We were only four months old, and his feelings for me faded

Do you see each other every day when you're together? Or is it glued together every day?

If yes. That proves that the man is tired of it. Maybe the freshness in you is gone.

Downplay everything. Nothing can't be done.

For feelings. Be hot and cold. Even if you like him a lot. Don't be too obvious either.

A word for you. Instead of choosing what you love. It's better to choose to love you.

That's it, he wants to break up, but he doesn't want to take the responsibility of breaking up first. So he coldly treated you, and when you couldn't stand it and said to break up, he took the opportunity to say yes. It seems that he is not easy.

Take advantage of the fact that you are not deep and leave. I don't maintain it anymore. This kind of relationship is not a normal feeling of love.

It's only been four months, if the feelings are not weaker in the next life, I hope you will think about it, this phenomenon is not a good phenomenon.

It's clear that he doesn't want to do it with you, on the surface, he still cares about you, but he actually wants to break up, this kind of man is the worst, good morning, bless you!

Let it be, and the days of being together in the future are more boring than now, think about it.

Generally speaking, it's only been four months, and it should belong to that kind of good state, why have you been in less contact recently, and what is the reason?

When the distance is far, the feelings fade. The relationship was not consolidated for four months. It's easy to cross!

To put it simply: "Distance is the test of true love, and time is the answer".

= He's not serious at all, is he?

Can't get the other party's return and cooperation, no matter how hard you try to maintain this relationship, but still feel useless, this kind of disappointment and helpless powerlessness arises spontaneously, often when the emotional problem can not be solved, in the relationship, more terrible than love is the emotional powerlessness, completely the kind of feeling that can't be lost and can't be owned.

When love comes, don't be too proactive. The direction of friendship is basically from scratch, from light to strong and then to light. No matter which form it takes, most of them are motivated by one party and actively pursued.

The other side is stunned, then careful, or hiding or accepting. I advise those who take the initiative, if you really like it, you must have a long-term plan, don't be enthusiastic, it will scare the other party away, but it will not be long-term. There is love at first sight, but what supports the development of a relationship must be mutual acceptance and management.

Because feelings require heart-to-heart communication, you need to observe every detail of the other party with your heart, and you need to do what they like from the heart. The reason why we feel powerless a lot of times is simply because we don't know each other well enough. Or maybe you just have this relationship, but you don't put more thought into the person you love.

Your own strength can't match this feeling, in layman's terms, it means that your economic ability is not high, and you are afraid that you can't do it; Secondly, why are you at a loss? In short, you don't think about your future, you don't have a firm intention to go with him or her, you don't have a direction, so you don't know how to ensure your relationship. In my opinion, you have your own plans, you have thought about the future with her, and with your own earning ability, what you will gain is your beautiful love.

Excluding him from being married, it should be that he doesn't love enough, because if you love someone very much, you have to work hard, plan for each other's future, accumulate wealth, accumulate wisdom in life, give each other stable happiness, and manage each other's relationships well. Bless you. Love itself is a spiritual need, a metaphysical level; Reality, on the other hand, is a material society, a metaphysical level.

This kind of problem should have something to do with the person's personality. Girls like boys to be romantic. But many boys don't like this the most.

But since you like him, let him go. People, you have to live.

It can only be said that they are not invested in this relationship very deeply, and they can't have a tacit understanding with each other.

Since we have chosen love, we must treat it sincerely, cherish it, support him when he (she) is in difficulty, encourage him or her when he (she) is happy, and comfort him (her) when he (she) is happy. Rather than ignoring its existence when you have it, only to regret it only after you lose it. To love someone is to make him (her) happy forever, to be his (her) eternal safe haven, to protect him (her), even if it is the slightest harm.

Truly loving someone is not as simple as we think, an affectionate hug, a deep kiss, an unchanging vow, a ...... that will not fadeAll this is tasteless, dark and dull in the face of true love. ``

The most important thing to love a person is to respect his (her) own independent time and space, let him (her) devote his (she) energy to the struggle for his ideal career, and urge him (her) to make full use of the time at his or her disposal, help each other in the short space with each other, support each other, share weal and woe, contribute to each other's ideal cause, and strive for a better future together!

You may not think it will be like when you have it, but when you lose it, you will know what heartache is. Most people get used to doing something or accepting someone's feelings for a few days, but one day when you stop what you have done and accept from people, you feel as if something is missing. Actually, nothing is missing, it's just that you're starting to get used to that life, that feeling.

Therefore, when you lose him (her), you will think that he (she) is valuable, if you cherish him (her) at the beginning, he (her) will not leave you now. Friends, cherish what you have now, don't wait until everything is gone from you, all you have left is regret and self-blame. Hope we can be friends and get to know each other happily!

It's not that the relationship is weak, it's that they are alienated from each other or feel like strangers, at this time, it's normal, as long as two people have been together for a few days recently, it will be fine, and your relationship should be slow-burning. If you accept it, you won't be able to stand it or regret it, you have to persevere.

Don't give up a relationship easily, you must wait until you lose it to know how to cherish it.