I m just going to my girlfriend s house for the New Year, okay?

Put yourself in your shoes, if I were you, I don't know the situation of her family now, and I must be fully prepared before I go. In what capacity are you going to go to her house (regular friend or boyfriend and girlfriend)? If you are an ordinary friend (it is recommended to go in this capacity, as a boyfriend and girlfriend will make her parents change the measure of you), the first thing to do is to leave a good first impression on her parents, that is, to be polite and warm.

When you meet her parents, add your girlfriend's last name to the greeting, e.g. 'Uncle X, Aunt X, hello' to make the greeting more cordial. When you go to someone's house, you are a guest, and usually others will be very polite to you, but you must not treat yourself as a guest (if others treat you warmly, you can try to help them, and you must not be too casual, improvised, and appropriate). How long you stay depends on whether you can talk to her parents or not, because the purpose of your visit is to meet them.

Talking to her mother, asking her for some tips on life. Talk to his father about some of his successes. Because you don't know the situation of their family (everyone's situation is different), you can only solve this point by yourself.

If the people in their family like you very much, they might as well stay for a meal, and the people who often cook and eat at home are still very good at cooking. Thank you.

And surprise, you really want to come out.

She surprises you when I see it.

Let's go home for the New Year honestly.

It's better to tell people and let their families be prepared.

Does her family know that you are dating her?

When we encounter such a situation, it is particularly important to deal with such a matter rationally. Because every female friend will not choose to take her boyfriend home easily, if your girlfriend wants you to go back to her house for the New Year, it is actually a kind of recognition, and we should all be happy.

Therefore, I have the following observations:

1. Rationality

When we are not capable, I don't recommend everyone to go to a woman's home, because after all, every parent hopes that their children can marry a good family, so when we encounter such a situation, we should first tell our girlfriend that I am very willing to go home with you, but my career is not particularly stable now, and I am afraid that your parents will look down on me, so I want to wait for a year, and when my career is stable, I will definitely take the initiative to go to your house. In this way, the girlfriend will also understand herself.

2. Communication

When we still feel hesitant, first of all, we should stabilize our girlfriend's emotions, don't let our girlfriend misunderstand, and then tell our girlfriend what we think unreservedly, so that our girlfriend knows that she is very willing to go home with her, so that the relationship between the two people will not be affected in any way.

The above points are some of my personal opinions, and I hope they can be helpful to all of you. At the same time, I also hope that everyone can deal with it rationally, after all, going to their girlfriend's house is a big deal, every word and deed is related to the future development of two people, so that it is conducive to the relationship of two people, I hope everyone can pay attention to it, and adopt such a concept, and then go to the specific implementation, see what the effect is, and then make corresponding adjustments.

You should first ask your girlfriend to communicate with your family, and you should also talk to your parents, listen to their opinions, and prepare well if you really go.

Go, it means that your girlfriend attaches great importance to you, and must have told his family, you must still have time to prepare, ask your parents what they should pay attention to, behave better, and maybe they will discuss marriage.

Go, your girlfriend taking you home is a recognition of yourself, don't show it at this time, when to behave.

If your girlfriend says this, it means that she hopes that her family will recognize you and support you, if you haven't told your family that you want to go home for the New Year, and you have identified this girlfriend, then it doesn't hurt to follow her back.

If you decide that you want to go on for the rest of your life, you can go, but if you don't think about it, don't go easily.

Prove that your girlfriend is very recognizable to you, and you can go back to his house because you want to get closer to the relationship and not suddenly, it depends on your emotional attitude, it seems that you are still a little unwilling, if you are in the hesitation stage, then don't go back to her house first.