Would you be happy that the person you like is getting divorced now?

Updated on psychology 2024-04-30
9 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Will I be happy, I don't think I will be a little happy but honestly speaking, if I am still single, my first reaction is that I can chase him, but I will also be unhappy, how much unhappiness he has experienced to get to the point of divorce, if I am already married, I will not be happy, not because I can't pursue him, but the only thing left is to feel sorry for him.

    I think everyone will be a little happy about this, I don't want to cover anything, because I can have a chance to be with him, whether he likes me or not, whether he plans not to marry in the future, no matter what he does, I can at least be by his side openly, accompany him to grieve, I think under normal circumstances, the person I like should have no feelings for me, otherwise I won't be with someone else, marry someone else, but I know that even so, it still can't stop me from liking. In fact, if it were me, whether he liked me or not, I would be by his side, and my happiness was also because I could be with him.

    But more than that, it's unhappy, it's sad, and it is often said that loving someone is not about having him, but about making him happy. He must have experienced a lot of divorce, he must have been scarred, looking at him unhappy, watching him sad, I will also follow him sad, sad, I know that when I see his appearance, my happiness will also disappear, at that time I must have preferred that they do not divorce, live happily, do not leave me a trace, do not divorce, do not look at him sad. After the divorce, in fact, many people will no longer have much expectation of love, and the thorns that were put away at that time will become longer and sharper this time, and not only against others, but also sting themselves, so I will feel distressed, and the pain should be more painful than my own divorce.

    I will choose to accompany him, no matter what he does to me, drive me away, or annoy me I will not leave, until his wounds heal, until he meets another person he loves, I will not leave, in fact, I will not expect him to like me, I always belong to the category of cowardice in love, only dare to silently guard. I believe that I will leave when he finds his other half, and if he has not been found, I think I will also hold the possibility of being with him and wait with him.

    In the world of love, in fact, there is really one party who loves the most, and if you break up, there will always be one party who is the most seriously injured, but there is no right or wrong in love, there is no much to give, only love and not love, if love, no matter what you do, he will feel that it is right and good, if you don't love, he will not pay attention to what you do. I just hope that I will never encounter such a thing in my life, because I am afraid that I will not be able to bear it, and I may not be able to bear it.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I don't think I'm going to be happy because of this, because divorce is not a happy event after all, and even if I like someone else, I don't want to rely on the other person's divorce to give myself a chance to be together. At most, it's probably an ambivalence, a bit of a mixed bag.

    If you really like someone, I think you will first hope that the other party will be happy, and if you look forward to the other party's divorce every day, I don't think it is true love. Of course, if the other party chooses to divorce because he is unhappy, or his partner has done something sorry for him, I will comfort him and feel glad that he ended such an unhappy marriage.

    However, I will not express my favor in a hurry at this juncture when he is more painful, and let him be with me on the pole. What I hope more is that he can end his previous marriage in a serious and rational state, and then think carefully about whether he likes me and whether he wants to be with me.

    Don't do things that take advantage of people's danger, it's not interesting to be impulsive, if you really like this person, give him the comfort and space he wants most, if he thinks about it and is willing to come to me, my heart is full of joy; If he still doesn't have me in his heart, I will also bless him to find someone who is more suitable for him.

    In short, in my opinion, even if he is divorced, it does not necessarily mean that he will be like me, so I don't need to be very happy. However, I will be more positive, give him some of the care that his friends deserve, and help him through the more difficult period of marriage change. As for what the aftermath is, I think it is still necessary to respect each other and maintain a good attitude.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    This question cannot be generalized, and the score depends on the situation.

    If his marriage was a mistake from the beginning, and after getting married, his married life was not happy, then he is divorced now, and of course I will be happy that he can get rid of the torment of that marriage. My greatest wish for someone I like is to want him to be happy, no matter who he is with. Seeing him happy, I can be happy.

    Before, I felt sad and sad for him when he was tormented by his marriage, but now that he is divorced and finally got rid of that unhappy marriage, I think I will be happier for him than anyone else. Regardless of whether he will be with me in the future, at least for now, I am happy.

    If his previous marriage was happy and he loved his previous marriage partner, and they divorced for some unavoidable reason or his partner didn't like him anymore. Then I may be just like him, not happy at all. I will feel sorry for his marriage; will look at his sad and sad face, gloomy and sad; Even, because of his misfortune, he will get drunk.

    Because I like him, I want him to be happy and happy, I don't want to see him sad and sad. Although, at the beginning, he couldn't marry me, but I don't hate him at all, I just hope that he can live well, as long as he can live well, I am willing to always watch him grow old happily in a place that he can't see, and I won't bother him. Now that he's having a bad time, how can I be happy?

    If he divorced because he found out that the person he liked was me and regretted his previous marriage, I might secretly be happy in my heart. I'm glad that my efforts have paid off, and even though he missed me, I'm happy that he now realizes the relationship he missed. In the days to come, I am willing to accompany him on the way.

    If it was because of me, he would be able to get a divorce, I would be really happy, and I would sing in my heart: "Finally waiting for you, fortunately I didn't give up." ”

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I don't think this question is good. But I don't think I'll be happy! Because if the two of us could be together, we wouldn't have waited until now. If he really wanted to be with me, he wouldn't be married to someone else.

    I think even if he is divorced, is he divorced because of himself? I think it's probably not. They must have some irreconcilable conflict between husband and wife, or they found that their personalities were incompatible after they got married, so they divorced.

    And none of this has anything to do with me. It can be said that I am an outsider, and the relationship between their husband and wife has not changed because of me. So what's there to be happy about? <>

    Do you think he's divorced, so do you have another chance?

