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In this society composed of people, everyone will have words and interests in their own interactions, and in this, there will inevitably be some misunderstandings. If the two parties who have a misunderstanding do not have the slightest basis of trust, then the misunderstanding will always be a misunderstanding, and there will never be an almost possibility of being solved.
And in our hearts, we have an urgent hope for the trust in each other and the resolution of misunderstandings, and at this time, there are two ways to do it.
The first way is to speak with facts, to believe that actions are always more powerful than words, no matter how much you say, it is better to do a good job in a down-to-earth manner, prove with actions, speak with facts, often is the best basis.
If the misunderstanding is caused by one thing, then the misunderstanding will be solved, the contradiction will be resolved naturally, and trust will start anew.
The second way is to make yourself stronger, so strong that you can't tolerate the misunderstandings and contradictions of several classes apart.
The reason why you need the trust of others is because you are in the same class, and you need to make him believe in you so that you can live better in this class with him.
But if one day, there are several classes between you and him, whether he believes it or not, whether it is misunderstood, it will not affect you at all, and you don't even need them to believe you, because their trust is something that you don't need at all.
It's like in a very large group, the leader at the top doesn't care whether an employee during the probationary period has doubts about one of his decisions, and he doesn't have to think about what to do if the new employee doesn't believe in his management ability.
Only when a person has enough strength can he do it, as long as he has a clear conscience, he does not need to explain much to others.
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I'll be silent when no one believes me, and since no one believes me, it's useless to talk more, so it's better to take a break.
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If it were me, I would use practical actions to make them believe what I said, which is that actions speak louder than words!
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Don't explain, it doesn't matter, start work!
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It is easy to trust others, which means that your life experience is still comparative.
Smooth, gentle, family and friends are good, give you enough.
Enough security, that's a good thing. But if it's right.
Everyone and everything believe without judgment, then you ask.
The problem is a lack of judgment.
Why is it so easy to believe? Except for the lack of experience.
Most of the reason is laziness – too lazy to think and judge.
Don't expect to grow old and change without putting in the effort.
Be smart, don't expect yourself to suddenly open your mind one day, or.
Those who have been deceived because of losses will not be able to, because.
That way you just know that gullibility is not good, but for mentioning.
High judgment is not helpful, and it is still not possible to encounter problems in the future.
If you know how to distinguish it, you will still fall into the ditch. What's more.
From believing unreservedly to believing nothing, walking.
The other extreme.
Fortunately, judgment can also be learned through exercise, off.
The key point is not to be lazy, to be attentive, to think, the process will be.
Very long, if your purpose is to become a sane one.
People, then there is no shortcut, learn to understand people, reason.
Understand society, understand the logic of your organization's operation, these.
It's all mutually reinforcing.
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It depends on your age, you can understand it under 20 years old, and if you are over 30 years old, you have some problems yourself, and you will naturally understand more things when you get older. When you were young, you believed in others too much because you were simple, and it was not your fault
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You have too little experience, maybe you are very calm with people in your heart, and you also want others to believe what you say, when someone wrongs you or doubts your words, it is a blow to you, and then it will change your current mentality!
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In fact, there is sometimes only a thin line between being honest and being stupid. I believe that you don't doubt others because you are kind, but others may not think so. The so-called desire to harm others is indispensable, and the desire to prevent others is indispensable.
In the future, when you meet someone else to speak, if there is something important, think about it more, don't express it at once or accept it completely. As long as you are not stupid and think about it, you will know that what others say is true or false. But don't think too badly of others, after all, there are still many sincere people.
I hope you can be a little more mature and customer service this problem.
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Actually, don't worry, this just shows that you are a very kind-hearted person, but you also have to pay attention to what kind of person you are, there are always people who will not lie to you.
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When others speak, think more in your heart, and then speak. Don't trust others, only parents can be trusted.
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You have to study more, read more books and read more newspapers, otherwise you will have no common sense to judge, of course, you will believe what others say.
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This needs to be solved by yourself, fooled in order to grow...
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Simple, don't talk to people.
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You just don't have your own opinions.
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If a person says that you don't trust him enough, then their relationship has changed at this time, and there is no need to trust each other. And don't mention the past again.
First of all, if two people are boyfriend and girlfriend, and then they have broken up, there is no need to have too much to do with him at this time. Because this will affect each other's feelings, as well as the attitude of two people towards this relationship, if two people still want to get back together, they must get back together as soon as possible.
Second, if two people are just ordinary friends, there is no need to say that you believe in one person too much, and then you can also say that you believe that you can't eat it, but you still have to focus on practical actions. Because it was because I believed in him too much before, it would have some bad consequences, or put myself in a passive position.
Third, trust is also measured, and trust also requires two people to maintain more frequent contact and understanding. Only with enough understanding, and then enough contact time, can you trust each other, and you will not trust each other for no reason.
In the end, you can also say that I don't believe in you, but you also don't trust me, it's all mutual, everybody is right. And there is no right or wrong in this, everyone's trust is based on understanding each other, and it is based on a relatively stable relationship between two people.
Like me in a relationship, I still trust each other more, and if I break up, I won't trust each other. Because after a breakup, even ordinary friends are not counted, how can they meet the standard of trust, so there is no premise of trust.
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If a person says that you don't believe him, you can tell him what I don't deserve to be believed and then engage in ** with him, so that you can make you more convincing, and he will believe you.
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Rhetorical question: Do you believe me? Trust is mutual, sincere.
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Then try to prove the credibility of what you say The premise is that you can't lie to yourself Otherwise, deceiving others will only be a temporary success Girls will generally say that they don't believe it, but in their hearts they hope that you like him.
