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Even if the three views do not agree, it is possible to be together forever. But the premise is what each other can give and how much they can give. As long as you are willing to make enough efforts, being together and always together is achievable.
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Many people love someone by mistake because they are lonely, but many more people are lonely all their lives because they love someone by mistake. Love makes a person strong, but it also makes a person weak. Some of the mistakes that have been made are because they are too late, some are because they are deliberately evasive, and more often they are standing aside in a daze.
We get wrong again and again, but we never know how to learn from it and do some introspection. I can help you take a look, as long as you're willing to take the time.
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We often say that to make friends and find a partner, you must have the same three views. Because, it's really tiring to be with people with different views.
You share your happiness with them, and they feel like you're showing off.
You tell him about the fun of your trip, and they say it's better to lie at home.
You read a good book and want to share it with him, but they say what kind of literary and artistic youth they pretend.
Happiness can't be hidden, and often can't help but share it with others, but if happiness is shared by the wrong person, it becomes a pretend. Because there are always some people who can't see you, when you are elated, they pour a basin of cold water down, sneering a few words, so that the original good mood is gone.
People with different views not only don't understand your happiness, but also don't understand your sadness.
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It's divided, you don't have anything to do except give birth.
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It is not recommended to be together, and the disagreement of the three views will affect the marriage and future life, and there will be a big difference
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In this case, it is inevitable that they will be together, and they will not be very happy.
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Not necessarily, socksThere are several scenarios:
First: neither is the same as the others;
Second: is it only when two people are together that there will be no topic;
Third, whether one or both of them are not good at talking;
Fourth: whether two people often quarrel together, and whether their personalities are compatible.
The three views are appropriate. It's very simple to like someone, maybe the other person's figure, appearance, personality, conversation, and even economic conditions attract you.
But when you really get along, it's hard to find someone who is in step with you, it's easy to fall in love, but it's too difficult to get along. This is why many people say that we are so suitable, but why we are not happy together.
Because in the relationship, the three views are more important than the facial features.
You like to go to a Western restaurant to eat steak, and he likes to make skewers at the food stall, which is not called the disagreement between the three views and the knowledge. But he said that it was expensive and not delicious, and said that you were really contrived, and this is the disagreement between the three views.
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At present, in our real life and life, there are too many people with different views together, and this kind of person will make a family if they are together, and they will not be very happy, and they quarrel over trivial things every day.
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In a relationship, the disagreement can be a big problem. The three views include values, outlook on life and world view, if the three views of two pants are too different, then there will be a lot of conflicts and contradictions in daily life. These conflicts and conflicts may arise from different views on work, family, friends, beliefs, and politics, or from different evaluations of relationships, personality, behavior, and lifestyle.
In fact, the three views refer to the world view, values, and outlook on life. And if there is a problem with the three views, then almost the whole person will be destroyed. From this, we can also see that the three views are actually our thoughts and cognitions.
For this situation, it is recommended that both parties first conduct in-depth communication and ** to see if they can find common ground, or respect and tolerate each other's different points of view. In the process of communication, it is necessary to remain calm, rational and respectful, and avoid arguing and attacking the other party's god code. Try to understand their point of view from the other person's point of view and express your thoughts and feelings.
If both parties can come to an agreement, then the relationship can be continued, but it requires compromises and changes on both sides.
<>However, if the two parties still can't reach a consensus after in-depth communication and **, then breaking up with Zhixuan Jian may be a better choice to avoid greater conflicts and harm. Breaking up is not necessarily a failure, but a mature and rational choice that allows both of them to continue looking for a partner who is right for them.
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It's a very common thing to have different views with your boyfriend, and that doesn't mean you can't be together. In the face of the situation of different views, we can adopt the following methods to avoid and resolve contradictions.
First, we need to respect each other's values and beliefs. Even if we have different views on some aspects, we should respect each other's choices. We are all individuals who have the right to choose our own ways of life and our beliefs, whether we agree with it or not.
Respecting and understanding each other's beliefs allows us to get along better.
Second, we need to communicate. Communication is an effective way to solve problems. In the face of different views, we can communicate and communicate frankly to understand the other party's views and positions. This will help us better understand and respect each other's perspectives and find common ground.
