People I like keep ignoring my messages, what should I do?

Updated on psychology 2024-04-19
7 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    It's a beautiful thing to like someone, they give you a goal to pursue, and you are immersed in joy every day. His every move touches your heart and moves you. But if he doesn't like you, then your liking will become a nuisance to others and a burden to others.

    The person you like always ignores your messages, it is possible that he is usually very busy and cannot reply to your messages in time, and it is already late when he sees the messages later, so he does not reply to you. I'm sometimes like this, I don't reply to my friend's message in time, and I find that it's been a long time since I haven't replied to him, and he's used to me like this. Don't think about it yourself, if he really has something, there is nothing he can do if he can't reply to your message.

    It's useless to think too much, it's better to wait for him to reply to your message, I know you'll be in a hurry when you wait, but there's no way who calls you like people. Don't send him too many messages, or he'll get annoyed. Give yourself a little more patience, and you will gain more.

    There is also a possibility that he doesn't want to reply to you, and when he sees your message, he doesn't reply, which means that he doesn't mean anything to you at all, and he doesn't even want to be perfunctory. I feel sorry for you, but if you like others, others don't necessarily like you, liking is a matter of mutual affection, and it's useless to force others. In this case, you have to be self-aware, don't keep messaging him, sending him will only make him more and more annoyed with you, and in more serious cases, he will hate you more and more, let alone like you.

    You have to mediate your emotions well, if you work hard, but he doesn't like you anyway, you still choose to give up, so that you can find your happiness as soon as possible.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    In the face of the person you like, you definitely want to have endless words with each other and be together all the time. But just because you think this way doesn't mean that the other party thinks the same way. Sometimes I send a message with great expectations, but the other party delays or ignores my message, which makes me very painful.

    First of all, we should put our mindset right. Although it makes me very unhappy that others don't reply to messages, it is also a normal thing. Maybe the other party has something important to deal with right now.

    The other party is also a human being, and there are many things to deal with every day, so it's impossible to keep an eye on your own news all the time. We should give the other person enough personal time, and when the other person has taken care of all the personal matters, there may be time to talk to us.

    Then, while waiting, find something to do yourself. Many people often just wait and wait for the other person to reply to their messages when chatting. But the waiting time is very boring and boring, and many people are easy to think cranky at this time.

    Therefore, in the process of waiting, we can find something to do appropriately, and then turn up the volume of the mobile phone, so that even if there is information, we can receive it as soon as possible.

    Secondly, if it is a very important matter, then you can choose to play **. Maybe the other person is doing something, and it's easy to ignore the information on the phone. Then playing ** is the best choice, the sound of ** is definitely much louder than the sound of information, and there is often vibration, which is easy for people to find.

    Finally, if the other party doesn't reply to your messages, then don't send them again. If you keep posting it, it will often make the other party feel that she is very mortal, but it will cause the other party to be disgusted. We should "do it in moderation" and go with the flow.

    If you can get it, try to fight for it, and if you can't get it, let it go as soon as possible.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    You can try to give him a **, or go a step further and invite him directly to dinner with a movie.

    There are only two reasons why the other person ignores your message, either they are not interested in the content of your message, or they are not interested in you as a person.

    If you want to improve the content of your message, you need to know about his life, his circle, ask your greetings at the right time, and find topics that interest both of you. In fact, two people don't have to bother to find a topic to communicate, they can do it naturally. It's okay to talk about some ordinary parents, or strange things that happened in the unit, or not big or small news that happened to friends around you.

    If he is not interested in you as a person, then all the messages you send him are harassing messages, it is better to turn a simple voice and text message into a ** or a meeting, from passively waiting for a reply to taking the initiative, looking forward to the process of contact with you, he can find the highlights in you.

    If a person really doesn't even bother to reply to your messages, then it means that he is either busy and has no time, or his phone is not around and he doesn't see it. The worst-case scenario is that he's chatting with someone and just doesn't want to respond to your messages. In that case, let's not wait stupidly.

    Because no matter how interesting the topic we find, it is not interesting to him. We can only bring shame upon ourselves.

    In such a situation, we need to be strong. Since you don't take the initiative to contact me, or even reply to my message to contact you, well, I will never take the initiative to contact you again. Since you think I'm bothering you by talking to you, well, let's not bother each other.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    The person you like is not necessarily the person who likes you, and we are the most powerless in the face of feelings. There's nothing we can do, we can do it, I like you, it doesn't have much to do with you. He always ignores your news, and maybe in his mind, you are still not important enough, compared to many other things, I think so.

    First of all, I think that no matter what others do to you, there should be a place for you to attract people you like. There are also excellent points. I think a person should make yourself better whether you have a person to pursue or not, or whether you have someone you like or not.

    Excellent people are together, and you are more outstanding, which means that you will have more capital and ability to meet more excellent people in the future. There is such a passage that says this. I worked hard and worked hard to make money so that one day I would meet someone I liked, whether he was rich or nothing.

    I could embrace him with all my heart and open my arms. This is the meaning of a person who likes another person, who is so motivated, and who makes himself better. Only if you become better, the people you like will naturally be impressed by you, and this kind of thing will not happen.

    Secondly, I think it's a beautiful thing to like someone. If you don't get the favor of others, it may be because of your personality and other incompatibility. There's no need to get yourself into trouble, just get on with your life.

    What others do is someone else's business, and what you do is related to your own feelings and experiences.

    Finally, I think you can tell him that as a friend, you shouldn't ignore news or anything like that. Still needs a little respect.

    In short, it is to make yourself better and better, and to bear loneliness when it is time to bear loneliness.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I'm ready to give up on him, the boy I like is really nice, but he's also very fond of ignoring my messages. The messages I sent before the National Day have not been answered to me until now. I know it's just that I like him, he doesn't like me, but he should reply to my message, it's basic politeness, and my message is absolutely free of any ambiguous words.

    It's normal communication between friends. It won't affect his life and his girlfriend's life. And I also have no idea to spoil between them.

    I'm ready to delete it. For a while, I changed his note to no name, hoping that he wouldn't have a name so that I could forget him when he changed his name. But he failed because he posted ** with his girlfriend.,Recently, I always want to delete him.。

    Sometimes I am reluctant to delete the interface. Maybe you can't get it and want to give it up, because you can't let it go if you don't have it. That's what I think, he's right, there is no pure friendship between men and women at all, one doesn't say it when it's killed, and the other doesn't recognize it if it's dead or alive.

    I didn't like that, so I'm sure I'm going to get rid of him.

    It's hard to forget someone, but it's a sticking point if they don't like you. It's good that you want to open this point. If he likes you but also ignores your information, that is that he doesn't like you very much, and really likes someone, your phone is willing to turn on for him 24 hours a day, in case something happens, he can't find you.

    If you forget to reply to your message because of a moment of busyness, you will definitely reply to you as soon as you see it.

    Love is always very much the one who loves is hurt, and the one who is loved enjoys all the favor, so let your heart listen to whether he really loves you, whether you want to continue, ask your heart clearly will give you the answer, time will prove whether this person is worthy of your love, and it is not very difficult for you to give up on him.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Then choose not to like that person anymore, this person doesn't value you.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    This shows that the other party has something to hide from you, and you should make it clear to the other party, so that the other party can understand your feelings, and it will be okay to see the point.

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