Do people with different interpersonal relationships have to fit in?

This is a common problem, and many people are very negative, thinking that they can only live below that class for the rest of their lives.

Here's a simple example:

If a person wants to be promoted, then how can he be promoted (here, we are only talking about personal issues, and nothing else. ）

The shortcut to promotion is nothing more than two things:

1. Be promoted. Why did that person promote you. That's it.

It's that you have to have that ability.

2. Be popular. Handle interpersonal relationships, here I.

As long as they are capable and sincere.

In addition, if you want to be promoted, the most important thing is to "imitate", of course, this is not general'Imitation' is not just a good way, a good way. At.

To a certain extent, I have to imitate that kind of thinking.

Therefore, the method of inflow is very simple. First, do you have the ability to do that? Second, do you have that kind of connection? Third, whether it is good at imitation.

Now the situation in our country is that the rich are getting richer and richer, and the poor are getting poorer and poorer!

People of different classes think they can be friends! But it depends on the person! See if you can be above or equal to those who are at a higher level in some respects!

For example, the other person's literary level is very high, and you can talk to him about this matterYou're better at computing than him, and you can help him solve some problems, isn't that a chance to get in?

This kind of problem is really unclear, no matter what the situation is, forcing yourself is always a bad way. You don't have to force yourself to do things you don't like just because you want to be one with them, so you will slowly lose yourself and blindly follow the will of others to live.

Because there are many common topics for people from the same class, it is naturally easy to get good.

But it's not that different classes can't do it, it's just difficult.

Let's find common ground.

The brother above said well!

On the good side, the basic attitude towards people should be filial piety. Loyalty. Etiquette.

Interests. Those who are in a hurry consume it. Cowards are afraid of it. The brave are in a hurry. Greedy people benefit. (Forget it, I don't want to teach you the way to take advantage of people) after all, you're in school.

To people and things. Don't be on character. It's impossible for you to get along with all kinds of personalities. It's impossible for a saint to do it. You have all ten kinds of people to your liking. Are you still yourself?

According to your own feelings, it's useless to say so much to you, just believe in yourself, stick to your own opinions, and don't worry about anything!!

If these problems could be solved, Confucius would not have killed Shao Zhengmao.

It's not how you get along with them, it's about being yourself.

Classmates, don't say 10 kinds, it's 100 kinds, I'll answer you like this. You've fallen into the trap of interpersonal communication, and you don't have a way to deal with what kind of person you have. You just remember that the character is different, this is determined by nature, just like a tree does not have two identical leaves, as long as it is not the kind of people who wear small shoes, take advantage of others, and forget their righteousness, those who are not good in character can actually get along.

Don't categorize.

As a student, it's not bad, but it's very observant.

Indeed, there are people of all kinds of personalities, wherever they are; But there is no perfect person who can handle the relationship with everyone.

No matter how capable a person is, he will offend some people, because different positions or different levels of people represent different interests;

A person must learn to be tolerant, not to be greedy, and to do things in a measured manner. Most of us are ordinary people.

Dear classmates, don't worry about these people, do your own thing, let them talk;

It's okay, your personality shouldn't be repulsed.

But don't look for close friends among your colleagues, you can chat online, or occasionally meet people to eat with and so on. If you get along slowly, you will become good friends. You can also tell some of your own little secrets in the process of dating, and cultivate a sense of trust.

Why are such people always ostracized, but there are few confidants?

To learn Li Yang's crazy English, not only improved his English level, but also became bold.

I just have a few words: treat people with sincerity, have a normal heart, and can't ask others with their own requirements.

As a man, you have to learn to be calm and know how to face it. Don't let the appearance of a woman sway your thoughts, which will make you lose your thinking, lose control of the situation, and be too passive. To be a human being, you must take the initiative in order not to lose what you want.

Just a few hundred words are not enough, so that your future communication and pickling girls are enough. It is recommended that you put aside all these miscellaneous troubles first, and don't think about how to do it for the time being, and don't think about women.