Third, we need to find common ground. While we have different views in some ways, we also have similarities. Finding what we have in common and focusing on these areas allows us to get along and understand each other better.
Finally, we need to learn to compromise and be inclusive. In some cases, we may encounter problems where we cannot reach a consensus. In this case, we need to learn to compromise and be inclusive.
We can choose to back down on certain issues, as long as it doesn't affect our bottom line and principles.
In short, when you are faced with a situation with different views, don't think that this is an unsolvable problem. Respect, communication, finding common ground, learning to compromise and being inclusive are all ways that can help us overcome difficulties and build healthier relationships. Most importantly, remember that one's mind changes over time, and we all have opportunities to learn and grow.
The difference between the three views with the boyfriend does not mean that we cannot be together, on the contrary, it can be an opportunity to learn from each other and create a better relationship.
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Now too many people in the relationship pay attention to the three views of the same, because too many people say that it is difficult for couples to go on if the three views do not match, even if they go together, they will break up for various reasons, but in real life there are many couples who do not agree with the three views, and the couples who do not agree with the three views can't last long? In fact, not necessarily, I see that those people who do not agree with each other get along very well, where in this world there are so many coincidences, they are all mutual running-in, understanding, tolerance, as long as you can find a good solution, you can let the relationship develop smoothly.
The three views are the world view, the outlook on life, and the values, and people who do not agree with these three views are unlikely to become people shouting all the way, and they are reluctant to come. Just like some people like to eat cabbage, and some people like to eat rape, everyone has their own choices and hobbies, and everyone has their own unique understanding of world view, outlook on life, and values.
Some people say that people with different views are not suitable for love, and two people who have no intersection come together because of a chat, first of all, they must accept the differences between the two parties and be able to understand the reasons for the differences. If you want to live in harmony, you have to explore this reason. Don't raise everything to the height of the three views that do not agree, there is communication, there is running-in, in order to get along to old age.
Two people in love will inevitably have different personalities because of their original families and different growth environments, and even have such and such shortcomings and shortcomings.
But true love is not an attempt to transform the other party, but to patiently tolerate the other party, those who transform the other party in the name of love will only cause discomfort and disgust to the other party, and it will inevitably affect the relationship between the two parties for a long time. Only when two people understand each other can they tolerate each other; Only by tolerating each other can we be harmonious.
Looking at the relationship between two people, the main problem is not whether the "three views" are compatible, the key is communication and understanding, when you really learn to communicate and understand others, you will find that your original three views may have subtle changes.
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No, otherwise there will be a lot of contradictions.
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When the relationship enters the run-in period, it depends on whether we can understand each other. In fact, whoever you fall in love with will find two people with different views. It is not important that the three views are different, but it is important that the three views do not match.
That is to say, if two people have different views, but they can understand and support each other, communicate effectively, and even give in to each other, then they still belong to the same three views and can go on. If we can't understand each other and can't tolerate each other, then we don't have the same views and we can't get by.
Now you are speculating about your boyfriend's concept with your own concept, and you haven't really run in. What you need is to get to know his thoughts. Maybe in the family, environment, and circle he grew up in, his approach is the mainstream and normal.
So you need to understand how his thoughts and actions came about, and then see if they can understand each other and reach a compromise, not just one person can decide where to go.
There was once a husband and wife who wanted to divorce Mrs. Zheng because after he got married, he found that his wife used the same basin to wash her face and feet, and he felt that his wife was very unfond of cleanliness and could not accept it. The wife didn't know the reason for the divorce at first, but when she found out, she was surprised, and she didn't expect to divorce because of this. It turned out that the people in her village washed their faces and feet in one basin, and she felt that this was normal since she was a child, and she never thought of separating the two basins.
Now that my husband minds, it's nothing to separate the two basins. Later, her husband learned that she grew up in such a friendly environment, and he forgave her. The two of them joined together again.
So, as a lover, the first step is to understand how his ideas came about. The second step is to see if we can negotiate a mutually acceptable plan. Then it was decided whether to divide or not.
If you encounter different places and immediately judge that two people must be in different worlds, then it will be difficult for you to find the person who can live with you for the rest of your life. If you still can't get it together after understanding, it's really inappropriate.
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