Why don t many college boys chase girls anymore?

For this question, I asked many college male classmates around me, they said that love is a cost and a price, you need to pay time, money and energy, and whether you can get a return is not necessarily, in this fast-paced era, so to speak, there are very few love for the purpose of marriage, and the return that can be obtained is also minimal, so most of the current college boys do not believe in love, so they don't chase girls, they feel that it is better to play games with that time and energy, Falling in love now is a waste of time to support someone else's wife.

1.Making excessive demandsBecause girls are prone to excessive demands, girls nowadays like to dress up, like food, like dressing, and want to live a delicate life, most of them are made by boys, and sometimes the cost will be very large to meet the needs of girls. If it is not reached, the boy is embarrassed to break up with the girl directly.

2.Busy with studyingSome boys don't fall in love on the grounds of studying, and feel that chasing girls is a waste of time. I am worried that I will not be able to keep up with my studies, which will affect my academic performance and I will not be able to graduate.

So, give up chasing girls, focus on your studies by yourself, and it's not too late to chase girls when you graduate.

3.Don't dare to take the initiativeWhen boys see girls dressed up beautifully and have good-looking outfits, it makes people feel like they want to chase after them. However, I was afraid of being rejected by the girl, so I felt embarrassed and had to miss the good opportunity.

It's not that they don't chase, it's that girls are too demanding, living in an ideal world, always thinking about Prince Charming, Gao Fushuai finds himself or looks cold and looks like a living person don't bother, plus the explosion of the second dimension now, it's not fragrant for boys to guard their wives in the dormitory.

In the 42 years of the college entrance examination, in English listening, women have invited men to go out 18 times, and men have agreed 18 times.

The man invited the woman to go out 44 times, and the woman agreed 0 times.

It's too tiring to chase girls, but it's still the easiest for yourself.

Personally, why don't college boys chase girls? The reason is actually quite realistic.

Reason 1: The economic conditions are relatively poor, staying in the dormitory is the most "money-saving" college students dare not fall in love, the most fundamental reason is that they are really "poor", not all college students are rich second generation, the monthly living expenses can reach several thousand, and most students' living expenses are only one or two thousand, but now it costs money to do anything, whether male or female, this money may not even be enough to spend. Boys staying in the dormitory is the most money-saving, whether it is playing games or studying, they don't need to spend too much money, but if they go out with their girlfriends, even if it is an AA system, it will cost two or three hundred yuan to go out once, which is already half a month's food expenses for college students.

Reason 2: Girls in real life break the fantasies of boys When I was a child, everyone would fantasize about the male gods and girls in their minds. Especially now many boys like to meet new friends on the Internet, everyone on the Internet is beautiful and handsome, but in real life, everyone's eyes are likely to be repelled by the "netizens" in front of them, so many boys prefer to brush the ** of Internet beauties.

Reason 3: Study pressure, no time to fall in love Now college is gradually becoming more and more busy, especially for those college students, it is not easy to graduate, and the daily study pressure is not as good as high school, in this case, many college students actually have no time to fall in love.

Solution. College students want to constantly improve themselves, but the method is actually very simple. That is to put in the effort and the real clan to dismantle the action, whether it is actively joining the party, or taking various certificates, these will help their future to a certain extent, but the most important thing for students is to learn their professional knowledge first, if they can get a certain scholarship is the best.

In addition, reading more books can help college students broaden their minds, whether it is celebrity biographies, history, science books, psychology books are very meaningful and valuable, in short, to find the books they are interested in, it is also very important to develop a good reading habit.

Why haven't I seen a guy who doesn't chase a girl? That's a very real reason.

First: the economic situation is not good, the reason why the college students who stay in the dormitory are the most "money-saving" are reluctant to fall in love is mainly because they are too "poor", the living expenses of college students are only a few thousand yuan, and the pocket money of most students is only one or two thousand yuan, but whether it is a man or a woman, this money is not enough. Boys live in the dormitory, the cheapest is to play games and study, and if you go out with your girlfriend, even if it is AA system, it will cost two or three hundred yuan, which is equivalent to the living expenses of a college student.

Reason 2: Girls in reality will shatter the dreams of men's imaginary wheels, in their childhood, everyone will have a good impression of their idols and girls, and in their imagination, girls are so cute and gentle, but in reality, she will make everyone's dreams shattered. Especially recently, many boys like to make friends online, and there are beautiful and handsome guys on the Internet, but in the real world, they will be scared away by these "netizens", so most boys will go to see those beautiful women's **.

Third: academic tension, no time to fall in love, today's college life is getting busier and busier, especially college students, their academic pressure is not greater than in high school, so many college students don't even have time to fall in love.

Answer. There is actually a very simple way for college students to continuously improve their abilities. If you want to become an excellent scholar, the first thing to do is to go through your own efforts and practice, such as joining the party, such as getting various certificates, but for a student who is in trouble with a quick reputation, the first thing to do is to learn your professional knowledge well, and it is best to get some scholarships.

In addition, reading more books can also broaden their horizons, whether it is history, history, science, psychology, it is very valuable, so if you want to find a book you like, cultivate your own good habits.

Because college boys focus on their studies, college boys don't chase girls, which doesn't mean that all Yamato boys don't chase girls, and there are individual college boys who pursue the girls they like.

