What are the major illusions in the relationship that are best seen as soon as possible?

First, don't think that he looks at you more, chats with you a few more times, and then concludes that he likes you, and judging whether a person likes you in the relationship depends on the action, which is similar to the performance between friends, which is not love at all.

There are three big illusions in the relationship, it is best to see it clearly as soon as possible, one feels that two people are separated because they have no fate, the second is that the future is long, and the third love is destined and needs to go with the flow.

If you feel that the other party likes you, if you feel that you are better, the other party will like you, and when you get married, you will get better.

The first illusion is that love is destined and needs to be taken naturally, the second illusion is that the relationship ends without illness because there is no fate, and the third illusion is that the future will be long.

Thinking that the other party likes themselves, giving up as soon as possible in this case is just deceiving themselves, there is no need, the sooner you see clearly, you can get rid as soon as possible.

In the process of falling in love, we will always think that the other party loves us very much, we will always think that we can have no reservations with each other, and we will always think that the other party will not hurt us, but in the end, we often let ourselves be bruised.

It feels like being in love, because of the love over time, it's true. And to say that it is an illusion, because this relationship cannot withstand the test of reality, and when you see the light, you are easy to die.

Everyone understands that love is born over time, ordinary people, after a long time, care accumulates over time, isn't that what is a feeling? Especially men and women of appropriate age, have you eaten, cold or cold, I miss you a lot, what is this not a man and woman in love? At least, that's how some of the parties feel.

A female friend of mine once met one on the Internet, and at first she was joking and amused, and she was willing to talk when she saw that he was humorous. chatted and chatted, said some ambiguous words, and then unconsciously the title also changed, and the relationship became closer. She knew there was an age gap between the two, but the feeling was sweet.

Wake up early to say hello, greet after work, and chat between drives. That southerner, who sang well, often drove to sing to her. You say, what is this called love?

By the way, he went to a class reunion and passed by a friend's hometown, and they said that they would return to ** together in the future. And so on and so forth.

But can such a thing see the light of day? They met later. talked a lot, and it was a tacit understanding. But you know, it didn't take long for it to be gone. Therefore, after all, it is the illusion of laughter, and the feeling is life, and the most trembling town can have an ending.

So, is there a channel chat that talks about real feelings? Absolutely! There are no absolutes in the world, I also have a friend who has been married for many years, and it was chatted online, not only in love, but also from the initial chat. Then it's not an illusion, it's true love.

There is another situation, if you don't talk about chatting in reality, you can say that the online chatting has a strong concealment, and it will inevitably bring some kind of deception. You are not sure whether you are a man, a woman, a woman, or a woman, so your "love" is largely an illusion.

I advise friends, let's go to reality to find true love!

If you want to judge whether a relationship is an illusion or true love for yourself, I personally think that such feelings should not only be thought and measured by your own simple cover, but also depend on the other party's attitude towards yourself, because feelings are not a person's thing, only when the other party has the same good impression of themselves, and also makes the same amount of trouble to appreciate themselves, and cares about their own burial, then such feelings can be truly established. This kind of relationship is really meaningful and valuable for two people.