Tangled, to leave or not to leave, what to do with the child?

Men in society are really cheap now、、、 with this and that: I'm really not satisfied、、、 but the child can file for divorce, if he doesn't want the child, he can take it away with him, and find another lover: there will be better men in the world 、、、

The in-laws are not bad, while the child is small, you will leave it to the in-laws to take care of first, you go out to earn some money, and when the child is older, you will take it over and raise it. Such a husband really can't count on anything.

As you can see from what you have said above, you are helpless. In your description, your husband is a very irresponsible person. You can see that you love your husband very much.

In fact, if you don't get divorced, you mean it's all because of the children. In fact, part of the reason is that you still love your husband. Reluctance to let go.

You two should calm down for a while. You find a quiet place to ignore your husband for a while and watch how your husband behaves. If you are pregnant, your husband will not change during this period of time.

Do you have to think about your future? It is a lot of courage for a woman to marry a man and have children. If a woman marries a man and can't see the future!

You're going to have to make a choice!

Now in this society, single mothers with children are getting married, so you will be happy.

But in the end, I still want to say to you: be careful about divorce! Oh, look at what you think yourself, indeed, why don't you leave?! It's you who can't bear it, and it's not that she can't give it up, and you owe her so much in the end.

If you want to be happy, you must first get rid of the pain, leave the child to hire a long-term nanny, responsible for educating the child to do housework, and then it depends on your fate, people must come out of the distress, no need to endure it anymore!

To leave or not to leave, it depends on what you plan to do if you leave, and what do you plan to do if you don't leave? If you are the same and not, then you really can't turn back if you leave.

Besides, child, it depends on where you put him, and if you expect to be born to improve your life, then you might as well beat it. If it's just a complex, plus you have the consciousness of raising a good child by yourself, then give birth, but you have to know that this road is not easy to walk.

In fact, what outsiders say can only give you a reference, and in the end, you have to make your own decision about what to really choose, and the road is walked out by people.

I'm right for you to leave, as a man I really despise him, don't leave now, you'll regret it later

There's nothing to worry about this, think about what you're living for, the path is your own choice, don't blame others.

Leave, it was because you were too soft-hearted that caused today's situation. As for the children, leave them to your parents-in-law for the time being, and discuss with them well, it is their son who is sorry for you, and that is also their grandson, they will treat him well. After you leave, find a job, give some child support to the second elder, and then bring your son to you when your conditions are a little better, and tell the second elder that the child will always know how good his grandparents are.

Happiness is your own, and children also need a beautiful environment.

Let's go, isn't it the same for a man like this, Your husband is the same as my father before, so that in the future, when your child grows up, he will take the child out of anger, If you love your child, Now the child is still young, you can get married, The child will not have many memories, Find a good man, treat you and your child well, You will be happy in the future, Shuyang's mother has been married three times, So a lot of things have been experienced, Auntie, I advise you, when you get married, you must see that the person is married, Be sure to be good to your child, I hope that Auntie will live a happy life in the future, and your baby will become more and more cute.

Your life is also bitter, you were too willful at the beginning.

Since you can't get by, of course you can choose to divorce, it's your right. Since you want to divorce and are reluctant to have children, there is only one solution, that is, the child is raised by you, and the boy will give the child support every month, and the specific amount of child support can be negotiated with the boy according to the normal consumption level in your area, if the negotiation cannot reach an agreement, the local people's court can sue and the people's court will make a judgment according to law. Under normal circumstances, maintenance can be paid until the child reaches the age of 18.

It is extremely inappropriate for couples to choose divorce at every turn. I think that you can choose not to divorce, what are the contradictions and holidays between husband and wife, you should sit down and communicate and exchange in depth, both sides put the problem on the table, calmly come up with a solution to the contradiction, in the communication, both sides have to suppress the anger, sometimes, the girl can let the boy, because the boy is the "pillar" of the family, he has to take on family responsibilities and social responsibilities, for these, the girl should understand him, even if he has done something wrong, as long as it is not a matter of principle, The girl has to forgive him. As the saying goes, no one is perfect.

In life, who doesn't have a little flaw? People are human beings, not gods, and if they can cultivate to the realm of gods, then they will not make mistakes. Industriousness and courage are the traditional virtues of Chinese women, and as a girl, you must follow this requirement and put your own actions into practice.

Every family has a scripture that is difficult to read. Since ancient times, it has been difficult for Qing officials to cut off family affairs. Husbands and wives live a life, bumps and bumps are common, some things should be passed, let him pass forever, don't hold grudges, let alone turn over old accounts as soon as they quarrel.

At home, there are some things that are not clear and confused, and when it is time to be confused, they are confused. I once told a friend that in life, suffering is a blessing, peace is a blessing, and confusion is a blessing. Ninja is at peace with himself, content and happy.

Although these are ordinary words, the philosophy in the words needs everyone to seriously understand it, and if they understand it thoroughly, how much less things will happen to society and family!

Then divorce, divorce in a peaceful form, good for the children, and both parties can be friends in the future.

A forbearant marriage is unhappy, and the child will not be happy in such a family, if it is really for the sake of the child, then you should be brave and leave this unhappy marriage.

I want to leave too, but my three children are still heartbroken tonight.

If you want to divorce and are reluctant to have children, you will strive for custody of your children.

The following measures can be taken to fight for custody:

Proof that you have been sterilized or have lost your childbearing capacity due to other reasons.

