The main responsibility for the generation gap lies with the children

To put it simply, stubbornness, only caring about one's own feelings, lack of fairness, and trust lead to a generation gap.

Let's illustrate with an example.

Children are teased by their parents and relatives, tossed by teachers and classmates in elementary school, and when they return home, they are threatened, abused, and even violently treated by their parents.

In junior high school, I was withdrawn and autistic, and it was rare to ask my parents for help, but I was downplayed by my parents, in short, there was no real meaning to help my children.

Later the relationship deteriorated more and more, the mind could not communicate, and the child became more and more distrustful of the premise of his parents.

One day, the parents were willing to talk, but it was not easy for the parents, and after a few days, they began to be threatened, abused and even violent by the parents, just because the parents did not agree with the child's words and deeds.

Or expect the child's mental illness to say that there is no none, after all, parents as adults can do it, threaten and abuse the child, turn their head and sing and dance, so can the child do it? I can't do it, and how can I change my mental illness all the time, and how can I change it when I am threatened and abused by my parents?

This is a generational gap reason.

But it also includes what I said at the beginning, stubbornness, only caring about one's own feelings, and lack of fairness and trust.

This aspect of the problem is easy to solve.

Father and daughter communicate well.

There will always be a solution.

Not every father.

And my daughter ** is so old.

In fact, the father still loves his children.

Anything will be solved by more communication.

1. Compared with individual citizens, the law is mature, is it true that when you have a disagreement with the law, the responsibility must be in the law, it is obvious that your logic is wrong. (There is also a disagreement, which means that parents are still immature in the relationship with their children) 2, first of all, ask the other party to make it clear that parents do not dominate the emotional problems with their children, and the parents' contribution is unimaginable for children. Second, our parents are indeed the dominant in the economy, but I just want to ask the other party, you have a discordant relationship with the boss who gave you money, do you still have your boss responsible?

It's no wonder your boss doesn't fire you. Of course, your parents won't blame you for being so rude, because they are emotionally vulnerable. 3. Can you please ask the opponent to look at the problem from the perspective of development?

When our parents were children, at least 30 years ago, in the early days of reform and opening up, right? How much significance do you think the experience of being a child in the early days of reform and opening up is still relevant to today's children? 4. You say that parents have strong thinking and wide knowledge, and we do not deny it, but this does not mean that parents must have unlimited tolerance for their children's unreasonable troubles.

So it's still the son who is primarily responsible. 5. Parents have plenty of time? Don't they need to work?

Do you think that their economic dominance fell from the sky? In terms of time, children have more time, and learning is not only about cultural subjects, but also about interpersonal communication. Your question shows that children should be mainly responsible for the generation gap.

Classmates, I just want to say that my seniors have always said that the questions I think are too simple, and now I feel that these questions are too naïve.