What are the secrets to a long lasting marriage?

Understand romance and be polite.

Marriage needs a sense of ritual and needs to be kept fresh, and it is easy for the immutable marriage to come to an end, but what is not easy is the ever-changing, romantic little surprises that flash from time to time. It's not just holidays like Valentine's Day that can be solemn, but ordinary daily life needs a handful of bright roses and a small gift; If you are tired of eating home-cooked food, you need a gentle candlelight dinner. Relive the romance of the love time, the adrenaline is not the only one you who improve, the more fun life is, the happier the marriage will be.

The marriage of two people with the same hobbies and the same rhythm is the most healthy and long-lasting, and the best way to marry is to have the same heart and similar hobbies with the other half. Read books and newspapers together, enjoy the drama together, and enjoy the quiet years; Exercise and play together, drink tea together, and experience the stability of the present world. The two have close interests and hobbies, and they always don't worry about the topic running out, and they don't have to worry about losing their color in each other's hearts.

Some couples think that they are both married, so they don't talk about those sweet words anymore. In fact, in the process of running a marriage, sweet words are really important. Expressing love to each other plays a role in keeping the marriage fresh, don't be stingy with sweet words, and give more intimate actions such as hugs and kisses between husband and wife.

These expressions of love are actually a kind of accumulation, and the accumulation of love is to create an atmosphere of harmony and to enhance the relationship between husband and wife.

Keep it interesting, men can give more gifts to women, lipstick bags, and women can buy more erotic underwear.

Marriage is a compulsory course in life, and now the divorce rate is high, many young people are afraid of getting married, afraid of being hurt emotionally, and more and more people are cautious about the choice of marriage. Do you know why there are fewer couples who are happily married? From a metaphysical point of view, it is caused by the incompatibility of the husband and wife.

So, how can you keep your marriage stable and long-lasting? In fact, when choosing a spouse, marriage through numerology can avoid marital unhappiness at the source.

The eight characters of the husband and wife have the following characteristics:

First, the door is right.

In numerology, the two parties have similar eight-character patterns, and the family background of the husband and wife is similar when they are in love, which is what we call "the right match". Whether it is a man or a woman, as long as one party's family conditions are too superior, the other party will definitely have an inferiority complex, the stronger the inferiority complex, the more unable to tolerate the partner's correction and criticism, even if it is a very kind word, it may touch their fragile inferiority complex, thus becoming the fuse of the couple's quarrel.

Second, the level of education.

In numerology, Xingyao, who represents academics, plays a good role in the opponent's fate, and the two have similar educational levels. The thoughts of people are never the same, let alone unified, so the level of education cannot be too different. For example, one is highly educated, the other is a general education, the two brains will definitely be very different in their way of thinking, if one party is admitting death, then their union must be a daily quarrel and a meal.

3. Ideal goals.

People with the same God in the eight characters have the same ideals in life and a common goal, and husband and wife work together. If one party's ideal is to become a superior person, while the other party is to get by, have no goals, and do not want to pursue a better quality of life, such a couple is destined to have no common words, and the relationship will fade after a long time, and even quarrel because of different ideals.

Fourth, the mode of life.

The husband and wife in the eight characters have complementary attributes of yin and yang, have their own lifestyle, position themselves accurately, know what kind of life mode they want, and can understand and tolerate their spouses. Most of the people who can't complement each other are good-tempered before marriage, and they treat their other half in a way that is obedient and obedient, however, it is difficult to continue this kind of obedient temper after marriage.

Whether the husband and wife can hold hands for life, whether the relationship is strong, whether the relationship is close, whether the fate is deep, whether they can get along harmoniously for a long time, etc., depends on the fate of the husband and wife.

1. Sufficient economic foundation as support.

In this era, if you want to start a family, the condition that you must consider is undoubtedly money, which is not to say vanity and power, this is just one of the conditions for surviving in this society.

2. The character of both parties.

Marriage is a matter of two people, the most important thing for two people together is to be able to run in, if they can tolerate and understand each other, then it is possible to live, the man must have enough sense of responsibility to take on the whole family, and the woman must be tolerant and understanding, two people to manage the marriage together, in order to harvest a happy life.

3. Freshness will maintain the quality of the marriage.

Freshness is the most important thing in any situation, keep a proper distance, and give the other half a new experience every day, such as giving each other a little surprise every day, a flower, and a beautiful dinner.

4. The parents of the other half will not interfere too much.

The most breaking thing for a woman after getting married is to face the problem of her in-laws, for fear that her in-laws will not like it and make things difficult everywhere, which is the problem that women are most worried about. The conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has a great impact, and two people cannot understand each other, which is prone to many problems.

5. Whether a man has true love for you.

Whether a man has true love for you, whether he has a heart to play or really wants to live with you for a lifetime, you can see from the man's usual details and attitude towards you, whether he can tolerate you and tolerate you, if he is not sincere, don't get married.

