How do you skillfully resolve the awkwardness in your life?

Self-blackening. It takes courage and open-mindedness to be silent, and it takes courage and open-mindedness to blacken yourself, not everyone can do it, but if you can do it, you can ensure that your embarrassment is resolved without a trace. Tell a little joke.

When you are embarrassed, the atmosphere is usually tense, and at this time, a proper little joke can adjust the atmosphere well and resolve the embarrassment. I usually need to stock up on a little joke.

Tell the truth. People tend to make mistakes when they are highly stressed, especially in public or important occasions, such as company meetings, public speeches, etc. At this time, if you really make a mistake and are really embarrassed, it is better to directly say that you are too nervous and made a mistake, I believe everyone can understand, and the embarrassment will be resolved naturally.

A piece of text. Many times there is a feeling of "silence is better than sound here", especially in a quiet environment or an awkward atmosphere, at this time it is more appropriate to use a text to express your thoughts, a sticky note, a WeChat, a message can be a good way to convey information and resolve embarrassment.

I waited for the bus that day and didn't wear glasses. Slowly drove a nine-way, sat a girl by the window, playing with her mobile phone. I didn't see it clearly at the time, thinking it was a friend, so I sneaked over and snatched her phone from the window.

Then, I realized that I had recognized the wrong person. But I had already snatched the phone, and the girl looked at me through the window with a surprised expression. So I glanced at my phone and then at the girl and said

Do you apply a film.

I met my best friend at the elevator entrance of the university, and she was having an awkward relationship with the male ticket. The elevator opened and we all squeezed in. The girlfriend angrily turned around and shouted at the male ticket:

Missing! Hum! Then she said calmly in front of the embarrassment of an elevator

Well! Don't disperse! Instantly admired this man's wit.

I had a young love in high school, and one day my parents went out and didn't come home at night, so I decided to bring my boyfriend home. However, when I opened the door and saw my mother sitting on the sofa, I turned my head and said to my boyfriend, "It's okay to put the watermelon here, thank you, brother."

He immediately understood, and after putting down the watermelon, he said stubbornly: "Sister, I won't give it away next time I buy so little." Then my mom looked at him leisurely and said, "

Yo, now the little brothers who sell watermelons are so handsome.

I went to my uncle's shop to help during the holidays, and my uncle asked me to wipe the plaque in the store. I was a little obsessive-compulsive, and I rubbed it too hard and carefully, and the plaque actually fell in half on the ground. Fortunately, my brother has seen the world, turned around calmly, smoked a cigarette, handed it to the stunned uncle-in-law and said

Uncle, this is a good sign, a good sign to open a branch.

There is a certain effect, but it is not absolute, especially when it is so embarrassing that it is ugly.

Yes, live your life open-mindedly.

Yes, sometimes the scene is quite embarrassing, and a few humorous words are used to relieve the anger.

It is often difficult for a person to deal with embarrassing things, and I suggest not to resolve them directly, it will be worse! Laugh!

If you don't care, you won't be embarrassed, and the more you care, the more embarrassed you feel.

Isn't it embarrassing to face it calmly? It has a lot to do with your own mentality.

To resolve the embarrassment, I think it is just not to mention this embarrassing matter, let time dilute this matter.

If you want to spend money embarrassingly, I think it's still more difficult, since it's embarrassing, I don't think it matters, anyway, everyone is embarrassed.

I think sometimes it's hard to get rid of the embarrassment, you can change the subject, it should be a little better.

Any origin has an inevitable result, so why fall into this cycle of entanglement and suffering? Although emotional matters are involuntary, your love is not wrong.

How to resolve embarrassment, everyone has a different method, mainly depends on emotional intelligence, the higher the emotional intelligence, the easier it can be resolved.

Sometimes not talking is a great way to defuse the embarrassment, or to do nothing.

If you want to resolve the awkward realm, you have to change the subject, bypass the topic, and move on to something else.

One is to change the subject. When we perceive that the topic of the people around us is starting to develop in a direction that is not good for us, in order to avoid embarrassment, we can take the initiative to direct the topic to other aspects that everyone is interested in.

The second is to make a disclosure in advance. If this embarrassing thing is unavoidable, then we can also give others a "preventive shot" before the embarrassment occurs, so as to reduce the possible embarrassment.

The third is to pretend not to know and pretend to be calm. When encountering embarrassment, it is also a good way to reduce embarrassment by "fooling around".

Fourth, humorous response. Personally, I think humor is the best way to resolve embarrassment, and it can even change the way others evaluate us, but this method requires a certain degree of adaptability.

Fifth, self-deprecation. When you are embarrassed, you might as well try to take the initiative to point out your mistakes or ridicule yourself, and giving yourself a step down will often ease the atmosphere a lot.

Sixth, apologize. Honestly apologizing to the other person for the embarrassment caused by your own mistakes and asking for forgiveness can sometimes have the same effect.

You can find a new topic and forget about it.

