Why do people become decadent when they stay at home?

I don't know what to do at home, I get bored all day, and gradually, I feel depressed, I don't interest in anything, I don't go out, I don't exercise, and I naturally become decadent.

I think I'm this kind of person, if I stay at home, I don't even want to comb my hair every day, and I have to deal with meals, and that's how I usually do at home on weekends.

Once I get to work, I wake up early, get dressed up, and if I do a good job, I'm very happy and feel like a useful person. It's also a pleasure to chat with colleagues and say that you are happy and unhappy.

It's easy to do nothing, and then find something boring to do, so it's decadent

Because I'm too idle, I don't touch things outside.

If you don't know why you're alive and have nothing to do all day, you're going to feel decadent.

Because you're so idle, find something you love to do!

It's not because of the problem at home, but the decadence in your heart.

If no one cares, if there is no restraint, you will indulge yourself.

First of all, thank you very much for the question provided by this Taoist friend, of course, people are social people, if you stay at home alone, then you are either crazy or become a saint. Of course, the chance of becoming a saint is very, very small, so it is best not to stay at home alone, but to go out and see the scenery outside, broaden your horizons, increase your knowledge, and enrich your experience, so that your life will become more and more beautiful, more and more bright and not decadent.

Don't stay at home, it's a terrible thing to stay at home, if you're a writer, it's fine, but if you keep playing games or doing other meaningless things, then it's really decadent.

So the suggestion is to go out and do something meaningful, you can see the scenery, make friends, or even go to a different place to eat their food.

It may be because you have low self-consciousness, you don't live your own life seriously, and you always want to live a lazy life. Short-term decadence is necessary, but don't be decadent at home all the time, after a period of work, study, you can rest at home for a while, as decadent as you can be, but if you become very decadent in your own home, then it is very bad for your life development, and a lot of time will be wasted.

Hello! You can start by asking yourself a few questions, why are you alive? Who is it for?

What is the value of being alive and what is the point? Do you live on your own or on your family? What are your ideals?

Who is the family living for? Then give answers to these questions, and then think about these answers, maybe you will not be decadent, and you will have the momentum to move forward.

Order takeout, you can buy Braille or something to practice calligraphy at home; Or games with knowledge and skills to play on your mobile phone (what idioms solitaire, poetry and songs, Sudoku, etc.).

Why don't you go out for a walk, you will get sick if you stay at home for a long time.

Are you not going to school or not going to work, find something to do.

Who says young people have to go to work these days? Will you be decadent if you don't go to work? Many people go to work and don't see any growth, and they are still decadent.

Decadence is not decadent and has nothing to do with not going to work.

It's the age of the internet, and many people don't go out to work and still earn money at home.

Decadence is a state of mind, self-discipline, and self-abandonment.

Externally, it looks like I went out to work, and I was required by the unit to commute to and from work on time, and maybe I was asked to work overtime by the unit. If you don't discipline yourself, you can't do anything, and you will be forced by the outside.

But there are also many people who feel uncomfortable because of this external compulsion, and will keep quitting their jobs, changing jobs, and finally choosing to do nothing. This kind of talent is a decadent and unmotivated person.

Many people still wake up on time every day at home, eat on time, sleep, work, and have a very regular schedule. Can you say that this kind of person is called decadent because he doesn't go out to work?

Nowadays, young people have a phenomenon of decadence and laziness, not going to work, although people are adults, but their minds are still not adults, lying at home as giant babies. The reverse deduction does not hold, not going to work does not mean decadence, because now that you don't go to work, you can still choose to make money by freelancing at home.

If you don't go to work when you're decadent, you really need to think about the kind of people who want to gnaw at home and eat the old, what is the purpose of your life? Is it just to drag down the parents for a lifetime? Just to be able to eat and drink, to be a "plant" person?

It's decadent to stay home alone, yes. I'm just going to answer the question after I've been decadent for a long time. The reason for this problem may be that there is no one to take care of when you are at home.

It's very likely that you're at home with nothing to do, or there's no rush to do it, and then there's no one to restrain you, and no one knows what you're doing. So I really wanted to be a little lazy, and then I was lazy for a long, long time.

Being alone at home may also have many goals. For example, "I want to read", "I want to study", "I want to complete this task", but people just can't move. In fact, sometimes there is a kind of external pressure to do things.

If your parents are there or someone else is there, you may want to give others a better impression, but no one cares about you at home, and you don't want to move, so you will be decadent if you are not careful. And the time of idleness is always so fast. In the morning, I wanted to sleep a little longer and then get up, but it was 12 o'clock; I wanted to finish watching this episode of the TV series before doing things, but I accidentally watched four, five or six episodes.

Just pamper yourself like this, little by little, it will get dark, and the day will pass again.

Of course, there are exceptions to this kind of thing for the strong-willed. If there is a homework that needs to be completed immediately, a firm goal, and something that must be done, then a person will not be decadent at home. So in the final analysis, in addition to the external reasons that no one cares and you can do whatever you want, there is actually a reason why your goals are not firm enough and your self-control is not strong enough.

If you can study and work and act immediately, then you will not be decadent at home. In fact, if you are decadent at home and don't want to move, you can do housework, tidy up things, and see the neat and tidy appearance after tidying up will make you feel much better, and once you move, it will be much easier to do things.

Because I don't have high requirements for myself, if I have requirements for myself at any time, I will definitely pay attention to my image at any time!

Maybe you just want to take off your disguise, because you have to maintain your image at all times when you are outside, and when you finally return home, you want to relax, so you take off your disguise, which is different from usual!

Let's do it sooner. If you play, eat, eat and sleep every day, you will definitely be decadent.

Have a plan every day, plan slowly, and you won't be decadent.

In fact, staying at home is in a state of relaxation.