What should we do if the child holds the pen in the wrong posture and does not listen to it if it is

Every time I accompany my child to do homework, what I am most afraid of is not that the child can't do it, but that I have been working hard all night and being called back by the teacher and asked to redo it. Why would you ask for a redo? The handwriting is so poor that people can't understand what is written in it.

Therefore, words must not only be recognized, but also written, which is a great challenge for children.

When it comes to the cultivation of children's writing ability, most people may think of preparing paper and pens for children, buying study tables and eye protection lamps, and starting to teach or correct children's pen holding posture.

In the eyes of most parents, writing means writing, and writing with the correct posture.

Of course, this is true, but is writing just about copying Chinese characters? Or do we train children to write, just let them write?

(1) What is the purpose of writing?

Writing is a form of expression in which children can express their thoughts in writing, or by reading and sharing their records in a way that others help to record.

(2) What is the instrument of writing?

Writing requires the help of tools, but that doesn't mean you have to use pen and paper to write. Using other recording tools, such as computers, is actually considered writing.

(3) What is the form of writing

Whether the child is scribbling or consciously scribbling, from copying to inventing words that others can't understand, even if it is crooked, it is the child's writing.

I remember that when my children participated in English training, most of them were old children, and each of them had a portfolio, which the teacher called a "big book".

What is the "Big Book"?

It is equivalent to a large textbook, which is full of all kinds of interesting expressions, such as hand-drawn drawings, paper cuts, newspapers and magazines, and letters written by the children themselves.

The teacher in the class is more responsible and warm-hearted. The children will be taken to read their works together, the children will also communicate and share with each other, and more importantly, each child will take the time to constantly enrich and improve their "big book".

Whether it is the step-by-step standard pen holding posture of the "Eight Methods of Holding the Pen", or the use of a rubber band to simply restrain the pen holding, it takes a process, and the correct method will gradually form a habit in about 21 days.

The best way to do this is to talk to the teacher, as most children will be willing to listen to what the teacher says. If the teacher corrects and instructs him in his pencil grip knowledge, he will generally listen carefully to the opinion. Actively correct it.

I think you can show your child how to hold a pen properly by showing them how to hold a pen properly.

This does not need to be compulsory, he must have a proper posture of holding the pen, as long as he writes comfortably and writes beautifully.

At this time, you should encourage your child and be patient.

If you don't have the patience to teach your child to hold the pen correctly, you can give him a pen gripper, which is now on sale, just buy it and let the child use it.

Parents should personally demonstrate the correct way to their children, and they can also hold their children's hands and help them correct them.

If the posture of holding the pen is not right, teachers and parents should adjust it so that the child can master the correct way to write.

1.Consult a teacher. If the child is holding the pen in the wrong position, parents can discuss and communicate with the teacher.

Let the teacher also follow the parents to help the child correct the wrong posture of holding the first stroke of the wheel. Parents can only control the pen holding posture of their children doing homework at home, while teachers can stare at the posture of holding the pen when the child is in class. Relatively speaking, children spend a lot more time writing at school, and teachers are used as assistants to help parents work together to help children change the wrong pen holding posture, which is a little more effective.

2.Communicate with your child. Parents should communicate in a timely manner to explain the importance of holding the pen, so that the child instinctively hopes to correct the wrong pen holding posture.

3.Parents can also work with their children to learn the correct posture of holding a pen. The child's wrong pen grip may also come from the parents, so when the child holds the pen in the wrong position, parents should first check whether their pen grip is correct.

If the parent's pen grip is also wrong, you can take the initiative to invite the child to learn the correct pen grip posture together. Wrong pen holding gestures can lead to poor sitting posture, distorted hands, deformed bones, easy fatigue during writing, slow homework, and weakened self-confidence. Therefore, parents should pay attention to the issue of their children's pen holding posture.

The correct posture of holding the pen can save a lot of effort and improve the child's writing speed. Therefore, parents must pay attention to the child's pen holding posture, and if they find that the child's pen holding posture is wrong, parents should teach the child. So how should parents teach their children how to hold a pen?

If your child does not know the correct pen grip posture, then the child will use the wrong pen grip position to write, and it will take a lot of effort to make the fingers grind by the pen when writing. The posture of holding the pen is very incorrect, so it often grinds the fingers, so that the fingers bulge out a big bag, and the pen is not good when writing, so that the strokes of each word are particularly ugly. Therefore, parents must demonstrate in person, the reason why the pen holding posture allows children to learn such a pen holding posture, so that the child can write beautiful words, and can also improve the child's writing speed.

Writing speed is very important, if the child's writing speed is too slow, it is possible to not finish the test paper, especially the Chinese test paper, which needs to be written, so the child must improve his writing speed, so that he can complete the test paper within the specified time. Parents can learn how to hold a pen on the Internet, so that their children can hand it over to their children.

Children's comprehension ability is not very good, so when parents are in the teacher's school, children may not be able to learn, at this time parents can decompose the pen holding posture and draw into a stick figure, so that children can follow the stick figure to learn. For example, children may not know how to put each finger when holding the pen, at this time the child can follow the stick figure to learn, and can master the correct posture of holding the pen. Parents can also take a pen holding posture into a **, and children follow a**.

Parents should communicate and communicate with their children to let them learn the correct posture of holding the pen, and set an example to encourage the child to learn the correct posture of holding the pen.

Parents should tell their children how to do it and show them themselves so that they can get a particularly correct posture.

Parents should teach their children by hand, let them observe the situation of holding the pen, let the child understand the concept of holding the pen, and then change the posture of the child holding the pen.

When the baby begins to hold the pen and write, he will have such and such an incorrect posture. Even if adults teach hand-in-hand, individual babies still have a left hand to hold the pen, or hold the pen tightly with their fingers, hold the pen too upward and so on, these are the baby's bad posture when holding the pen at the beginning. Some parents will begin to patiently educate and guide the baby to hold the pen correctly, but when they find that the baby is taught again and again, they will lose their temper, which is not right.

It will make the baby resistant. Every baby in contact with new things and things is a learning process, to slowly guide them, some parents will buy some wide Wang calendar pen for the baby, it is recommended that parents should not prepare these for the baby. Because the age of the baby holding the pen is not the same, some of the baby's hand muscles are not well developed, and the pen is not very standard, and it will be naturally corrected as the baby grows older.

Some babies have fixed the posture of holding the pen, you can use some external force to correct it, with a rubber band can be put into the thumb, index finger and middle finger close to the root. Insert the top of the pen from the lower part of the rubber band on the upper part of the hand, just press the rubber band below after stretching out, and turn the tip of the pen down 180 degrees, the top of the upper pen just picks up the rubber band below, and hold the pen for a while.

Many parents are very concerned about their children's academic performance and good handwriting, but they do not pay attention to their children's posture of holding a pen, which can easily lead to poor handwriting and even myopia. If the child's posture is not right, parents should correct the child in time. First of all, we should tell the child the importance of holding the pen correctly and the harm of holding the pen by mistake, so that the child wants to learn the correct posture of holding the pen from the heart; Secondly, parents should set an example, teach their children the correct posture of holding the pen, and supervise their children when they are writing homework.