When encountering embarrassing scenes in communication, it is very important and valuable to judge the situation, accurately grasp the psychology of both parties, and then use speaking skills to come forward in time to play a round with the help of just the right words, resolve the embarrassment, and maintain the normal progress of communication activities, which is very important and valuable, and it is indeed very necessary and worthy of attention. If you want to play a round successfully, you can be flexible according to the actual situation, or use humorous words to change the topic and create a relaxed atmosphere; or refers to the reasonableness of the views of all parties, emphasizing that the embarrassing event has its reasonableness; It is also possible to deliberately distort the meaning of the other party's words and make an interpretation that is acceptable to both parties; It is also possible to affirm the reasonableness of the views of both sides and find a solution acceptable to both sides.

1. Change the topic and create a relaxed atmosphere.

In a communicative situation, if a more serious and sensitive issue makes both parties in the conversation very antagonistic, or even hinders the normal and smooth flow of the conversation, we can temporarily let it be avoided for a while, by changing the topic, using some light-hearted and pleasant topics to enliven the atmosphere and divert the attention of both parties, or through humorous words to dilute the serious topic, so as to reactivate the original stalemate scene, so as to alleviate the awkward situation. If friends are fighting over a certain issue, and there is a stalemate, you can say in a timely manner, "It is more difficult to fight for this problem than for the national football team to win"; Or a joke that calms the emotions of both parties, makes the embarrassment disappear in a relaxed atmosphere, and allows the social activity to go smoothly.

Sometimes, when people quarrel endlessly because of their stubbornness, the reason why it is difficult to ease the stalemate is often not the views of both sides themselves, but the winning mood and competition psychology of each other. In fact, the views on a certain issue itself are often not fixed and unchanging, with the change of the environment and the shift of perspectives, different and even opposing views may be reasonable and correct, therefore, we should grasp this point when playing a round, help the two sides of the dispute to look at the point of dispute from a different angle, analyze the problem flexibly, so that they can realize the relativity and inclusiveness of each other's views, so that the two sides can stop meaningless arguments.

2. Make an excuse to give the other party a step.

The reason why some people get stuck in social activities is often because they act inappropriately or unconscionably on a particular occasion, which further causes the whole situation to be awkward and embarrassing. In such a situation, the most effective way to play a round is to change the angle or find an excuse to prove that the other party's unreasonable behavior is justified, understandable and reasonable in this situation, so that the other party's embarrassment can be relieved and the normal interpersonal relationship can continue.

1. You can blush, but you can't panic

Calm down, calm down. When embarrassment suddenly appears, although an instant blush is inevitable, you must not panic. That is not only helpful, but also easy to make others feel cowardly.

2. Don't defend easily, the sooner you admit your mistakes, the easier it is to be forgiven.

3. Have the courage to self-deprecating:

Since the embarrassing situation is inevitable, we should show enough courage to face the reality, and even challenge the embarrassment directly.

4. Pretending to be stupid and stunned, putting the visible dilemma in the invisible ignorance;

Although we don't really have to be fools, what's the harm of using some special methods to get out of trouble in special situations?

5. Evacuate the scene quickly;

If you can't afford to hide, thirty-six strategies are the best policy. If you really don't have the courage and ability to deal with the awkwardness, your best bet is to evacuate the scene as quickly as possible. For those who are naturally timid and fearful but extremely sensitive, it is a wonderful trick to anticipate the possibility of embarrassment in advance or to leave as soon as the slightest sign of embarrassment occurs.

Awkward scenes in life will inevitably be encountered, so if you want to alleviate the awkward scenes in life, you can read more funny books to make yourself special and have fun to prevent embarrassing scenes from happening in the future.

The best way to do this is to divert from the topic, because the best way to divert the awkward thing is to divert the topic because of something. In this way, you will feel better, and then you can calmly resolve the embarrassment.

It is inevitable to encounter all kinds of embarrassing scenes in life, and at this time, you need to have a cheerful friend, or your own personality is cheerful, so that you can adjust this embarrassing scene in time.

Smile and silence are two sharp weapons, they can cope with all difficulties, smile, can solve troubles to offset embarrassment, silence, can avoid trouble, avoid embarrassment, sometimes let a let can resolve the embarrassing scenes in life.

Sometimes it is very simple to resolve an embarrassing scene, say a word to break this embarrassment or smile, or laugh and break this embarrassment, it is also very good, see what scene and what method is used.

There are many embarrassing scenes in life, after living for so many years, I have also encountered a lot of embarrassing scenes, and now I can do it without blushing and heartbeat, everyone has embarrassing scenes, but after a while, everyone will forget about him, in fact, don't care too much.

It's a good idea to admit that you're feeling embarrassed, and when you accept your embarrassment, your body will no longer feel tense and your mind will no longer stiffen, so that you can continue to interact with the people around you.

This requires some of your own emotional intelligence to resolve the crisis for you, if your emotional intelligence is very high, then you can easily resolve these very embarrassing scenes, I think emotional intelligence is very important.

Everyone should have encountered a scene in life that makes them feel very embarrassed, and I think that if you are angry at this time, it will make the people around you feel very embarrassed, and it is better to laugh and use a joking tone to make others feel very relaxed.

A casual little joke. Appropriate jokes can always effectively alleviate the awkward atmosphere, when you are reading something, accidentally mispronounce, you can laugh and say that you are old, and your eyes are disobedient. Of course, the joke should also be consistent with the occasion at the time, otherwise it will backfire.