Why do boys always emphasize that it s not fun, but they are cold to me?

1.When you're sad.

When falling in love, a man accompanies a woman to eat, go shopping, watch a movie, and the woman is immersed in the sweet hometown of love, which is naturally very happy, but a person will always have joys, sorrows, and sorrows, when a woman is sad, you want to see him, chat, and discuss solutions, but he only hurriedly said in **, "Solve your own affairs by yourself, don't trouble me!" "He is so indifferent to you because he doesn't want your negative emotions to pass on to him, and he doesn't want to be responsible for you, of course, he is indifferent to you at this time, and even wants to get as far away from you as possible.

2.When something happens to your family.

When something happens in your house, the man who immediately comes to you desperately must be a man who is serious about you, and he has already treated your family as his own. When He Fanxing's father was lost, Yuan Song accompanied He Fanxing's brother He Canyang to find it for a night, and after Fanxing's father came back, Yuan Song was happy in his heart and left without saying a word.

If something happens to your family like this, a man who is more anxious than you is really sincere to you and treats your family as his own family, which means that he wants to marry you and go home, so he will treat you so sincerely, afraid that you will be sad, afraid that you will be in a hurry, he will try to help you solve the affairs of the family, such a dedicated man, don't miss it.

But if he just plays with you, then he doesn't care about your family, because in his heart, your family is a stranger to him, of course he is very indifferent, such a person should not waste his beautiful youth.

3.When you're unemployed.

When you work smoothly, he is by your side, you often take turns to treat each other to dinner, when you are unemployed, when you feel that the future is hopeless, he also leaves, you send a WeChat message to tell him that you are sad, ask him to come out for a drink, he just silently replied "Sorry, I'm going to sleep." "Because in his eyes, you have nothing, you are not worth his pay, and you will not give him anything in return, such a selfish person is not worth a girl's family.

Uncle Love's conclusion: A man "snubs" you on these 3 things, which means that he doesn't love you, a scumbag! If a woman can find her own wishful husband, it is of course the happiest thing, the current mention is that this man is not a scumbag, he is a person who treats you sincerely, so you must keep your eyes open when you look at a man, don't worry, and get along with each other for enough time, so that you can know whether he really loves you, or just playing, this is the most important thing.

He is not necessarily cold to you, it may be because he is busy with work, or because he is a straight man at all, so he will feel cold when he speaks, in fact, he does not know how to express his emotions.

This situation may be caused by the other person's personality problems.

Isn't it that you've been together for too long?

There are many possible reasons for this, and here are some of the common ones:

The other person has a new interest or a more familiar friend: A guy may discover a new interest or other friends that are more familiar to them after a while, which may alienate them.

Uncomfortable or awkward: Guys may feel uncomfortable or awkward, which may cause them to deliberately avoid you if your interaction or atmosphere becomes too intimate or awkward.

Misinterpreting your intentions or feelings: Guys may misinterpret your intentions or emotions and think that you are not interested in them or do not like them, which may make them cold.

The other person doesn't want to be too close to you or develop a relationship: Guys may realize that they have a special affection for you, but for various reasons, they don't want to be too close or develop a relationship with you, which may cause them to deliberately avoid you.

The above are just some of the common situations, and the specific situation needs to be analyzed and understood according to the specific situation. If you want to know the specific reason, it is best to talk directly and communicate with the other party, and listen to the other party's thoughts and opinions.

Maybe Pai Chang is indifferent to you because he was injured, right? It's not a joke, he may have faced the experience of others having fun with him, so he will have this situation, right?

Why is the boy always strong and sullen is not a casual play, but it is very light to me, when I think if the boy treats you like this, he must not be particularly interested in you just to play with Mingbi, although he said so on the surface.

It may be that the boy's shirt is weak.

Obviously he's just playing.

But he deliberately emphasized that it was not a joke.

It's to make you believe in Him.

It also makes you feel that he is a very responsible person.

In your subconscious, it also causes you to form a loss of lead.

He is genuine to you.

Instead of playing.

Don't contact him too often, work hard to earn money.

But in fact, it's also a sign of not loving enough.