In the process of educating children, should there be more poetry and distance or more down to earth

I think that in the process of educating children, not only must children see poetry and distance, but also be more down-to-earth, and the two must be balanced. Poetry and distance can make children's vision more long-term, with lofty ideals and ambitions. But if you only have poetry and distance in your eyes, then you will eventually cause yourself to be unrealistic and ungrounded in your attitude towards life.

Therefore, we should also let our children get in touch with life in a down-to-earth manner, learn more about the actual life, and make them more grounded.

Many parents think that there is nothing wrong with a bad habit in front of their children, but children do not have the ability to distinguish between good and bad, they will only think that as long as parents do what they do right, they can learn, so parents should also pay attention to their words and deeds. It's called grounding. Of course, while being down-to-earth, we should also pay attention to the cultivation of children's poetry and distant places, and at the same time help children establish correct values, so that children can have their own dreams that they can chase when they grow up, or places they yearn for, so that children will not be easily confused.

Children are psychologically immature at this stage, and teaching them is still based on reality. We must let them understand that everything we give them as parents is made up of our blood and sweat, and let them cherish their living environment to study hard and understand us as parents. Such children will have a successful future, and poetry and distance are things they can only think about in the future.

I think it should be more down-to-earth. The child is still young, talking too much about poetry and distant children still can't understand that deep meaning, it will only add pressure to the child, the child's childhood should be carefree and free, and should not be affected too much.

I think the best way to educate a child is to cultivate his concept of poetry and distant life, if he just looks at real life for a while, then the child will be short-sighted in the future, only by cultivating his child into a person with ideals and pursuits, then his future life must be very outstanding.

My point is to be down-to-earth. People still have to rely on practical things to live, firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar, tea are indispensable, poetry and distance can be used as a spiritual improvement, and the material has reached the problem of food and clothing and then consider the problem of poetry and distance. If you can't solve the problem of food and clothing, everything is empty talk ......

Let's be down-to-earth, although many people love poetry and distance now, but how many people have done it, so we still have to be realistic, start with the grounded, and let him slowly understand poetry and distance when he grows up, because most poems and distances appear in the chicken soup for the soul ......

The most important thing in educating children is that parents teach by example and lead by example, and the most taboo is that parents say one thing and do another, just talk about the truth. Life must be more than what is in front of you, there are also poems and distances, but if parents only have what is in front of them, it is not good for their children to tell the truth of poetry and distance, not to mention that children are wise. It is very important to educate children, and it is even more important for parents to educate themselves first.

In educating children, we must not fight every mistake, which will only make children fail to recognize their mistakes. But if you only reason every time, your child will not listen. Therefore, we can develop a system of rewards and punishments, and let children know what is right and what is wrong through rewards and punishments.