Think deeply, why are you so passive? Ask yourself what exactly you're afraid of. Because you have no power, no money, no background? That's why you are stingier than others?

Although it is difficult to change your personality, you have to believe that nothing in the world is impossible or impossible, as long as you dare to think and dare to do. Everything is greeted in the best state, even if the process and result are not perfect, don't worry about why at that time afterwards, just reflect and think about how to face similar things next time.

Finally, one more thing: you are still young, don't be afraid to do wrong things, don't run away, dare to face it.

The world is full of people, do you need to be afraid?

The weakness of human nature is understood, but the truth needs to be put into action in order to truly understand the truth. It's ridiculous or not, it's just a psychological influence, people are in a good mood, they laugh when they see it, they are in a bad mood, and everything is a miasma. To change your inferiority complex, you need to exercise, you need to practice, you will be very nervous to give a speech on stage, so you will exercise it, and you will be nervous about nucleol communication?

Don't worry, you can slowly break through your original behavior habits, once you get used to it, you can improve your standards, so that you can establish enough security in your heart, which is conducive to improving self-confidence. On the other hand, if you want to transform, your classmates may think that you are taking stupid medicine (even if there is nothing wrong with your behavior), just like you are very introverted and suddenly become very extroverted, but you are actually very introverted, and their strange eyes will bring you a lot of obstacles. Theory + practice = reaching the goal.

Take a gradual and in-depth approach to build confidence in yourself. It is also recommended to buy some inspirational books to read, learn their thoughts, a paragraph in it, a sentence may bring you great inspiration, life experience, love to share.

Try to look each other in the eye when you speak, or go to KTV and sing loudly, think about your strong side to increase your self-confidence, and your girlfriend also depends on fate.

It seems that it's not just girls, you seem to be very afraid of interacting with people, you seem to be afraid of something, is it afraid of being hated? Or is it a fear of rejection? I don't know, but if you pluck up the courage to try it once, you might find that everything isn't that scary.

Because these are the most common things.

If possible, it is recommended that you do psychological counseling (of course, I am not saying that you have mental illness), but I believe that professional counseling can improve your current situation.

Get up every day and say to the mirror, **You must do it, cheer up. Participate in more group activities, such as football, basketball, and some people in college gather around to play keys, etc., and be attentive so that you will gradually adapt to the environment. Again, there is more communication with others. Come on.

You are called an introvert, tell you, please go to some warm occasions to play, to see who loves to tell stories the most, who is the best to speak. You try to get in touch with as many people as possible, so that even if you can't be friends with them, you feel happier. And, over time, you'll get a little more lively.

Slowly you'll make a few friends. Afterwards. Don't give up the feelings you have gained, but also stick to it for a long time and keep in touch with those who are more enthusiastic.

Until the end, you have become easier to talk about, maybe, you will not feel lonely, and maybe you will take the initiative to find a girlfriend.

It is recommended that you buy a cheaper guitar to practice at home, and you can play and sing it for your favorite girls. This not only avoids discomfort, but also boosts self-confidence. At the same time, I got out of my closed self!

Kill three birds with one stone! I believe that as long as you sing with your heart, girls will definitely be moved by you! Done, take the points and leave!

It's obvious that you don't exercise enough, follow me like a bird. When I went to the street to send a list, I always hid and hid, like a thief, afraid that people would see it. First of all, you have to increase your strength, so that you have the confidence to speak and the confidence to persuade the other party.

Everyone will have this experience to a greater or lesser extent in the process of growing up. There is always a first time for everything, from the first time to tie your shoes alone, to the realization of your ambition in life. God He can't always take care of you alone, sometimes it's busy, and we need to be brave enough to face it ourselves.

Slowly get acquainted with it, and you will understand that there is nothing to be afraid of, nothing is a big deal, and there is nothing to be ashamed of. It is better to passively accept a thing than to take the initiative to enjoy it. Happiness is enjoyment, pain is also a kind of enjoyment, it makes us know how to cherish and work harder.