    As far as I'm concerned, I don't really like men who are married for the second time. Because I think feelings should be relatively pure and simple. I don't want my marriage partner to have a complicated family situation.

    What if he is divorced but has children with his ex-wife? Then even if the two of them are divorced, they have to see each other often because of their children.

    Or even if you are married to him, you have to take into account the feelings of the child in every way. I don't think I like this complicated family relationship. I just want to have my own little family. So I don't feel happy or want to be with him.

    Because if I like someone, but I find out that he is married, I will give up immediately, and I will not secretly like him in my heart. I would try to convince myself to give up. Because I don't want to affect the other person and his family because of my feelings.

    So I'm sure I'll see it all before he gets divorced, so I don't have any hope for him anymore. It's even more unlikely that we'll be together again.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Marriage and divorce seem to be two opposing existences, but in fact they are two ways to choose love. After a long love run, two people will choose to get married when their love and mentality have reached a certain stage.

    After getting married, two people feel a lot of discomfort, and their three views are very different, so they choose to divorce after thinking twice. This is also a consideration of love. And the person you like is getting divorced, and all I can say is that it might be the right choice once.

    Divorce is traditionally taboo in China, so many people would rather stay together than divorce. Now it's different, everyone's ideology has changed a lot, and whether it is suitable or not is like the shoes under your feet, and you know it best in your heart.

    Divorce is not a trivial matter, it must be after getting married and getting along, both parties have found a lot of problems and contradictions, and these are not solved by saying that they can be solved, but more about the differences in concepts, so divorce is the best relief for two people.

    For you, is it not sitting on the fisherman's profit, no. The person you like doesn't necessarily like you, otherwise why didn't you choose you when you got married? Some things should be viewed dialectically, and we should not leave anything to chance.

    The divorce of the person you like can be a tragedy or a relief for her. For you, you must look at this problem from the perspective of a friend, and whether you are happy or not is of course your own business.

    If you think that if the other party is divorced, your opportunity will come, you are very wrong. The world of feelings is very complicated, and there is already an answer in your heart whether you like it or not, I can only say that the person you like is divorced, and you can chase her again openly, and there is nothing worthy of your happiness.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    No, he's happy, I'm happy, he's not happy, I'm not happy, his divorce must be painful, I don't think he will.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I'm not happy, the person I like is my husband, he broke up after the two of us, happy yarn.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Because Ning Zhiqian doesn't love Ruan Liuzheng, the relationship between them was originally a flash marriage and a flash divorce, and before getting married, the male protagonist had a hard and unforgettable love, and after the breakup, the male protagonist married the female protagonist, and Ruan Liuzheng has always been unable to forget his ex in his heart, so Ruan Liuzheng and Ning Zhiqian divorced, and in the eyes of the female protagonist, Ning Zhiqian still loves his ex.

    Ruan Liuzheng felt that the male protagonist was good to her because of his guilt, Ruan Liuzheng had always been secretly in love with Ning Zhiqian, and Ruan Liuzheng should have been very happy when he married Ning Zhiqian, and after the marriage, the lack of affection between the two people was exposed, so Ruan Liuzheng felt that he should not keep Ning Zhiqian by his side, so he divorced.

    The ending of "I Heard You Like Me".

    I heard that you like me**The ending content is: Ning Zhiqian, Ruan Liuzheng's daughter Ning Wei took the college entrance examination and achieved good results. If Ning Xiang hadn't died of illness, the family would have been really happy.

    After the misfortune, Ning Wei insisted on going abroad for further study. Ruan Liuzheng disagreed at first, but was persuaded by Ning Zhiqian. Late one night, Ning Zhiqian was not there. Ruan Liuzheng walked into the study and was reminded by a painting about Ning Xiang.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Summary. Hello dear, glad to answer for you. I heard that you like me, why did the heroine divorce 1, "I heard that you like me" The heroine divorced because she felt that the male protagonist was not true love for her, and in the eyes of the female protagonist, the male protagonist still loved his ex.

    2, **The male protagonist has an unforgettable love, after the breakup, the male protagonist married the female protagonist, in fact, he has never been able to let go of his predecessor in his heart. 3, the female protagonist felt that the male protagonist was good to her out of guilt, so the two often had conflicts, and finally came to the point of divorce.

    Hello dear, glad to answer for you. Listen to the colleague and say that you like me, why did the heroine divorce 1, "I Heard You Like Me" The heroine divorced because she felt that the male protagonist was not true love for her, and in the eyes of the heroine, the male protagonist still loved his ex. 2, ** The male protagonist Peiyuan has an unforgettable love for him, after breaking up, the male protagonist married the female protagonist, in fact, he never let go of his predecessor in his heart.

    3, the female protagonist felt that the male protagonist was good to her out of guilt, so the two often had conflicts, and came to the point of divorce after being the most disturbed.

    I heard that you like me** tells the story of a neurosurgical couple who reconciled after reuniting, both sweet and sadistic. I heard that you like what I ** said This work is based on the emotions of the male and female protagonists, and after the two got married, they gradually faded into a judgment, and finally came to the point of divorce. Many years later, the male and female protagonists reunited again, and there was still love for each other.

    The heroine divorced because she felt that the male protagonist was not true love for her, and in the eyes of the female protagonist, the male protagonist was still in love with his ex. **The male protagonist has an unforgettable love in his heart, after the breakup, the male protagonist married the female protagonist, in fact, he has never been able to let go of his predecessor in his heart. The female protagonist felt that the male protagonist's kindness to her was out of guilt, so the two often had conflicts, and finally came to the point of divorce.

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