If you want to do it all over again, what do you most want to save that relationship?

A friendship, a friendship that I regret.

That year, I was just in high school, and the first day I met the same table was that girl, and she was still very good to me, because she went home to eat every day, and she brought me some food from her house every day, but then my boyfriend in the second year of high school did fall in love with her in the first year of high school, and my boyfriend just played with her! I didn't mind that much at first, because I did know that he was just playing around with her! It's just that at the time I thought that the girl was just playing, and I didn't expect that boy to be my boyfriend at all.

At the beginning, when they first started to fall in love, they often played around in class, I often saw them laughing together, and I often made jokes about them, and then my best friend told me that the girl would be a little unhappy when she saw the boy playing with other girls, I didn't believe it at the time, and I thought that the girl shouldn't like him, so I didn't pay attention to it so much, and I didn't have anything to do with that boy at that time.

Later, we were sophomores in high school, and we changed positions, and I was very close to that boy, but I never thought about it much, because he was not the type I liked at all, but at that time I thought about things too simply, and I thought that a boy, as long as he was good to me, and his character was good, he could be married.

Later, I saw that the boy was not in good health, and I felt that after all, he was also a classmate or should he be concerned! Then I bought him some medicine, he may have been a little moved! Coupled with the fact that we sat relatively close to each other and often borrowed things from me, maybe he had a crush on me and officially started chasing me!

A lot of people often quarrel, break up often, cheat often, break up often, and then get back together, but this union doesn't solve anything. Because there will be quarrels and breakups, cheats and breakups, and the last few times. Only understand compounding and don't understand symbiosis, in the end it is not a basket of water.

So, today I want to share with you how to restructure without repeating the same mistakes. You have to understand that the breakup is because of the problems between the two of you, and that breaking up and reuniting and reuniting and honoring will not solve the problem. Because you're together because of your relationship, but the problems that happened before will keep exacerbating and eroding your relationship.

Find out why and how you broke up; There are many reasons for a breakup, such as personality conflicts, cheating, long-distance relationships, or family feuds.

A broken mirror cannot be assembled, but it refers to a mirror. You feel that the people who want to go back to the past are regaining their senses, not this person; I just want to leave that feeling in the past and not think about how to deal with love from the other person's point of view. People often ask:

After that, it's a pity that love didn't understand, and I didn't understand it before, until I experienced the pain of "almost impossible".

One reason to indulge in the past is that you only need to pay a small cost to get your own satisfaction. You can go back in time. In the recovery process, people mistakenly think that the recombination process is to fix past mistakes, but the real meaning of restoring a relationship is not to go back to the previous relationship pattern, but to start a new relationship all over again.

Love is harder and more precious. So, after a breakup, can we go back in time? Love with cracks can be happy, you have to go back in time, so you have to save it.

His recovery has become a way for you to maintain the good feelings of your previous relationship, rather than for you to restore perfect sincere love before the breakup, but it's up to you. Find out if you really love each other, and then see if the reason for the breakup is subjective or objective, impulsive or otherwise. Also, it also depends on the other side of you after your breakup.

Can the relationship go back to the way it used to be? Many say that broken mirrors cannot be reunited.

If there is a situation of redemption many times, everyone will find that the love between two people is different from what it used to be. At this time, it may make each other cherish the feelings between two people more. But in the process, some people may become more insecure.

At this time, there will always be some estrangement between the two sides, and after such a situation, everyone should also give each other enough trust. <>

Most people will encounter quarrels in the process of falling in love, and some people even directly propose to break up. But after the breakup, everyone will feel very uncomfortable, and at this time, many people will choose to take the initiative to save this relationship. But at this time, everyone will find that the relationship after redemption is different from the past, and both parties may be particularly insecure at this time.

It even makes everyone feel that two people have no common language, and everyone doesn't know what they should do. When such a situation occurs, everyone should also give enough trust to the other half. <>

But in the process, there are also some people who may cherish this relationship more. Because after losing this person, they know how important this person is, and they also know how uncomfortable they are after leaving this person. Therefore, in the process, they may cherish the time they spend together.