6. Family atmosphere.

The family atmosphere of a family is too important, if the family is deserted, everyone does not talk, and everyone does their own things, the family will be very depressing after staying for a long time.

1.Respect each other: In a marriage, remember to respect each other, maintain a respectful attitude when together, listen to each other's feelings, and respect each other's views to create a good atmosphere.

2.Diligent care: take care of each other more, treat him as a good friend, care more, be more considerate, and express more love, so that both parties can be more compatible.

4.Communicate frequently: Be diligent in communicating and regularly agree to watch movies, cook food, or other activities together, which can make you closer to each other and allow you to communicate more with each other.

The most important factors in marriage are as follows.

Loyalty takes your whole life to realize, the promise you made before marriage, when you accept all the advantages of the other party, you must also accept all the shortcomings of the other party, and don't expect that the other party will change these shortcomings Over time, all the advantages of the other party are weakening, and all the shortcomings are increasing, this is the time to test your loyalty to marriage.

Responsibility is responsible for oneself, responsibility for each other, and responsibility for the family.

Thoughtful and optimistic attitude leads to positive and optimistic action, and the happiness of marriage comes from lasting compromise.

What do capable women never tell your husband to do, what do men never have to hand over to your wife?

Support to do what the other person can't do, do what the other person wants to do, and do what is helpful to the other person.

Trust is extremely important in any relationship, especially in marriage, without trust, once the relationship will not survive, let alone last.

Marriage is the union of two families, two cultures, the union of two families, not only the union of two people, the most important factor in marriage, the factor is loyalty, and the most important sign of loyalty is to spend a lifetime to fulfill the promise you make.

Marriage does not need to be maintained, and if it is maintained, then both parties will be very tired.

In married life, with the change of the environment we live in and the people we come into contact with, everyone's insight and cognition will change after a long time.

When we decided to marry this man at the age of 27, we fell in love with his talent, his appearance, his joy with you, and his .........dedication to youI feel that the men in the world are not as good as him in your eyes. After getting married, we will not only grow in age but also experience and insight, we will come into contact with men who are more talented, more handsome, more sweet-talking, and more attentive than him......And back then, the man who wanted to hold the hand of his son and grow old with his son, after entering the state of marriage, under various pressures, he lost his handsome face, no intentions, and no ...... freshnessThere will be boredom in the state of marriage, and more often we have to know that we don't forget our original intention, think about why we wanted to be with him without hesitation, and all problems will not be a problem.

I hope that in the days when you continue to work hard and improve, we can all meet people who are better than each other but still choose to be with each other.

Clause. 1. Husband and wife should communicate more.

If both husband and wife want to be long-term, it is important to communicate more, many couples quarrel because of poor communication, and communication causes less communication. As long as couples communicate more, there will be no unnecessary misunderstandings. Family matters should be decided after discussion, whether it's breakfast or bedtime at night, it's a good time to talk about things.

Don't keep the problem in your heart, and speak up for your own benefit and your family.

Clause. 2. Husband and wife tolerate and trust each other.

Learn to tolerate and trust the other person, not because the other person came home late, and don't be suspicious because the other person didn't show you your phone. Whether or not you accept the other person's trust, the other person will decide the time of marriage, maybe the other person has some bad habits that you can't stand, but you should help each other to correct them, don't always blame.

Clause. 3. Pay attention to the way you speak.

When many people are talking or arguing, when they are excited, they often don't know that they will cause harm to each other, so there is a lot of dissatisfaction between two people, even if the couple is very close, but pay attention when talking, don't be excited for a moment, and say something to attack and hurt each other.

Clause. Fourth, actively correct mistakes.

One of the things that couples need to know when they get along with each other is to correct their mistakes in time, because the other person is their own family, and there is no shame in admitting their mistakes in front of their family. Don't stick to it after knowing your mistakes, which is not conducive to the relationship between husband and wife. Of course, the other person should not pursue it after apologizing to himself, knowing that appropriate forgiveness will deepen the relationship.

Clause. 5. Remember some important anniversaries.

Women will remember memorable days, while men may forget, which can be noted down in mobile phone memos. Prepare a small gift for each other every anniversary, don't be too valuable, just be attentive.

Clause. 6. Cultivate common hobbies between husband and wife.

If couples have common hobbies, there is an opportunity to discuss them with each other. Couples should not always talk about heavy topics, such as houses and children, etc., but discover some common ground, have a little common hobbies, so that they can get closer to each other.

Clause. 7. Give each other independent space.

Everyone has their own friends, and although they are husband and wife, it is not necessary to completely occupy each other's lives, and giving each other some personal space is more conducive to improving the relationship between husband and wife.

In short, if husband and wife want to maintain a long-term relationship, they must learn how to get along with husband and wife, and the long-term relationship between husband and wife needs to be maintained by both parties, so that the marriage can last longer.