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It depends on the specific situation, if it's a good friend of yours, you really believe him to explain it, otherwise it's just a smile.
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Trust is not spoken, money is outside the body, cherish the people in front of you.
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Summary. Beloved, when others do not believe in your abilities, we should say this: I live for myself, and I am not for others.
Beloved, when others do not believe in your abilities, we should say this: I live for myself, and I am not for others.
My dear, when we encounter others who question our abilities, we must strive to show our strength, so that the other party can see our efforts, we are in the hail of life, we must also hope to be affirmed by others, but when we encounter no potato circle affirmation, we should not be discouraged, we must adjust our mentality, because our life is for ourselves, do not lose our confidence for others, we must improve our spirits, let ourselves live a more wonderful life, This is the best <> life for yourself
My dear, the above is mine, I hope Gao Sakura can help you, do you have any other questions? Feel free to consult me, I wish you a happy life, and a happy day every day
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Tell lies. The man himself will certainly not believe it, unless he stays! The person who tells a lie does not take others for fools, he takes advantage of the asymmetry of information, caters to people's curiosity, follows the herd's heart, does not understand the things or things that people care about, and seems that people are eager to understand or solve the emotions, and fabricates deceptive and acceptable suggestive language or relevant examples to cater to the needs of everyone!
And the biggest characteristic of these words or examples in their expression is that they are plausible and ambiguous, so as to achieve the purpose of telling lies. For example, in many health supplements for the elderly in terms of publicity, sales. Another example is that many people use housing for the elderly.
aspects of ** and so on.
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Nowadays, whether online or in real life, there are indeed many opinions that are unbelievable, but they themselves can't believe it. The reason why they do this is to be different, to attract attention and earn traffic, or for their own or small group interests, such as around pure water, or mineral water? Is Chinese medicine or Western medicine better?
There is also the current world situation, there are various opinions, and many people deliberately create extreme views in order to increase their traffic or followers. Now I read all kinds of ** and online news, and I don't know what to eat, drink, or do after reading too much? In this regard, the relevant departments of the state should establish an authoritative information channel so that everyone can understand the truly correct viewpoint, and at the same time crack down on those who talk nonsense.
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Some people don't even believe in themselves, because he always uses some unrealistic reasons to anesthetize himself, he is unwilling to face reality, if he faces reality, he will be very painful, and he thinks that others will approve of him.
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Because such a person often lies, says something insincere and deceives, and after a long time, even he himself is numb and does not believe in himself.
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What he says is always lying to others, and there are many nonsense. So he didn't believe it himself.
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It shows that this person is running a train with his mouth, and he will subconsciously say something that he doesn't believe, and he doesn't think about it without thinking about it.
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Some people talk nonsense, speak without going through the brain and even lie repeatedly, he doesn't believe this kind of speech, it is impossible to make others believe in himself, unless he meets a stupid big man.
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Because he himself knows that he is lying, so he doesn't believe it himself, this kind of question means that he is lying?
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It shows that he is a whimsical person, and he doesn't believe what he says.
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This is because he has no faith in himself, he does not believe in himself.
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That is the duplicity and nonsense of the parties who have no sense of responsibility to themselves and others!
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Maybe that thing was outrageous and strange, so he felt that he couldn't believe it!
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If there is such a person, he must not have thought through his brain, and he has forgotten what he said or what he said.
There are even some people who are there to say big things.
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This kind of person is good at lying, telling the truth as false, and the false as true, I think this kind of person is a master of lying.
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Such words are usually said by him unconsciously or inadvertently.
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Because sometimes speaking is just about getting there!
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Some people, they take others for fools, and they can't even convince themselves what they say, as if they say that others want to be happy, and others don't think about it.
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There are a lot of people like to make things up in society, and in the end they can't justify themselves, they just say what they want to say, they seem to have the ability, but they are mistaken by the cleverness.
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I used to think that I could hold hands all the way like this, but let go and realized that everything is just the accidental intersection of two parallel lines, and when everything disappears, the parallel lines are still parallel, even if they are not far apart
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is very good-looking, and has a prosperous face, it should be quite happy to find a husband. Hope mine is helpful to you.
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Because he himself knows that it is a lie, and nine out of ten sentences are a lie, that is, this kind of person.
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Summary. Dear, hello, I'm happy to answer for you, what to do when others don't believe you, you should communicate, and use integrity to gain the trust of others! In interpersonal communication, everyone does not know each other at first, so they naturally do not trust each other, but with the deepening of communication, after understanding, they can naturally establish trust when they can become friends!
Therefore, since others do not trust themselves, then continue to associate with them, understand each other, impress each other with integrity, and mutual trust is established!
Dear, you believe in the sedan chair, I am happy to answer for you, what to do when others do not believe you, you should communicate, and use integrity to gain the trust of others! In interpersonal communication, everyone didn't know each other at first, so they naturally didn't trust each other, but as the communication deepened, after understanding, the conversation that could become friends naturally established trust! Therefore, since others don't trust themselves, then continue to interact with them, understand each other, impress each other with integrity, and mutual trust is established!
What should you do when the people around you don't trust you anymore? At this time, don't care too much about the thoughts of the people around you, because they don't trust you anymore, and you can't do anything about it. And use your own actions to change their perception of you, which is the most effective.
You can't control other people's thoughts, you can't change other people's thoughts, but you can change your behavior and make yourself more successful. You can do something that you have always wanted to do before, but have never had the opportunity to do in the world. Be sure to answer that you have done it, don't let yourself regret it, and you can also show it to those and let them know that they should be impressed by the three days.
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