And with the joint efforts of both parties, the relationship between the two people will also be repaired. In the process, they are also more willing to trust each other and understand each other. <>

Therefore, different people may have different attitudes towards redeemed love. Some people may choose to break up with their other half because they are too willful, and they also want to compromise with their other half. However, after the breakup, everyone may be very sad, and at the same time feel that the other party loves them very much.

Therefore, at this time, there are also some people who will take the initiative to reconcile with the other half. If everyone loves each other, then don't always mention breaking up, which will also hurt the personal feelings of the two Yu Xun.

The same is a trillion. can be recovered, but it can't be divided, no matter what the reason, it is not divided, it is destined to be together, and there is only one or countless times to break up with Sun Ze, if you want to regret it, you can say goodbye once, or it is broken, there is a reason.

Don't hide your reputation, you must find another path, you must have some false changes, you must let the other party see your sincerity, and you must apologize a lot, and try not to rely on the other party with a dead face.

I think it's different from the relationship I used to, in this relationship, some people are already in a weak position, they are in an unequal position.

I now have a relationship that I particularly want to salvage, but I can't do anything, when he believes in me the most, I have not been honest with him about my debts because of low self-esteem, I broke up years ago, I gritted my teeth and worked hard, earn more money, the day before yesterday I finally paid off the arrears, yesterday when I was honest with him, he told me very calmly, it's all over, let me live well in the future, I said invite him to dinner, he said, since separated, don't meet again... This is the first time he has rejected me, the feeling in my heart, I can't say, in short, when I have the ability now, I really want to redeem him, but I feel that he is a lot colder, I hate my former self very much...

Yes. That's the first paragraph. At that time, I didn't understand anything when I fell in love for the first time, and I didn't know how to get along with each other.

He has been in love many times, I am a little white, every time he comes to me very enthusiastically, I am always reserved, he said that I always use a basin of cold water to extinguish all his enthusiasm, he can not warm me. Now I learned how to love someone, but he disappeared into the sea of people.

Yes It's been almost three months, and I'm still working on it!

Yes If I could turn back time, I wouldn't have gone to other places, and I'm the one who stays by his side now.

The first night of Lin's marriage, she sent me a message saying that he was wrong, that he couldn't help it now, that she was pregnant because of that time. He is so conflicted, he can't let go of me in his heart.

I read the news, and I couldn't calm down for a long time. In fact, what he didn't know was that he was my first love.

I was in the same class as him, and I didn't usually cross paths, but I really got to know him very well because we both liked to read, and we always met in the school library and study room. This is the beginning of fate.

I started talking about books, and then I talked about my ideals and my future. We walked together and had endless topics to talk about.

Slowly, I found that we had a lot of hobbies in common. For example, climbing, running, cycling, etc. So during that time, we spent a lot of time together, which made our relationship warm up very quickly, and we planned to have each other's future.

At that time, the days were very simple, the sky was very blue, and we were naturally together, there was no additional confession, no flowers and gifts, and some were just two people together.

At that time, my favorite thing to do was to come back after riding a bicycle and order a big bowl of steamed vegetables, and then the two of you feed me and I feed you. It's so hypocritical when you're in love.

When I was recruited in my senior year, I was hired by a company in another city, and I was eager to go to other places to increase my knowledge. We agreed that a year later I would quit my job and come back to marry him.

Like the TV series, he is chased and beaten by his schoolgirl who has a crush on him at the company, and ends up getting drunk after a party and then getting together. He told me about it and I broke up with him.

It didn't take long for him to be lucky enough to become a father. And I haven't come out of love yet.

I texted him back, wishing you happiness, don't contact you in the future, I don't want to know anything about you.

The reason why I want to save this relationship is because this relationship has been in my heart all these years, although there is some blood, but that feeling, that feeling of falling in love has never been found again.

Yes, because of my stubbornness, I pushed her to one of her netizens, only hehe.

I want my Scorpio back and I can't live without him