It is proved that the child has lived with him or her for a long time, and that changing the living environment is obviously detrimental to the healthy growth of the child.

Proof that you have no other children, and the other party has other children.

Ownership of custody.

Breastfeeding children or children under the age of two generally live with the mother, while the father is required to pay monthly child support in an amount agreed upon by the court or by mutual agreement. However, if the mother has one of the following circumstances, she can also live with the father:

1.Suffering from incurable infectious diseases or other serious diseases that are not suitable for living with children;

2.For other reasons, the child is truly unable to live with the mother;

3.has the conditions to support the child but does not fulfill the obligation to support the child, and the father requires the child to live with him;

4.If both parents agree that a child under the age of two years will live with the father and there is no adverse effect on the healthy development of the child;

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5.If the child is over 10 years old, the child's opinion should be taken into account;

6.The custody of children between the ages of 2 and 10 can be settled through negotiation between the parents. When no agreement can be reached, the people's court shall make a judgment based on the principle of being conducive to the child's growth and taking into account the specific circumstances of both parents;

7.The relationship between the parents and the child is not extinguished by the divorce of the parents. After the divorce, the child is still the child of both parents, regardless of whether the child is raised directly by the father or the mother; Moreover, parents still have the right and duty to raise and educate their children.

Or don't grieve yourself. Because if you are unhappy in this marriage, it will also affect your children unconsciously.

At this time, you should actively communicate with your children, and if the children agree to your divorce, then you are also responsible for the children.

Summary. Good afternoon, dear! My dear, if you have some setbacks in your relationship.

You can confide in me, don't hide all your troubles in your heart, even if you meet in the vast sea of people, even if you are fate. Don't get too lost in your relationship. You are always an individual.

You have to believe in yourself, it's the best.

What should I do if I want to divorce but can't bear to have children? But I can't get by.

Good afternoon, dear! My dear, if you touch Lao Pei and encounter some setbacks in your relationship. You can confide in me about Hanlu, don't hide all your troubles in your heart, and meet in the vast sea of people even if you are fate.

Don't get too lost in your relationship. You are always an individual. You have to believe in yourself, it's the best laugh.

Hello dear, if you want to divorce and are reluctant to have children, you can fight for custody of your children. The husband and wife really can't afford to be bored, and you are reluctant to have children, so you can fight for the custody of the children.

Because he has a tendency to be stupid and domestic violence, he has already slashed me, I take the child away and can't afford to raise it, I have to go to work, no one takes it, and people don't take it away from me, what should I do?

Did the man do anything to hurt you?

How old is your child?

A 10 a 7

They are both minors, who have the two children been with before?

It's always been him, and I'm paying for it.

Do the two children want to be with you or with their father? Did he have domestic violence against his children?

There is no domestic violence against the child, but the child does not want us to separate, but we quarrel every day, so it hurts the child even more.

The husband and wife are not in harmony, quarreling and scolding, in fact, it has a great impact on the children. Have you stopped the quarrel between your husbands? What is it because of?

Because he was always suspicious, he always suspected me of stealing people, and when he drank, he beat me and scolded me.

It is really not easy to form a family and have 2 children, in a sea full of people.

If there is a misunderstanding between the two sides, it is indeed very difficult to eliminate, have you thought about this rift, and if there is a chance to repair it, will you still want to repair it?

Hello, it is recommended to continue to live together or live together, if it is really impossible to reconcile and must be divorced, you can choose divorce by agreement or litigation divorce. Regardless of the type of divorce, you can fight for custody of your children.

First of all, the custody of the child belongs to both of you when you divorce, it is best to reach a consensus, and if the negotiation fails, the court can make a judgment.

Secondly, the court's judgment on custody is that, in principle, a child under the age of two years shall be raised by the mother, and a comprehensive judgment shall be made by considering the various circumstances of both parties in the case of two to eight years old. Children over the age of 8 will be respected.

Finally, based on past litigation experience, the main factors considered by the court when determining the ownership of child custody include the parents' financial ability, educational background, children's original living environment, grandparents' educational background and willingness to raise children.

On the whole, it is beneficial to the healthy physical and mental growth of the child as the general principle for determining the ownership of child custody.

Therefore, if you want to live with your children and obtain custody of your children, it is recommended to consult a professional marriage and family lawyer, who can make a comprehensive judgment according to your specific situation.

Legal basis. Article 1084 of the Civil Code: The relationship between parents and children shall not be extinguished by the divorce of the parents. After the divorce, the children are still the children of both parents, regardless of whether they are raised directly by the father or mother.

After divorce and marriage, parents still have the right and obligation to raise, educate and protect their children.

In the event of a divorce, children under the age of two shall be raised directly by their mothers. For children who have reached the age of two, and the parents fail to reach an agreement on the issue of child support, the people's court is to make a judgment based on the specific circumstances of both parties and in accordance with the principle of the best interests of the minor child. Where children have reached the age of 8, their true wishes shall be respected.

Excuse me, does he or she give you half of his or her monthly salary? Do children pick up and drop off from school? Is there a requirement to compare the rubber wax on weekdays?

Are there chores to be done? If the first one is done, make do with it......Then you change your mindset and let him go and let ......you goAs long as you take care of yourself every day, there is nothing you can't overcome.

The two communicated calmly, and indeed wanted to divorce, so discuss how to minimize the damage to the child! Then let's think about your divorce again.