What should I do if my mind is immature and I am easily impulsive?

I've been working for half a year, and I'm still so childish! I have to say how did you learn when you were in school, did you do nothing all day? Drift along?

I haven't read a few books in my usual life, or just read some boring ** magazines? It won't work like this! I advise you to read some books on how to behave in the world, "The Advantages of Human Nature", "The Disadvantages of Human Nature", etc., these books must have the answers you want!

It's useless for us to say more here, remember!

Don't worry, a fight between couples is a great lubricant. There is a saying that together must be divided for a long time. So sometimes arguing can boost the emotional index.

There is only one way to mature, and that is to ask yourself if you really like him, and if not, you will never mature. To change this kind of thing, first of all, dedication is the premise. If you don't like it, you won't dedicate, so you won't know it later!

If you still want to get along with your boyfriend, I recommend that you separate sometimes, and don't stick together every day. The length of time you will be away depends on the relationship you develop, but be sure to surprise each other when you show up again!

A friend from above said that in school it is not perfect. There are many things that you can't learn in school. Relying on yourself to touch and think, maybe after a lot of things, you will slowly grow up and slowly become one.

It should be said that it is normal!

When you have a baby, you will slowly mature!

Try to calm down and see how others are doing Sometimes it's a good choice to talk less and study more Don't worry about your boyfriend If he loves you, he will definitely tolerate you Don't be ignorant in front of others It's absolutely okay in front of him But pay attention to proportions Sometimes a man needs more face He quarrels with you and that's definitely for your own good, so you have to listen to his advice more.

When you blurt out something you shouldn't say when you're angry, count from one to ten or more, and then see if you still want to say it. I think it's calmed down a lot, I used to do the same, my friend asked me to use this method, and I think it has changed a lot. It's not that it's ignorant, it's a personal character!

As for getting along with your boyfriend, let it be, a lot of things that will be unpredictable in the future.

You are so impulsive, it may be because of family reasons, you should think more about other people's feelings, before you speak, think about whether he will be very sad and sad when you say this, feel more about life, you may be more mature Occasional quarrels are not bad, but don't quarrel often, otherwise he will be disgusted with you You will humbly accept his opinion, you can check the Internet for books on this subject, take a closer look Maybe it will be better

When you do anything and want to say something, think about the consequences in your head before you say it.

Couples should tolerate each other and bring up with each other what needs to be improved.

Hey, how old is your boyfriend? I can't blame you for this thing, I can only say that the time is not right, there are always things that can make you mature, maybe you will say something to me, but I still want to say, you can go to some monks, or fortune tellers who are more accurate, ask and chat, and maybe find your answer from it.

In terms of dealing with the world, it is to think more when you say something, don't say anything without thinking about it, and learn slowly As for the question of you and your boyfriend, it should be said that it is a normal phenomenon, two people together is to understand each other, tolerate each other Don't worry too much.

It's not interesting to be too mature, I think. There are some differences in the personalities of the two people, and they usually make trouble, and there is nothing wrong with tolerating each other. In this way, it will taste and last.

Give yourself and yourself a little time.

You can go and buy a book on this.

If you're right, what kind of expression can make it wrong?

Be considerate of each other, learn to be patient, and say anything when people are angry, so learn to think before speaking?

Mature thinking and naïve thinking, there are advantages and disadvantages, round or bad, psychologically mature people will think more, innocent people will think less, everything to master a degree, is a symbol of wisdom and wise choice.

1.Psychological maturation will slowly mature with age, just like blossoming and fruiting, sprouting, growing, flowering, and bearing fruit. The human mind likes the feeling of childhood, likes the innocence of innocence, and yearns for a clear, bright, unrestrained mind and soul.

People who are too mature in their thinking have the experience of the world. People who are too mature in their thinking have a tenacious ability to endure, and people who are too mature in their thinking have complex ideological pressure.

2.Immaturity is not necessarily a bad thing, everything has advantages and disadvantages, immature people are often a kind of personality characteristics of thought and themselves, some people are pure, some are naïve, some people are innocent, immature and immature are good, mature and mature wonderful, the so-called go with the flow, follow the fate, unrestrained and free life, is natural, will be free and easy, do not have to deliberately change.

3.Some people like to be pure, some people like to be mature, the true nature of the self will change with the environment, everything is not attached, do not climb, do not look, is the embodiment of psychological maturity, the manifestation of psychological maturity reflects the control of psychological balance, not sad or happy, not affected by external factors, such as immobility, freedom, optimism and open-mindedness, positive, healthy psychological needs to experience, need to feel and self-realization. Having a good attitude is the cornerstone of success, and maintaining an optimistic and positive attitude is the direction that must be on the road of life.

Go through something more and get out of the circle that makes you feel comfortable right now. Make more friends with some excellent people, learn more new things, go to some interesting city life and travel, and read more books that you haven't read before. Feel more, understand more, think more

Summary. I think so. Because I have the same personality as you, I say a lot of things that shouldn't be said.

Often impulsively doing the wrong thing. My friends say I have maturity. I also felt like I was too immature.

I wish I could mature sooner. But maybe it's all about personality. What is it like for everyone to be born.

It's been like this for the rest of my life. Impulsiveness is a matter of character, and it stands to reason that it is innate, and it is really bad. Sometimes, the good image and reputation that have been created for years or years are wasted, and it is really infuriating compared to those who are cheating and cheating.

But who makes you unbearable? Anger and impulsiveness are allowed to be immature, and I approve and disapprove. Recognition means that you feel that you are indeed not very mature sometimes, and disapproval is that you think that you have cultivated well in all aspects, but sometimes you really can't help it, and it seems that it has nothing to do with maturity or not.

