My daughter is too naughty and ignorant at the age of 9, and my son is also like my sister at the ag

When the child is in the rebellious period, parents need to correctly recognize the child's rebellious psychology, try to maintain a balanced mentality and communicate with the child, try to respect the child's wishes, not be too verbose, give the child his own free space, care more and guide more, but can not point fingers.

Even if there is a lot of rebellion, there is always a reason for it, and parents need to understand the motivation behind their rebellion so that they can better communicate with their children. At this time, parents should respect their children, do not laugh at their ideas and thinking, but try to treat them as equals, do not overdo it as a parent, but care more about the psychological changes of children, but make them have a sense of belonging and take the initiative to help in life. At this age, it is also the time when they have their own little secrets, and parents should give them relative freedom and not blindly try to control them.

Communicate more with your child, don't use corporal punishment, the more you scold her, the more disobedient she is, communicate with her in another way, talk to her more, do things right or not, no, say well, yes, and praise appropriately.

Communicate with your child and don't criticize her.

Communicate with him more and get to know some of his thoughts.

1. Be calm in the face of your child's crying child. Most of the irrepressible crying scenes are deliberately created by the child for his doting parents and other sympathizers. Therefore, parents who treat crying children with a calm attitude will make children feel unreasonable and restrain their behavior.

If the parents are at a loss and will only coax him, it will make the child feel that his crying is effective and encourage his willfulness.

2. Accommodating the child's excessive requirements will make the child more willful.

3. When children make unreasonable demands, parents should resolutely refuse. Parents should be persistent in their children, and if they are strict and pampered, they will lose their achievements.

4. Be resolute and decisive in stopping children's willfulness. Don't give your child any hope. A resolute attitude does not mean that it is simple and rude, nor does it mean that it threatens the child. While taking a resolute attitude, we must pay attention to ways and methods.

5. Parents begging their children to be obedient can only make their children weak and bullied. And thus even more disobedient.

6. Find out the reasons for the child's willfulness, which will help to change the willfulness in a targeted manner.

7. Both parents should have the same attitude towards their children. It is difficult for a child to know which of his behaviors and requirements are unreasonable and incorrect, and to think that all his wishes should be satisfied, so as to lay the foundation for the formation of his willful habits.

It is his nature for a child to be naughty like this, he can understand the words, communicate with him more, the child is very obedient, if you are coquettish with her, he will feel that you are the best with him, and he will change little by little, don't always say her, so that he will feel that you don't like him, the child thinks differently from us, communicate with her.

Children are meant to be coaxed, and if you are not naughty children, will you like it...

A smart sign, it will slowly change when you go to school.

What should I do if my child doesn't like to learn?

When I was nine years old, I didn't like to study.

What kid doesn't love to play?

Primary school grades really don't matter.

However, the habit needs to be changed, and it is really not good to write homework while watching TV, giving her a special time to watch TV. Giving him dedicated time to do his homework should not deprive him of his freedom to play.

If you don't do your homework first, you can't watch TV.

You may have ADHD, so go to the neurology department of the hospital for a check-up!