously, this is very unenvironmentally friendly and wrong!
ButIt's easy to learn, but it's hard to change, and as a parent, you still have to regulate your words and deeds.
Parents are their children's first teachers, don't let your children lose at the starting line!
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