Since we are facing death, let's die as if we were home" - Hacker Empire

Maybe sometimes we feel embarrassed, we feel that we can't do it, then you tell yourself that it is a challenge, and human nature is perfected in one challenge after another.

Friend, try to take the initiative, stretch out your hand first, and the world will hold it with you.

If you still find it difficult, just read Carnegie's books, although you are a little older, some of them are still very suitable for college students) I wish you success.

Except that the social aspect is different from yours, the latter situation is actually similar to yours, so I take the approach of ignoring it.

It's easy to do.,Find someone to blow on QQ.,Practice.,Blow blindly.,The other party is angry.,It doesn't matter.,Anyway, he doesn't know which one you are.,If you don't talk to you, I'll change people.。

If you are a boy, you have to be bold, the first step is very difficult, but when you take this important step, you will open the sky, first build a good relationship with the people in the dormitory, and slowly go to the dormitory next door, you don't want to shrink all day because of the bad situation at home, and you don't need to envy what the situation at home is, don't be presumptuous.

A woman who really loves you doesn't care about your money, she just wants you to spend more time with her, like a handsome guy who basically doesn't spend a penny, and women don't want his money.

Communication is very important, you can force yourself to start by greeting classmates, you must greet others when you meet classmates, try more, feeling and self-confidence are very important, and regain self-confidence ......

Look at the answers upstairs are good, I feel like you are a person who is easy to feel inferior, cultivate more of your own interests and love! In addition, there is another specialty that will have a great impact on your future communication, buddy should believe in yourself.

It's useless to say so much in one word - Lian! What are men afraid of!

Let's practice QQ first! Read some more "jokes" and try to tell them to your roommates, and it will be good slowly.

Yes, exercise hard, I'm just a junior high school student myself, I'm a little kid, but I still hope you choose me, for points.

You're useless as a man! If you don't scold you, you'll be useless!

There are different ways to deal with interpersonal relationships.

Ideas and ideas are also different.

Smiling is very important, and when you meet for the first time, you should not talk about something deep, talk about your hometown or your clothes (depending on the person you are talking to), in short, you should not be too obscene, and you should give people kindness.

When it comes to the weather, starting with the weather, there is always something to talk about. From the weather to hometown, from hometown to hometown.

Then make another appointment, wouldn't it be nice to meet for the second time?

Because each person's personality, character, and thoughts are different, they should be treated differently.

In interpersonal relations, in fact, it is condensed into ten words, seeing people and talking about people, and talking about ghosts.

Because in their hearts, they are not in the same position in their hearts.

Because everyone's personality is different, it needs to be different from person to person.

Theory of Biological Evolution - Man is a Complex Animal!

In the workplace, everyone has to learn to do things in a way. Square; It is the rule of life, the eternal ruler, and an internal binding force. The circle is the skill of being a man, it is a kind of accommodation and tolerance, and it is the lubricant that regulates the relationship, requiring people to be adaptable, flexible, able to see the situation clearly, analyze the pros and cons, and take the most appropriate way to behave.

Share it, I hope it can help a little.

Hehe, just entered college.

I did the same when I copied it, I guess I followed you.

Du's situation is about the same, I'll just zhi

It's into the group created by our class.,And then during the holidays, I kept joking with the classmates in the group.,Say things that aren't things.,Slowly contact feelings.,In the next semester.,Adjust your mentality.,Encourage yourself to talk to others more.,No matter what you say, it's okay (as long as it's not boring.,Hehe),The classmates in the dormitory are your closest people during college.,Their feelings for you are just your own feelings.,You just need to do your own sincere treatment of them., The relationship between classmates will slowly get better, but you should also pay attention to whether some of your living habits are disgusting to others, hehe, why do you want to know what others think of you, you think about it after leaving your parents, feel very lonely, and then bring this emotion unnaturally to daily life, when you have time, recall how you got along with people when you just entered high school, learn from it, college life is very nostalgic, hehe Come on