College male cheaters Fan Sheng may not pursue girls because he doesn't dare, he doesn't think it's good to rent hail, or he doesn't miss it, and he may also feel that he is not suitable for falling in love at this stage.

How can it be that the boys in the Qing school don't chase the girls, I think everyone's life trajectory and life rhythm are different, some are game-oriented, some are study-oriented, and some are mainly in love.

It may be that college boys feel that they are still young, and it is better to fall in love after the work has stabilized.

I'm sure I can't take it.

Maybe he didn't meet the one who made him excited.

If you meet someone you like very much, you will naturally chase it. Think about dressing up.

I am sensible in college, career-oriented, as long as I progress in my studies, there will naturally be love in the future.

I think most of the boys are still chasing girls.

Probably. College boys.

There is no girl you like.

Or during the study period.

Don't want to fall in love.

Wait a minute. So don't chase girls.

The reason why this situation occurs is because they feel that the process of pursuing girls is relatively hard, so it is easy to appear

The reason why college boys don't chase girls, you can directly communicate with this boy.

Maybe it's because the circles are different, I feel that the boys at that time were not facing some love in the future, but should be some motivation for their own hard work.

How could it be, there are still more men chasing women.

Boys who don't chase girls may want to learn knowledge, lay a good foundation in life, and wait until graduation to solve personal problems.

There are many reasons for this. Because the cost of living is also limited, I don't want to have too many expenses. Then there is the last point, which is why boys would rather watch dramas in the dormitory than chase girls, or go on dates with girls, that is, it is too expensive.

If you find a girlfriend, you may spend more places, such as eating, watching movies, buying gifts, etc., so you don't want to spend too much, so you will naturally choose to be an otaku.

Only when you fall in love in college, college life can be considered perfect, which is a sentence often said by many seniors, and will also be recognized by many students, who believe that only when you fall in love during college can college life be considered perfect.

But what I want to tell you is that falling in love in college may only be a part of your college life, but it will not enrich your college life, and it will even be counterproductive, so you need to be cautious in love.

So on the college campus, there are actually many things worth doing for you, which are much more important than falling in love, and falling in love can only mean that you have one or more relationship experiences, but this does not become a reason for you to be admitted to the company. What companies pay more attention to is the improvement of your own abilities during your college years, so students need to shift their focus to studying, rather than falling in love.

Because the boys were sensible during college, they felt that their careers were successful. Girls will naturally take the initiative to chase him, or if they excel in their studies, girls will prefer boys. So it's better for them to concentrate on their studies.

Because they are unwilling to choose to give, or are unwilling to choose to do such a thing, it mainly depends on the main thing they are doing, which is particularly tiring and hard.

This is not necessarily, some boys chase girls, some girls chase boys, this is everyone's situation is different.

It may be that these boys are shy, or they are not confident or good at taking the initiative, or they may be academically oriented.

The reason why this situation occurs is because they feel that chasing girls requires a lot of work and feels very hard.

Now college students fall in love is different from the past, the current cost of love is a bit high, and many boys feel that the economic conditions can't bear it, so they automatically give up on love.

At present, girls pay great attention to the sense of ceremony, all kinds of festivals to ask for gifts, and constantly invite to eat and watch movies, and now the price is also high, and it costs at least one or two thousand yuan a month to fall in love. That's a lot of money for most families.

1. Boys don't have the courage to pursue college girls. College girls are more independent, have their own ideas, and are not easily impressed by boys, and boys are afraid of failure, so they dare not pursue. 2. Boys are worried about rejection.

College girls are more confident and are not easily confused by boys, while boys are afraid of rejection, so they dare not pursue them. 3. Boys are worried about being compared. College girls are more confident and are not easily confused by boys, while boys are afraid of being compared, so they dare not pursue.

4. Boys are worried about being abandoned. College girls are more independent, have their own ideas, and are not easily convinced by boys, and boys are afraid of being abandoned, so they dare not pursue them.

"Kind, quiet, simple, down-to-earth, and good-looking, these are the advantages that I think I have" It is very good to be able to see my own advantages and give affirmation; But you yourself said that this is your "self-considered advantage", which means that this is only yourself in your eyes, but you don't know yourself in the eyes of others, this is one of your troubles, maybe you will ask the reason in **? In your own description, "you are very introverted, you are not very good at communicating and expressing yourself, and you are not very good at getting along with boys", these will affect your performance when communicating with others, if you are with someone who has nothing to talk to, you will feel uncomfortable, of course, others will also feel this way, so a vicious circle.

How to change like there is a saying on the first floor that is true, maybe you have a little low self-esteem, you can find a set of self-confidence tests on the Internet to do it, and then insist on self-confidence training.

There are many places on the university campus that allow you to change your personality, depending on whether you grasp it, such as joining a club and applying for management, self-recommending to do a class job in the next semester, forcing yourself to do something, creating opportunities to communicate with others, paying attention to your words and deeds when communicating with others, you can prepare some topics to talk about in advance for the people you want to meet, and if you communicate with others more, you will slowly find that you can too.

There is another point to say, (usually see that people who are not as good as themselves have objects, and my heart is very uncomfortable,) It can be seen from the description in parentheses that you are eager for love, maybe you see many friends around you in your life have the care and care of your boyfriend, so you are very eager to have a boyfriend who cares about yourself and loves yourself, but you have to know that love is not what you want to have, and you must treat love with a normal heart, otherwise your love road will be very tortuous.