At the very least, impulsiveness is the devil.

I think so. Because I have the same personality as you, I say a lot of things that shouldn't be said. Often impulsively doing the wrong thing.

My friends say I have maturity. I also felt like I was too immature. I hope I can mature sooner.

But maybe it's all about personality. What is it like for everyone to be born. It's been like this for the rest of my life.

Impulsiveness is a matter of character, and it stands to reason that it is innate, and it is really bad. Sometimes, the good image and reputation that have been created for years or years are wasted, and it is really infuriating compared to those who are cheating and cheating. But who accompanies Sooulun to make you unbearable?

Irritability and impulsiveness are allowed to be immature Luxin manifestations, and I approve and disapprove of them. Recognition means that you feel that you are indeed not very mature sometimes, and disapproval is that you think that you have cultivated well in all aspects, but sometimes you really can't help it, and it seems that it has nothing to do with maturity or not. At the very least, impulsiveness is the devil.

Friends, I really don't understand, you can be more specific.

I think so. Because I have the same personality as you, I say a lot of things that shouldn't be said. Often impulsively doing the wrong thing.

My friends say I have maturity. I also felt like I was too immature. I hope I can mature sooner.

But maybe it's all about personality. What is it like for everyone to be born. It's been like this for the rest of my life.

Impulsiveness is a matter of character, and it stands to reason that it is innate, and it is really bad. Sometimes, the good image and reputation that have been created for years or years are wasted, and it is really infuriating compared to those who are cheating and cheating. But who accompanies Sooulun to make you unbearable?

Irritability and impulsiveness are allowed to be immature Luxin manifestations, and I approve and disapprove of them. Recognition means that you feel that you are indeed not very mature sometimes, and disapproval is that you think that you have cultivated well in all aspects, but sometimes you really can't help it, and it seems that it has nothing to do with maturity or not. At the very least, impulsiveness is the devil.

Don't worry, no one is born a social genius with a well-rounded mind; bai

The books about social interaction in life are not read more books in a few, and learn more in life, just like once the people around you say a more comprehensive idea than you, you will remember and study with your heart, and life will not repeat itself, but the things in life will continue to repeat, this is the experience, and you will return to the person you admire after experiencing more; There is no topic, a big situation is that the knowledge is not broad enough, yes, the person you communicate with has no common topic with you, there is no topic without the collision of thinking, and the person you communicate with has no common topic, you can choose to listen, listening is also a way to learn, learn his thinking, the topic he is interested in, and soon you will be slowly influenced to change

In short, keep learning, find what you are missing, think about how to make up for it, enrich yourself in the most effective way you think, increase your experience without shortcuts, keep trying, keep working hard, I believe you will recognize yourself in the near future! Come on.

Lack of education, less reading, less knowledge.

Advice: Read more books.

Communicate with people.

Ask questions.

I am a little unconfident in myself, and I care a little about the eyes of others. Maturity starts by doing what you think is right, reading more philosophical books, experiencing more setbacks, and experiencing more ups and downs in life, and you will become mature.

Psychologically immature, 18-year-old people feel like 15-year-olds, now many families are only children, so the pampering of children, it can be said that there is a feeling of excess, it is in this pampering, our children's independence is getting worse and worse, everything has to be done with the help of parents. And because the current family conditions can be said to be much better than before, so now the child's requirements can be basically met by parents, then, for the child, the child does not have any ambition, no other motivation to urge himself to learn new things, or be curious about some new things. This will also reduce the child's ability to explore and seek knowledge.

Maturity is constantly frustrated and hit in the process of exploration and knowledge, and then it is slowly cultivated in the process of continuous strength and success. Without motivation, there is no process, and there is no way to talk about natural maturity. Recommendations:

You can learn more about your parents and elders about what they did at that time, and learn more about the methods and measures of your elders and parents to deal with life events. Practice more. Don't be afraid to fail.

Don't be afraid of pain. Only through experience can we mature.

First of all, whenever we are provoked by something, we silently say in our hearts: Don't be impulsive, don't be impulsive, impulsiveness is the devil. The advantage of silent meditation is to give yourself a psychological cue, which can play a certain role in control.

Leave the scene. Leaving the scene is the most effective way to control impulses, because if you blindly get angry in the same place, you will let your chaotic consciousness go deeper and deeper. Leaving the place can regulate your emotions well, even if you want to get angry, because you are not at the scene, you will not do anything to hurt others.

Adjust your breath. When people are impulsive, their breath will also be rapid, and whenever they want to be impulsive, take a deep breath and adjust their breath to slow it down.

Count five 100 times in your mind. Sometimes I really can't control it, 100 in my heart. It doesn't work twice, it doesn't work twice, it doesn't work three times, it will calm the mind.

Improve your self-cultivation. It is easy to be impulsive because of insufficient cultivation, so we should read more, see more how others deal with things when they encounter problems, and learn how others handle things rationally.

Change slowly. Impulsive personality is not something that can be adjusted all at once. To change slowly, one thing impulsively changes from three things to five things and one impulse, set a goal for yourself, and change slowly.

In general, to control your emotions, you can first give yourself a hint in your heart, don't be impulsive, and then leave the scene, chant the Buddha name in your heart, read more books to improve your perspective on things. No matter what, it's always important to remember to wait until the emotions are over before dealing with things.

Always impulsively compensate for familiarity, poor thinking ability, you should read more books, absorb more experience from books, and secondly, listen more and read more and talk less.